How he looks in person.

[Haxxors]

This question is more for the ladies. I was wondering how much do looks come into play. I know this is a business but once you see him in person do you ever say dam I hope he becomes a regular of mine or do you think meh I need the money lol. Maybe not crazy about looks but good in bed?? Just wanted your perspective on this. No right or wrong answer.

Thanks to all those who reply.

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by Haxxors

This question is more for the ladies. I was wondering how much do looks come into play. I know this is a business but once you see him in person do you ever say dam I hope he becomes a regular of mine or do you think meh I need the money lol. Maybe not crazy about looks but good in bed?? Just wanted your perspective on this. No right or wrong answer.

Thanks to all those who reply.

Of course they do. If you were a gigolo, would you rather have Kate Upton or Betty White as a regular? Even if Kate paid 50 bucks for a session and Betty paid 2,000 bucks for a session, I would still rather see Kate.

[tbone77494]

I've asked a similar question to a few face to face. More like, "do you ever look through the peephole and just think 'oh, hell no'." Honest answers are yes, but none admitted calling off the session. Most claimed, reasonably, that as long as hygiene was good they were ok. I mean, there is a reason K9 is usually the favorite provider position.

I'm no GQ model by any stretch but I am always clean - plus I shower at the incall every time just to be sure the lady knows. I also keep my stomach flat - I honestly think that's a big deal for the ladies. If you are clean, smell good, have fresh breath, and no beer belly - I think almost all of the ladies will be good to go and IOP will be dramatically better.

[pyramider]

The ladies enjoy my 1.3" of dangling death.

[LexusLover]

I don't blame the ladies for not "weighing in" on this thread.

But I wouldn't know one way or another whether he's "hot looking"!

[chicagoboy]

This thread will not be complete until NaN chimes in.

[Bigjohnson1]

I've asked the same thing to spa girls. Yes, they prefer if a guy is attractive to them and think of it as a bonus or an easier session so to speak. Also keep the YMMV rule in mind. Like in RL, just because one provider really likes you doesn't mean they all will. If you remind her of an ex of hers she is probably not going to put much into the session other than what she has to, even though she may find you attractive.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by LexusLover

I don't blame the ladies for not "weighing in" on this thread...

It is, indeed, a mite silly to expect (hope?) that providers will commit business suicide by thread for sheer entertainment.

I've always been an odd duck to begin with, so who and what I've found "hot" may not turn the head of another lady. I've experienced "lust at first glance," as well as that, "Oh, I'm in trouble here if I let my guard down," feeling when the chemistry was percolating. However, physical attraction is but one component of many in sensuality, as evidenced by the fact that as an older BBW of arguably plain features, I still get young hunks wanting to see me even after I tell them I'm not mommy fantasy material.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, blah, blah, blah.... Be clean, polite, over 40 with at least a wee sense of humor, and you're in like Flynn with me.

[sexy.princess]

Originally Posted by chicagoboy

This thread will not be complete until NaN chimes in.

I'm sure this is a person but I just read it and though sodium nitride

[Kneewalk]

Not unreasonable. Sodium nitride is pretty unstable as well :-)

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Kneewalk

Not unreasonable. Sodium nitride is pretty unstable as well :-)

Cool. Chemistry humor, Na 3 N. (Did I mention that nerds wind my carnal clock? ) Gold stars to Kneewalk and sexy.princess for periodic table awareness.

As I've often said, ECCIE is very educational.

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, ....

Does that explain why I look better in the mirror than IMO I do in the photos taken of me?

IJA.

[Victoria of Houston]

A skilled (smart) provider never kisses and tells.

[Wakeup]

On this topic, I can't believe y'all are interacting with this retread...

[Alyssa71]

Originally Posted by Kneewalk

Not unreasonable. Sodium nitride is pretty unstable as well :-)

Good one!