Do You Really Want Gents Walking Away

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Again, it's his choice to stay or not, to review or not, just as it's yours to have him leave or not, or tell him you don't want a review, or not. What he chooses to do shouldn't concern anyone but him.

God, just fucking shoot me, stab me, kill me now, 'cause I have to kind of agree with Wakeup.
Damn, damn, damn, *&^%$#@! (Sound of Fancy gagging at the thought.)

Although we would rather that gentlemen leave if they are just going through the motions or playing mind games, if they don't, well, that's a risk we ladies take putting ourselves out there as a product. It is his right to write a review, but it should also be the lady's right to offer a rebuttal and/or explanation. WHY is it okay for the guys to trash us but we can't trash back without being called a hooktard or kooktard? If we ask the gentleman to leave once he gets there as we just don't think the chemical reactions will gel, we get called out for being bitchtards. Double standards are alive and well in the Hobby, but I guess that's one of the parameters to be expected, alas.

Anyway, I happen to be one of the few providers to believe that escorts/companions/hookers/courtesans don't really have the right to institute a "no review" policy. Sure, we can ask, but we can't expect our request to be honored, as it IS the gentleman's choice and out of our control. (Unless you're a Dom, then you can gag and whip him.)

We are human, we have feelings, we deserve respect, but we providers are merchandising ourselves, and anything that anyone spends money on should have a consumer reports database, and that's what reviews are, like it or not. It is also just an opinion with a conclusion likely to be overturned in the next review, especially if there is noticeable improvement in the product or the perceptions of the previous reviewer were warped for whatever reason.

This is a case where size matters. If a lady has a substantive history of positive reviews, a few negative ones should be taken with a grain of salt.

[willdooit]

I f-ed once and stayed when I should have left . Then stupid me left a negative review and started a war of words.(how did she my review?) Lesson learned, LEAVE.

[Beau Derierre]

I agree with Wakeup...It's better to walk away. If your not satisfied with who you are about to spend personal time with just excuse yourself. It would be appropriate to do so in the first five minutes. I always like to get a feel for who I am sharing my time with. I have asked several gents over the years to leave. All money isn't good money. Bad company is worse than anything. For the gents side it kind of scores you bad brownie points for a future visit with a new lady. Most of us do look at posting history before seeing a new client.( I do anyways). If I see a client posts are about negative experiences..I just pass. If you are not happy with appearance , attitude etc...than just walk away.


Alyssa

[Guest022315]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Missed this the first time. Why in the hell would you do this?

I just think if I asked the lady to take time and screen me. She deserves something for that however I dont think most ladies screen as much as they want us to believe.

I noticed the ladies who advocate walking away have not addressed the retaliation some may take. Such as placing the gent name and handle and what not in alerts or provider buzz

As for me, I will continue to trust my due diligence. For me to walk away, means my research skills failed me miserably. Even the one or two times it may have failed me the session itself was pleasant enough

[mirandalee]

Ive never been in this situation but if I were I would want him to leave.

[Guest071514-1]

I have a couple times Miranda. The guy blowing smoke in my face, hell ya.... He called me back and I heard that smart ass voice and reminded him that he blew cigarette smoke in my face and demanded a refund. Hell no!