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JustaGuyinMS · 09-13-2010, 03:41 PM

In my role as moderator on another state's board, I read (and approved) a review that had an interesting twist on PSE. I had always thought of PSE as GFE extreme - in other words, GFE but with a number of things you would not expect from most girl friends. Maybe it's greek or asian or CIM and swallow or whatever, but it's what you'd expect from a porn star.

The review expressed a negative view of PSE - he felt that it was just pounding until culmination - no girl friend aspects at all, maybe even no foreplay. I've seen ladies like that - get it up, get it in, cum, and go. I never thought of that as PSE before; I just thought of it as poor service, albeit with the desired result.

So, what do ya'll think PSE is compared to GFE?

JAG

DallasRain · 09-13-2010, 04:59 PM

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I had always thought of PSE as GFE extreme - in other words, GFE but with a number of things you would not expect from most girl friends. Maybe it's greek or asian or CIM and swallow or whatever, but it's what you'd expect from a porn star.

that sums it all up babe....I would consider that to be what a pse provider should provide during the session!

elcid180 · 09-13-2010, 05:10 PM

I have to agree with both JAG & Dallas. I have seen plenty of porn in my life but when it came to real life I never expected to have a PSE experience, (thanks Dallas, April & Belinda for opening my eyes), but with a lady who is my ATF (no slight to the other ladies) I feel a connection so I think that would fall more in the realm of GFE.

Don't get me wrong even at my age having a PSE experience is something to look forward to as those ladies mentioned above just flat out know how to turn you every which way but loose which is another PSE experience.

As to the GFE experience for me most of it is the anticipation of seeing that special lady.

JxnBiLady · 09-14-2010, 12:22 AM

I think I started a similar thread some time ago. Even at the end of the thread, I wasn't clear on the difference. I read somewhere that the only providers the author considered to be PSE were actual touring porn stars. I think I have to agree.
I happily do greek, CIM, COB, etc., but never considered myself providing a PSE. I provide a naughty GFE... all the things your girlfriend will do plus all the things you wish she would do!

Perhaps PSE involves faking orgasms? If so, that's not me!!

JustaGuyinMS · 09-14-2010, 01:41 PM

Naughty GFE - I llike that! Thanks, Tess, I actually think you cleared it up in my mind.

JAG

DallasRain · 09-14-2010, 02:39 PM

I like "naughty pse"......
you are sooooo bad Tess!!wooohooooooo!!!!

I dont like labels =though....to me,its all good!!
I call mine....All inclusive/No Holes Barred/Balls To The Wall/Hanging From The Ceiling Fan/ Toe Curling/Mind Blowing/Hair Raising Sexy Fun!!!!!!!!

JxnBiLady · 09-14-2010, 02:59 PM

Dallas -- But aren't all PSE supposed to be naughty?

It sounds like yours is way more PSE than GFE... I don't know that I could even handle the Dallas experience! Kudos to those who have experienced and survived it!

I'll remain the naughty girlfriend. The quiet one no one expects to curl their toes.

elcid180 · 09-14-2010, 05:26 PM

I bet you do one helluva a job in the toe curling dept. The naughty gfe description works

Lea Madisson · 09-15-2010, 12:54 AM

I have always thought GFE was more kissing, holding, maybe even chatting a little then when bed time came... more open to BBBJ, CIM, etc...

PSE was always "balls to the walls, let's fuck, have you seen this toy yet?, Don't stop now dude, we still have miles to go, scream and wake your neighbor, talk filthy dirty and slap my ass" sex...

I love doing both!!

However, I am going to still an acromyn from a gentleman in another thread... I am also OFF (Old Fart Friendly)... isn't that right JAG????

Smooch!

Lea

JustaGuyinMS · 09-15-2010, 06:53 AM

Lea, you certainly are OFF, and you're exactly who I think of when I think of an example of a lady who's a GFE AND a PSE. But I'm really do appreciate that you're OFF the most.

guest051312 · 09-15-2010, 06:54 AM

I have always considered you to be way beyond GFE and PSE. You always bring an A+ game to your sessions.

DallasRain · 09-15-2010, 08:58 AM

lol--damn Lea..I am so hot for you right now!!!!!

{you summed it up for me too..I love pse/gfe/fetish...dont label it..just call it SEXY FUN}

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

I have always thought GFE was more kissing, holding, maybe even chatting a little then when bed time came... more open to BBBJ, CIM, etc...

PSE was always "balls to the walls, let's fuck, have you seen this toy yet?, Don't stop now dude, we still have miles to go, scream and wake your neighbor, talk filthy dirty and slap my ass" sex...

I love doing both!!

However, I am going to still an acromyn from a gentleman in another thread... I am also OFF (Old Fart Friendly)... isn't that right JAG????

Smooch!

Lea

kastagr98 · 09-15-2010, 09:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

I have always thought GFE was more kissing, holding, maybe even chatting a little then when bed time came... more open to BBBJ, CIM, etc...

PSE was always "balls to the walls, let's fuck, have you seen this toy yet?, Don't stop now dude, we still have miles to go, scream and wake your neighbor, talk filthy dirty and slap my ass" sex...

Lea

I have to agree with much of the above. The GFE seemed to have more of a sweetness it to it (the kind that would have kept me around), while the PSE was exciting and even athletic, but not suppossed to be close. Even if you are doing the exact same activities, the attitude with them seems to make the difference.

I can say that some days, only GFE scratches the itch, and on other days, I am looking for more PSE. To me there is a real difference, but I never really thought much about it till now.

Interesting thread guys.

KAsta

beetle · 09-15-2010, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

I have always thought GFE was more kissing, holding, maybe even chatting a little then when bed time came... more open to BBBJ, CIM, etc...

PSE was always "balls to the walls, let's fuck, have you seen this toy yet?, Don't stop now dude, we still have miles to go, scream and wake your neighbor, talk filthy dirty and slap my ass" sex...

I love doing both!!

However, I am going to still an acromyn from a gentleman in another thread... I am also OFF (Old Fart Friendly)... isn't that right JAG????

Smooch!

Lea

Damn Lea, now I know what to call what we did this weekend. LOL.... And I thought it was just pure FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;-)

JustaGuyinMS · 09-15-2010, 09:07 PM

So, Beetle, which toys did you see?