I can only speak for myself.. & I probably shouldn't say this - but - I hardly even check the clock when you walk in the door, so I'm going off elapsed time in my mind. The Q, HH, HR sessions are there for those who like variety, but until your Q starts to turn into an HR - there's no compensation or BB left to be discussed.
I am not high volume or low - I see who I want to see, when I want to see them - no matter how many calls come in.
I think that's the problem with this thing -
PERCEPTION. "Oh, she offers short sessions - she must see 20 guys a day" umm, no, actually -
I don't. & some of the other ladies don't either. No one really knows how any of the ladies run their business, or why - just a lot of opinions. That's great, but it's creating a not so good, overshadow, for some.
Not every client is looking for a wife outside of their marriage. Or a long term mistress.. Not everyone is looking for a GFE (whatever that may be, under any category) & not everyone is looking to provide as such.. so what difference does it make if someone offers a Q or HH - if you don't want it - don't do it. That's why we are all different, with different menus, & different looks.
I set time limits to give guys an option. I HAVE THE CHOICE to say "Oh, I only offer hours - but if you want to leave within 15-30 minutes - you will still pay me for the hour.. " Maybe later, but right now - it feels good to have options. Not every one has the extra "hour's" worth of time on their hands.. Not everyone can "hobby" frequently & get to know ladies for the hour. Not every provider wants to have that connection with ALL of their clients either. We all know what we're here for - the GF part of your experience - is really just a plus. But, you'd never think of that way - it's part of what you're "supposed" to get.. no?
While I was in SAT, I had a guy request an hour.. I spent the entire hour,
talking to his hip. I asked him, "Is this all you'd like for me to do? Talk - to - your - hip?" His response was, I'd like that.
5 minutes into his hour - he's not done listening to my sweet nothings - but he wants to change the way he's receiving them - he wants to stand up..
10 minutes into his hour - he asks me if I have
something for him to wear, so we can do something else.. I say "yes - you're about to go over your hour.."
15 minutes into his hour - we're done.. should I have asked for compensation? YES! Another c note for 15 MORE add'l minutes of
my time. But, I let it go.
The guys who want an hour with me, get just that, the guys who want 15 or 30, get that too. So, I win some - I may lose some, due to their perception, but I still win. The guys who come for quickies - normally come for 30 mins to an hour later on, bc I knocked socks off with a nice cup of coffee.
The guys that come for that, always get more time than requested.. I tend to have them over for about.. 20-30 minutes, at least 5-10 of those are spent "warming up" to each other. I don't watch the clock - What for? Yea, it's a 15 minute thing, but if I'm paying that much attention to the clock.. I can't do what I'm supposed to & I just shouldn't offer that, because time will always go over. The men who contact me, do their job without me having to give them direction.. I mean, as I said - they knew what they came for.. I've never had to rush anyone out. Unless you're going over an hour - there's no need to do so. Im not expecting you to handle your biz within the first 5 minutes. EVEN WITH A QUICK STOP - I still put in the same amount of work. It's my duty to make sure that You Come Happy & Leave HAPPIER, drained of stress.
But, this is just me.
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Originally Posted by atlcomedy
Diana, I got it and I appreciate your colorful analogies, but the real question is what do you do with the guy that orders the coffee break so to speak but is not thru with the cup when his break is over?
I have to imagine every gal that offers a quickie session watches the clock closely. To not do so just seems bad business. So, for anyone that has dealt with this, as a provider or client, how is it handled. Do you stop him mid-thrust and ask if he wants to extend his session? Do you politely wait til he is finished and inform him he went over and ask him for additional funds. Do you just note it and if he ever calls for a repeat tell him he is ineligible for the short session?
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