Role Reversal

[chicseeker]

This kink seems to be left un-discussed, so perhaps I am unique in my desires. I do not want to be beaten, forced to be what I want to be in the role of the moment. I desire to reverse roles in a romantic session. The F/M with a strap-on and in sexy lingerie and me too in sexy lingerie, not forced, but willing and have her take and seduce me into being her lover. A moment of sensuality, a moment where she controls me with passion, not pain. I know, it seems to make no sense. That is my thought.

[Ms. Athena]

Role reversal is such a sensual sexual playtime. Me in a body suite strapped up, you in sexy silky lingerie, legs encased in hose. I lay you back on the bed, leaning over you, kissing your deeply as I look into you eyes, telling you just how I am going to take you and make you my slut. Slowly kissing your ears and neck, seducing you to open those sexy legs and let me in...............Yes!! I do feel true role reversal makes you a better lover as you get to truly feel how it is to be in the others "shoes"

[Bancroft1957]

Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Role reversal is such a sensual sexual playtime. Me in a body suite strapped up, you in sexy silky lingerie, legs encased in hose. I lay you back on the bed, leaning over you, kissing your deeply as I look into you eyes, telling you just how I am going to take you and make you my slut. Slowly kissing your ears and neck, seducing you to open those sexy legs and let me in...............Yes!! I do feel true role reversal makes you a better lover as you get to truly feel how it is to be in the others "shoes"

Now how am I supposed to concentrate the rest of the afternoon? One raging hard-on waiting to be rubbed out!!

[Cpalmson]

Damn, where can I get some of that role reversal? I'd be interested.

[Lhornbk]

I have often fantasized about something like this, having a woman seduce as if I was a woman. I love wearing stockings and panties anyway, and having a woman seduce me while wearing them would be awesome. Maybe pulling me into her lap, caressing my body as she kisses me, eventually moving my hands to her breasts and then her strapon, seducing me into fondling her as well. Kissing my neck and nibbling and licking my ears. Eventually getting me to totally give in and allow her to take my ass. I'm hard just from typing it.

My favorite porn is lesbian porn. Partly just because I prefer seeing naked women, partly because seeing women together is just hot. But, I especially enjoy seduction scenes, because I imagine myself as the one being seduced.

Originally Posted by chicseeker

This kink seems to be left un-discussed, so perhaps I am unique in my desires. I do not want to be beaten, forced to be what I want to be in the role of the moment. I desire to reverse roles in a romantic session. The F/M with a strap-on and in sexy lingerie and me too in sexy lingerie, not forced, but willing and have her take and seduce me into being her lover. A moment of sensuality, a moment where she controls me with passion, not pain. I know, it seems to make no sense. That is my thought.

[chicseeker]

I am glad to know that I am not the only one that seeks a tender and almost loving experience. As men we are not taught to hit or abuse, nor do many of us desire to be. On the other hand I am held to performance criteria at work, home or in bed, I would just love to know how it feels to be loved, pleased, dressed up and made love to romantically. There is a new option for a provider to try. They may just be onto something. Just IMHO.

[DallasRain]

I agree with sexy MsAthena..I am more of a sensual type fetish girl...therefore my sessions tend to be more playful & sensual.

Yes,role reversal play can be so erotic when done with a slow sensual touch!

So naughty men,bring some lingerie and let's get it on!!

[spice-is-nice]

chicseeker,

I NEVER tire of role play, and activities such as you describe are one of my favorites. I think there are plenty of women in here who will love playing like this with you if you start searching around and letting what you want be known. Post something in the Coed or ISO areas for Dallas and I'd bet you'll get responses.

Certainly Ms. Athena and Dallas Rain, who have already commented, are wonderful, as are Paulina Payne and Yummy Marie. I don't know the Dallas ladies, but, I'd wager there are some who would like this very much.

My very best experience of the sort you are describing was with Yummy Marie here in Houston several months ago, see if you like this (long):

I've seen Yummy Marie quite a few times over the last year, and she quickly made my ATF list. She is smart, funny, passionate, kind, enthusiastically bisexual, remarkably open minded and adventurous, and (like me) loves role play. I think she has an absolutely beautiful face. She is open on her website that her body isn't perfect after childbearing and major weight loss, but I find her body an attractive MILF body--and what she has between her ears is the most important element of all, and that's a 20 on a scale of 10 for me, which is why I keep going back. I think the pictures on her website represent her appearance very well. I find that when I think of her between times, all I can accurately visualize is her beautiful face and incandescent smile.

We've played from BFE/GFE to extreme toy play to moderately intense Domination/submission games (with me as the sub). I also enjoy crossdressing in lingerie and stockings now and then, which I've done a handful of times with her.

Before seeing her this week, I emailed her and asked her what scenario she'd like to try (I frequently do this, and she has great ideas, sometimes surprising me in a good way). It turns out that she had gone to a strip club this week and really loved her interaction with one of the dancers there, and she wanted to do that scenario, with the twist that she would be the stripper, and I would be her, LOL.

I loved the idea, but wanted more of a backstory about why I, in the role of Emily, would be coming to a strip club by myself. We concocted a background of me as a very tall, flat-chested, very high achieving girl, all of which had made me poor date material for typical guys. My dating and my handful of sexual encounters had ranged from somewhat unpleasant to only mildly enjoyable and no orgasms.

I thought I just had low sex drive, but one day, now at age 30, I was talking with a lesbian friend and she asked me if I'd ever been with a woman. That had never even occurred to me to think about (a story I've heard in real life from some lesbians I know), and when I started considering it, I was gobsmacked to see how attractive I found women and the thought of them as sexual partners. However as a virgin to this, I was nervous about my appearance and my inexperience and how to meet a woman. My friend said she had a suggestion which might sound unusual--that there was a bisexual woman at a high end strip club who loved to see women of all sizes, shapes, and descriptions, and that seeing her would be a non-threatening way to begin learning how to love a woman.

So that was the back story for our role play. YM and I decided to meet for 2 hours, initially in our own personas to chat and share drinks and make out a bit, before we went to separate rooms to change. I put on crotchless pantyhose, panties, and a camisole/chemise long enough to pass for a dress for our scenario and came out to her kitchen counter which served as the bar of the strip club. Back to the role play:

Marie approached me and was delighted and excited to find out that she had been recommended to me for my first serious encounter with a woman. I bought her drinks and paid for dances and for time in a VIP room being teased and titillated and stroked. In my role as Emily I was blown away by being with this beautiful woman and by the sensations I was feeling, and discovering that far from being asexual or frigid, I was capable of being incredibly responsive.

Marie eventually asked me if I would like to go home with her after work, which of course I did. I was deeply engrossed in the role I was inhabiting and hugely excited by the whole thing. Marie led the way in the softest, gentlest kissing and caressing I have ever experienced, with me copying what she was doing to me in what I did with her. It all felt very real to be Emily in this story and to experience her sexual awakening at the hands of an experienced and generous lover, and to try to be a woman in how we went about things.

She drove me crazy with attention to my always sensitive nipples, working down to rub and go down on my big "clit". For the last several months, I have been increasingly learning to experience non-ejeculatory Os and had 5 or 6 of those to her various ministrations. After a while she asked if I wanted to learn to eat pussy. There is only one right answer to this question of course. I quickly found out how turned on Marie was by this role play as she came remarkably quickly, surprising both of us, and came 3 or 4 more times to DATY or DATY plus FIV, and a couple more with a Hitachi Magic Wand added to the mix. There is no doubting whether Marie is experiencing genuine orgasms as she is a squirter. One fun note about that was that her juices tasted positively sweet--which I shared with her so she could see. She thought it had to do with the vegetable juices she had been drinking recently. Anyway, she eventually asked if I would "put on a strap-on" so she could feel me inside her (clever I thought). She embarked in a long, slow ride in CG, during which she came another couple of times, as did I. We switched to missionary so that she could play with my nipples and kiss me while I got into a rhythm for a very intense O with ejaculation. In a little while I recovered sufficiently to get up and dispose of the party hat, and returned to the bed where we lay together softly kissing and stroking and sharing our wonder at how deeply we had gotten into our roles, how real it had felt, and how getting so deeply into those roles eventually resulted in incendiary sexuality.

I am not bisexual or transexual, but I found that I got deeply into my role as a woman for this role play. I actually felt nervous when Marie, as the stripper, approached me and started asking questions. I felt as if I really were a virgin experiencing these sensations for the first time. I loved the soft touching and kissing and the slow pace to our sensuality. It has all left me thinking hard about male and female roles. I certainly have no intention of playing this way as a primary activity, but we all have some male and some female aspects to ourselves, and I would definitely like to use role play like this to explore this further from time to time.

Marie is simply an amazing person to be with. If,you want a highly intelligent and imaginative partner who is great fun to talk to and likely up for trying almost anything, then I can't imagine finding anyone better than Marie. Treat her well and your efforts will be repaid manyfold

[chicseeker]

If a DFW lady is interested...I am ready. Please post or PM.

[Ms. Athena]

Italian Princess is your girl in the Dallas area............

[Guest032117]

I love this type of experience. Good luck

[Ms. Athena]

Originally Posted by Bancroft1957

Now how am I supposed to concentrate the rest of the afternoon? One raging hard-on waiting to be rubbed out!!

Well by all means feel free to stroke and cum for me, as cumming is a simple pleasure of life, why deny yourself? Maybe Ill finish my story and we can both have a sweet cum together.....Slurp~~

[Cpalmson]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I agree with sexy MsAthena..I am more of a sensual type fetish girl...therefore my sessions tend to be more playful & sensual.

Yes,role reversal play can be so erotic when done with a slow sensual touch!

So naughty men,bring some lingerie and let's get it on!!

Can't you provide the lingerie? That would be even more sensual I wouldn't even know where to start or size to get. Plus, it would be "awkward" to be buying.

[DallasRain]

I do carry some lingerie with me for such uses....If the client lets me know about what size and his fave color,I will accomodate!

[chicseeker]

Well, I seem to not be able to find this experience here. At time wish I was in Houston. Oh well.