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BigDeal · 02-27-2014, 04:31 PM

Ok I didnt want to hijack Special K's (Kaylens) thread...but I have a couple of questions and thoughts that other hobbyist or providers might be able to answer!

I love getting blowjobs and cumming from them as much as the next guy and because of my age (early 50's) I prefer longer appointments just because I like to take my time and do things right & not be rushed and I enjoy giving back pleasure more maybe than getting it

Do I masterbate... yes ...we all do and in parts of my life years ago maybe too much and appears it has desensitized me

.....so how do I get that back?

I feel bad as when Im getting a great Blowjob from a lady and she seems to appear frustrated that its taking too long or she feels Im not turned on by her or (she's doing it wrong)...usually not the case of either...its just me.

Can any of you ladies help the BigDeal get his "Oh God Im cumming face" back again from a BJ?

I realize some will say "honey come see me" and Ill help...but for now I need answers

BigDeal over and out!!

vitokc · 02-27-2014, 04:48 PM

Not a lady, but I have been there. Cut back on the masturbation. Cut back on Porn. Watch it less and don't jack off. Get an Asian massage with no HE, and don't jack off afterwards. If you ride a bike with at traditional seat, change the seat or do other forms of cardio. This should make you horny again and build up a good load. Plus the ladies will feel proud they did it for you.

LNK · 02-27-2014, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by vitokc

Not a lady, but I have been there. Cut back on the masturbation. Cut back on Porn. Watch it less and don't jack off. Get an Asian massage with no HE, and don't jack off afterwards. If you ride a bike with at traditional seat, change the seat or do other forms of cardio. This should make you horny again and build up a good load. Plus the ladies will feel proud they did it for you.

+1, especially in the 2-3 days before.

I generally get some kind of release every day, but try hard to refrain for a couple of days ahead of time if I can.

SexyKaylen · 02-27-2014, 05:04 PM

+1 cut back on the masturbation for sure babe

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Originally Posted by vitokc

Not a lady, but I have been there. Cut back on the masturbation. Cut back on Porn. Watch it less and don't jack off. Get an Asian massage with no HE, and don't jack off afterwards. If you ride a bike with at traditional seat, change the seat or do other forms of cardio. This should make you horny again and build up a good load. Plus the ladies will feel proud they did it for you.

OLindsay · 02-27-2014, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by vitokc

Not a lady, but I have been there. Cut back on the masturbation. Cut back on Porn. Watch it less and don't jack off. Get an Asian massage with no HE, and don't jack off afterwards. If you ride a bike with at traditional seat, change the seat or do other forms of cardio. This should make you horny again and build up a good load. Plus the ladies will feel proud they did it for you.

Best advice I know.

BigDeal · 02-27-2014, 07:13 PM

Really I agree...if I know the session is gonna be a 2 hr fuckfest...I may wax the dolphin before hand. But to be honest I watch very little porn anymore it just doesnt do it for me...I like my action live.....as a matter of fact an local UTR provider I have seen several times has porn on during session and really its her that does it for me....not the porn

I think another thing that causes this issue is pressure...whether it be time....or the lady is getting a sore jaw....or a slight slip of the teeth...yikes!!

Do providers or just women have the same issue??

MsElena · 02-27-2014, 07:55 PM

Try mixing it up with a little bit of a HJ thrown in too.

I've never allowed a client to CIM, but they do adore my BJ's because I throw in some extra's....its not just a straight BJ.

bikebryan · 02-27-2014, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by vitokc

Not a lady, but I have been there. Cut back on the masturbation. Cut back on Porn. Watch it less and don't jack off. Get an Asian massage with no HE, and don't jack off afterwards. If you ride a bike with at traditional seat, change the seat or do other forms of cardio. This should make you horny again and build up a good load. Plus the ladies will feel proud they did it for you.

I have to ask: what is a "traditional" bike seat? I ride 250+ miles per week on a racing saddle - basically a piece of leather or plastic stretched over two metal rails with very little padding - and have NO problems such as this.

royamcr · 02-27-2014, 10:01 PM

Lay off the ED meds.

LNK · 02-27-2014, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by bikebryan

I have to ask: what is a "traditional" bike seat? I ride 250+ miles per week on a racing saddle - basically a piece of leather or plastic stretched over two metal rails with very little padding - and have NO problems such as this.

I would say that the racing saddle is probably what he means as a "traditional" bike seat.

Google "bike seat impotence".

royamcr · 02-28-2014, 08:06 AM

Maybe this would help that problem.

Smoking Monkey · 02-28-2014, 08:23 AM

I looove BJs, but I also sometimes have problems "getting there". Often, it takes a lot of time to get to the O and I feel bad for the lady that she has to keep up the sucking for such a long time. In reality, it's probably less than ten minutes, but it seems much longer. If it's a really wet and sloppy BJ, it helps and if some hand action is thrown in there every once and awhile that also gets me there faster. I know that I should lay off the ED meds too, but I like the security of those little pills.

vitokc · 02-28-2014, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by bikebryan

I have to ask: what is a "traditional" bike seat? I ride 250+ miles per week on a racing saddle - basically a piece of leather or plastic stretched over two metal rails with very little padding - and have NO problems such as this.

I meant the plain bike seat, just flat, hard, little cushion. Mostly found on lower end bikes or cheap gym exercise bikes..They can pound your sensitive area and affect performance. I have no idea what a racing saddle looks like. Mine is cushioned with a gap in the middle to reduce risk to sensitive area. Not everyone is as vulnerable as your hard core, bad ass cyclists. It does affect some mortals that may ride a paltry 100 miles a week. I was just suggesting eliminating things that MAY affect performance of us average males.

vitokc · 02-28-2014, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by royamcr

Maybe this would help that problem.

Ouch or wow? Add a little motor and you might be ready for Shark Tank.
Sorry mods, going off topic.

vitokc · 02-28-2014, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Smoking Monkey

I looove BJs, but I also sometimes have problems "getting there". Often, it takes a lot of time to get to the O and I feel bad for the lady that she has to keep up the sucking for such a long time. In reality, it's probably less than ten minutes, but it seems much longer. If it's a really wet and sloppy BJ, it helps and if some hand action is thrown in there every once and awhile that also gets me there faster. I know that I should lay off the ED meds too, but I like the security of those little pills.

I think some us can id with this and what the OP brought up. That is why I am hesitant to try the little blue pill. Along with the side effects of course. Could be too much of a good thing. Going a couple of days of not taking care of myself seems to work for me.
Communicate with the lady as well. Is she squeezing too hard? Too soft? Shift your body a bit so she can hit it from a different angle. Or ask her to change angle. Pull it to one side or the other, front or back.You may discover a spot that has not been hit before. Get that prostate action going. I am still discovering new ones since the old ones have become less sensitive.
At my age, still looking for things that work.