If I am buying the time....

[simplyjoe]

I just had a question that I would like some thoughts on. As a hobbist, sometimes I am in different moods. Most of the time, it is straight to naked and right to business. However, there are times I would like a provider to do a slow seductive strip-tease before we start. Then there are the times when I like to re-live those great days of high school and play strip poker. I understand that there does not have to be any build-up to the act because that is why I am there, but sometimes it is just what I am in the mood for. Is it okay to ask for these things since I am paying for the time and would like to get the most out of the appointment? Does anyone have any other "preliminaries" they like to do before they get to business?

[Fancyinheels]

Of course it's okay, sweetie! You're paying for her time with your money, and as long as whatever you're asking for doesn't violate the lady's personal "no" list, like asking for a trip to the isles with a non-Greek provider, you should get what you want at the pace you want it at. Might let her know ahead of time if she needs to bring va-va-voom music and a deck of cards, however. Most ladies, well, the good ones, are prepared for short and sweet or long and passionate if you're booking an hour or more, and isn't that the whole aspect of a GFE, anyway? Variety and flexibility? (Some of us are VERY flexible.)

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Of course it's okay, sweetie! You're paying for her time with your money, and as long as whatever you're asking for doesn't violate the lady's personal "no" list, like asking for a trip to the isles with a non-Greek provider, you should get what you want at the pace you want it at. Might let her know ahead of time if she needs to bring va-va-voom music and a deck of cards, however. Most ladies, well, the good ones, are prepared for short and sweet or long and passionate if you're booking an hour or more, and isn't that the whole aspect of a GFE, anyway? Variety and flexibility? (Some of us are VERY flexible.)

Hey Fancy, that's intriguing .Gymnast? LOL

Seriously though, she is right, hon. Check out her reviews and ask if she would be interested in what you have in mind during the time you are paying for. The worse she can do is say, no thank you. If that happens, then move on to the next hottie on your naughty list. I haven't played strip poker in years, but I normally don't wear much, so I'd be nekkid after a couple of losing hands...LOL Not to say I haven't played poker, I play that often enough. Spin the bottle sounds fun too...LOL. Of course ya might wanna add another lady or two for that game....I'm just sayin'.

[TheBizzer]

I've found the older, more mature, truly independent ladies to be much more accommodating to preliminaries and the "getting to know" you time, be it wine on the couch or strip poker or whatever. Most of the youngins have been taught and traine to turn customers as quickly as possible. Also, it's highly possible they're just not interested in getting to know some guy old enough to be their dad

[fawn]

Originally Posted by TheBizzer

I've found the older, more mature, truly independent ladies to be much more accommodating to preliminaries and the "getting to know" you time, be it wine on the couch or strip poker or whatever. Most of the youngins have been taught and traine to turn customers as quickly as possible. Also, it's highly possible they're just not interested in getting to know some guy old enough to be their dad

I have to agree with you here honey....on all accounts.....

[simplyjoe]

Of course, I understand that most ladies don,t carry a deck of cards around. I would provide those. And like you said Fancy, If it is on a "NO" list, I would not ask. And Max, A very long time since I played as well. But I had the urge last week, Checked out a few ladies. Called one, she laughed, said no, and asked if I wanted to see her and her friend. I politely declined. I just wanted to know if others thought it was silly. Like I said, trying to recapture a little of the youth that slipped away when I was at work.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by simplyjoe

Of course, I understand that most ladies don,t carry a deck of cards around. I would provide those. And like you said Fancy, If it is on a "NO" list, I would not ask. And Max, A very long time since I played as well. But I had the urge last week, Checked out a few ladies. Called one, she laughed, said no, and asked if I wanted to see her and her friend. I politely declined. I just wanted to know if others thought it was silly. Like I said, trying to recapture a little of the youth that slipped away when I was at work.

see, this is where ze's deck of providers could come in handy, esp. if all the cards had images of the woman you are visiting!!


as others have said, just ask politely and respectfully and go from there.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by simplyjoe

Of course, I understand that most ladies don,t carry a deck of cards around. I would provide those. And like you said Fancy, If it is on a "NO" list, I would not ask. And Max, A very long time since I played as well. But I had the urge last week, Checked out a few ladies. Called one, she laughed, said no, and asked if I wanted to see her and her friend. I politely declined. I just wanted to know if others thought it was silly. Like I said, trying to recapture a little of the youth that slipped away when I was at work.

Not silly at all. Fun and different for sure. Mix it up or become an automaton out there ladies. I wish she had taken you up on it, would have loved to see responses to that review.

[elgato111]

No, it is not too much to ask for something in particular that you want that is not on her no list. It has been my experience over the years that the younger the provider the less she interested in getting to know you hoping you will like the experience and come back again. The ladies that a little older and been in the business longer know how to treat a guy that is paying good money for her time and she wants him to enjoy his time with her and come back for more. I stopped seeing the young ones a long time ago for this very reason.

[luca_brasi]

Turns out I have had the opposite experience. I was seeing a much younger provider and at time couldn't get over the idea that I might just be boring the crap out of her, so I found "an older provider", it didn't work out all that well and it turns out those that are younger, at least the ones I see, are ok with the time to get to know each other and seem a lot more focused on the client. In my case I was originally self conscious about it but she had never made me feel weird about being older, so sometimes it's all in the guys heads. Going forward I am sticking with those I like and not worry about the age gap.

[Lana Warren]

Wanna re-live your teenage years? Let's play "quarters", then go parking! LOL!

[stateofmindtx]

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Wanna re-live your teenage years? Let's play "quarters", then go parking! LOL!

Now that brings back some memories...

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Wanna re-live your teenage years? Let's play "quarters", then go parking! LOL!

And end up with blue balls . . . .

[MaxiMilyen]

I have a teenage parking story. LOL Senior year of high school, I went parking with my then, future husband. We went to a local wooded area that was popular with the teenagers. It had lots of cul de sac's and private areas. We wove through the trees on the little lanes until we found what we thought was the perfect spot.

We pulled into our cozy little nook in my new Ford Escort. We broke out a beer for him and a Malt Duck (anyone remember that vile stuff?) for me. We talked and cut up a bit while drinking and then the making out started. Gosh, I remember how hot I was for him. He was on the football team, so he had a really hard body from working out. He was also voted Most Handsome in our school that year, so as you can imagine he was more than easy on the eyes and a juicy morsel of a young man, if ever there was one. Yes, I used to be a Shallow Hal, but have definitely grown in that aspect of my life. Anyway, I digress.

So, the making out had started and moved quickly into heavy petting, followed by the removal of several articles of clothing from both our bodies. Now here we are in my little Ford Escort, and we had laid the passenger seat back. I crawled over the console and was on top of him riding him CG. Needless to say, we were going at it hot and heavy, regardless of the cramped and uncomfortable conditions of my little car. We were totally oblivious to our surroundings and absolutely into the moment. Just as I came, there was a tapping on the driver's side window....which, btw was somewhat fogged up at the time. (imagine that...LOL)

Yep, you probably guessed it....we were totally busted by not just one, but two of our local friendly civil servants. Needless to say, the scramble for clothing was on!!! LOL We were both 18 at the time, so there weren't any legal age issues, thank goodness! Somehow, they managed to overlook or just flat out didn't see the alcohol in the vehicle.......whew. After a "friendly little chat" with the officers and checking of license, blah blah blah, they were kind enough to wait while we finished dressing and departed the area. Even had they left us alone and not waited, the moment was blown. :-(

At the time it was somewhat humiliating, but hey, at least I got "mine" before they interrupted us....LOL Sometimes the naughty little exhibitionist in me, wonders how long they had been there and what they were actually able to see.

Sorry for the hijack and back to the regularly scheduled programming.

[Carrie Hillcrest]

Originally Posted by pyramider

And end up with blue balls . . . .

Haha, right? My teenage romantic moments usually ended up prematurely ending due to parental (or one memorable time, security guard) interruption.