Lions and cougars and milfs, oh my!

[heidilynnla]

Flipping through the channels, I stumbled upon "Stella Got Her Groove Back".
I could be wrong, but I think this movie was the start of the "40 is the new 20" mentality.

As a barely 40 something, I don't think I would be doing as well in the industry if not for the hype and I like to give credit where credit is due. Demi and Ashton, Cameron and Justin, etc... I have always been attracted to older guys and it amazes me how many calls I get from young guys. It's cute and flattering.

Any thoughts or opinions on age? If you are an older guy that prefers younger women, please chime in as well.

[Thanks Obama]

I like to look for maturity and most of the woman who have that are older then me which I prefer. With maturity comes wisdom and with wisdom comes experience. Someone who can teach me things. I don't believe the hype about the Ashton Demi thing about younger guys wanting older woman all of a sudden, it has always been there. Don't forget about Mrs's Robinson! I don't know to many men who hadn't had a "hot for teacher" daydream in high school. Just MO

[pornodave69]

Ever since I was probably 16 or 18 I thought 40 year old women were perfect. They weren't young girls but women. And women in their prime. Great figures and curves in all the right places.

I'm almost 45 and I still find women in the 40 year range to be my type and they tend to be the ones I see the most when I do play.

Younger women can be nice once in a while but I find a woman around 40 knows what she likes, knows what she wants and is comfortable enough with herself to let the passion flow and the sparks fly.

[heidilynnla]

Ahh, I did forget Mrs. Robinson! I think the Ashton and Demi made more people talk about it or made it more "acceptable".

[Thanks Obama]

Yes I do have to agree with you about being more "acceptable", but I don't like how the media blew it up so now they have all these cougar dating scams, I mean sites exploiting this "new" fad. It was a lot hotter when it was more riskee then tolerable!

+1 PD
I ripe berry always makes a fine wine but an early year is nice every now and then.

[heidilynnla]

Nice quote, T.O.
That's the beauty of the hobby...something for everyone. I recently saw a 21 year old. That was a first, but he was very polite and cooperative with screening. He was handsome and it was flattering that this hot youngster was paying me to see him. It was fine until he asked if I had any kids! Lol I could be his momma. That really freaked me out and made me feel weird. I think my new age restriction is anyone less than 18 years younger than I am....maybe even 21 years!

[Falcon58]

for me, I am 55 and I enjoy women of all ages, provided there is an attraction and a connection. The connection is the more challenging part to gauge. It helps to have some pre-meeting correspondence. That gives me a good idea to their "maturity" which does not necessarily imply they are in their 50s, 40s, or 30s. My least amount of hobby experiences have been with those in their 20s..but that doesn't mean I am not open to that either.

[heidilynnla]

I agree Falcon (BTW are you lost here in the NOLA forum?
Lovely Callie and Lovely Lolita are a few prime examples that some ladies under 25 can provide the total package of youth, professionalism, GFE and a little kink...

[heidilynnla]

oops

[DallasRain]

i have NEVER been the nomal kinda girl...big surprise? lol

i have always been attracted to the "older" man....i do have younger clients,but since i am close to a "typical" hobbyist age i seem to have a stronger connection with the 40 and up age brackett..

[chellachella]

Stiffler's Mom off of American Pie has made life easy for me. Of course Im not that dumb, but the curvy blonde with boobs, yep that is me, and younger guys love it.

Flattering of course, and I have found that younger men are more respectful, and are willing to go the extra mile to make you happy.

Not to knock the older guys at all, or the ones my age. But my experience with them in my personal life has been hell. They are playing games, and usually looking for some type of affirmation that they still have it, and piece a woman's body apart and her flaws. I dont care what they (older men) think of me, because if I have some hot younger guy thinking I am the shit, then thats all that matters lol.

[Thanks Obama]

Originally Posted by heidilynnla

Nice quote, T.O.
That's the beauty of the hobby...something for everyone. I recently saw a 21 year old. That was a first, but he was very polite and cooperative with screening. He was handsome and it was flattering that this hot youngster was paying me to see him. It was fine until he asked if I had any kids! Lol I could be his momma. That really freaked me out and made me feel weird. I think my new age restriction is anyone less than 18 years younger than I am....maybe even 21 years!

Lol..I think that would be an akward moment. I wouldn't have passed up an opportunity when I was in my late teens to get on some of my friends moms. As akward as it might of have been. Don't know if I could of looked my friend in the eyes if It did happened though. I would of been glad to be their "pool boy" any day. Still would to this day actually.

Age is just a number. It's all on what number you prefer

[LA Man]

Damn Chella your are hard on us old men......

[chellachella]

I didnt say all older men, just my overall experience with most older guys. There is a big difference once a certain age is reached--at least from the guys I have met. Who knows, maybe Im just bad at picking men lol

There are exceptions though....and just like you guys and your preferences, I have mine. All the ladies do. We are all human. At least I hope so

[leehf321]

No offense taken Chella, I totally agree, to each her own. In my particular case I prefer flawless women who chose wisely.