Using BP

[onei]

I get so tired of seeing guys being ripped off on BP, or even putting themselves in a very serious situation. Some of you guys need to stop thinking with your dicks and start treating this like any other business opportunity and actually use the head on your shoulders … if you insist on using BP.

Here's "some" of the low-down on BP. Count on this to be true most of the time:
1. 95% plus of the ads you see on BP fall into the following categories: scam artist, pre-planned rip off, gang related, managed, strung-out, used up, bait and switch, and the list goes on. When you click on BP "UNDERSTAND THAT UP FRONT!"
2. There are a few legit providers that post on BP, but you've got to be patient and DO YOUR HOMEWORK!!!! And that doesn't mean sending her a quick text to see if she responds.
3. Some ECCIE girls advertise on BP. Know who they are as you can often see an ad from them when you won't see one on ECCIE. Also because they advertise on BP does not make them sub-par. In fact some really great ECCIE girls started on BP.
4. Also, some BP girls will try to migrate to ECCIE but not be able to make the transition and go back to their holes. However, they usually have at least an ad and a picture, and usually a few who TOFTT that posted a review or alert – TAKE NOTICE! — Notice I didn't say jump in with both feet, just take note and do your homework.

What I do that has worked for me:
1. I flip through BP daily so I am familiar with who is there.
2. I check out the reviews on ECCIE of BP girls and make mental notes of who is good and who is not. (No, I'm not that good and usually forget who is good and who is not, but I'm familiar with the pics and remember more than I give myself credit for).
3. When someone catches my eye I start my deeper investigation.
A. Check escortphonesearch.com and such sites
B. Google pics and phone number(s)
C. Do a deep search of ECCIE for anything on said girl
D. Ask around in the men's lounge if I cannot find anything.
E. Think with my big head and don't get in a hurry.

THE ONLY TIME I HAVE EVER BEEN BURNED ON BP IS WHEN I DIDN'T FOLLOW THE PLAN ABOVE. I have seen at least 6 providers in the past two years from BP that have been good, and half I have given a repeat visit. And for the record, when you don't do your homework, you can get just as burned on ECCIE as you will on BP, but the odds are much greater on BP. (do I need to bring out old posts of guys getting things stolen from them, rumors of guys hiding in closets taking pics, stalking, NCNS, etc, etc, etc, – all from ECCIE girls.)

Bottom line: Be safe, be smart, quit thinking with your limp dicks and do your damn homework. Then if you still get burned (and it does happen) – write a review and let everyone know.

[Fingerling]

Maybe it would also help if we start posting who we know or "think" are safe and real prospects. Here are some that I THINK may be real. If you look carefully, there is a way an ad looks that make it "feel" more authentic. So far, it has not failed me yet. But even if it does, I can always walk away.

http://austin.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...772-21/9251494


http://austin.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...e-_-21/7623275


She posted on ECCIE, but even if she didn't the ad looks legit
http://austin.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...now-23/9311783

[Secret_Amore]

Originally Posted by onei

I get so tired of seeing guys being ripped off on BP, or even putting themselves in a very serious situation. Some of you guys need to stop thinking with your dicks and start treating this like any other business opportunity and actually use the head on your shoulders … if you insist on using BP.

Well I DID try and help at one point with this problem and provide a List...but then all the women got pissed off called me traitor and was like she breaking the "hoe code" (what ever the fuck that is) Burned

Originally Posted by onei

Here's "some" of the low-down on BP. Count on this to be true most of the time:
1. 95% plus of the ads you see on BP fall into the following categories: scam artist, pre-planned rip off, gang related, managed, strung-out, used up, bait and switch, and the list goes on. When you click on BP "UNDERSTAND THAT UP FRONT!"

>_> Dude that not even true 95%. Even with you mentioning eccie ladies also utilizing BP 95% is just unreasonably high

[NikkiWhite]

I think some people get off on the bp hoe adventure experience . The "is it her or not?", "what will happen?" gets some guys off.


I dont think its fair to say who on bp is real or not or try to give them a coded safety rating if u havent been bcd u just dont know

[Fingerling]

The link to the 2nd one is wrong. But there's a review on Sammi today. Turns out it's not her, but like I said, you can always walk away.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...t=720+495+7648

[Austins1hobby]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I think some people get off on the bp hoe adventure experience . The "is it her or not?", "what will happen?" gets some guys off.


I dont think its fair to say who on bp is real or not or try to give them a coded safety rating if u havent been bcd u just dont know

Honestly Nikki most of us search BP for 1 of 2 reasons:
1. We want to find the diamond in the rough
2. More ads on BP daily versus eccie (meaning we don't know when you providers are working or not.

We can see the green dot on your profiles showing that you are logged in but a lot of the time you all aren't on and then if you are on some don't like short notice.
I have been burned in the past by BP and I have not used a BP provider in a while because of it.

Something that might help us hobbyist know if a certain provider is working is putting it in your showcase.

EX. under availability instead of having a broad view narrow that view to working 1/4/14 thru 1/5/14 incall only from 10am to 7pm text me or PM me if you are wanting to book. That would help us see who is working and not wait for ads to pop up. Most cases we can wait for hours hoping an ad pops and nothing then we go to BP.

My 2cents

[Loxly]

I'd agree that those are good basic guidelines for ANY site. It boils down to Research, research, research regardless if it's ECCIE, EROS or any other site. I've even seen providers advertising on AFF.

SA's attempt to help out was just a bit overwhelming though good intended. As you stated it's really up to us to have a bit of self-control when scouring the Provider Universe.

[shayla84]

Sorry I dont believe in the hoe code I guess lol If your a bitch and a scammer then your a bitch and scammer. I am sure there are good girls on bp, but 1st thing should always be safety, so much can happen, theres just as much risk for a man as there is for the women. Think with your head not your hormones.

[onei]

Shayla and Loxly — Exactly!

[Secret_Amore]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I think some people get off on the bp hoe adventure experience . The "is it her or not?", "what will happen?" gets some guys off.


I dont think its fair to say who on bp is real or not or try to give them a coded safety rating if u havent been bcd u just dont know

yes because a girl who changes numbers 5x and uses stolen porn star pics and pics of legit Verified Provider here on eccie are so damn likely to be legit themselves.

[Austins1hobby]

Originally Posted by shayla84

Sorry I dont believe in the hoe code I guess lol If your a bitch and a scammer then your a bitch and scammer. I am sure there are good girls on bp, but 1st thing should always be safety, so much can happen, theres just as much risk for a man as there is for the women. Think with your head not your hormones.

I personally think through my actions when it comes to BP and eccie. There are flakes here just like there are on BP I think the guys here are less likely to say anything because of fear of being bombarded with comebacks. BP is convenient that's why guys still go regardless of what they are thinking with they want to release and when they try to text or PM a provider they have seen before and NEVER get a response then BP becomes the 2nd choice.

If a hobbyist has a hour window to get in some fun in short notice the likely hood of finding your ATF or an eccie provider drops fast because most do not do short notice but BP ladies do and that's when mistakes happen. We do still have to be smart and safe and ask some key questions to be able to dig and find out if they are legit.

[NikkiWhite]

Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

yes because a girl who changes numbers 5x and uses stolen porn star pics and pics of legit Verified Provider here on eccie are so damn likely to be legit themselves.

Yeah obviously they wouldnt be legit if they are using stolen pics lol changing ur number a few times doesnt mean ur not legit to thats ur opinion not a fact so it would be unfair for say just some random girl to deem someone unsafe just because of that right? Maybe the bitch breaks her phone alot.

Either way aint no reason to jump down my throat.

[NikkiWhite]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Honestly Nikki most of us search BP for 1 of 2 reasons:
1. We want to find the diamond in the rough
2. More ads on BP daily versus eccie (meaning we don't know when you providers are working or not.

We can see the green dot on your profiles showing that you are logged in but a lot of the time you all aren't on and then if you are on some don't like short notice.
I have been burned in the past by BP and I have not used a BP provider in a while because of it.

Something that might help us hobbyist know if a certain provider is working is putting it in your showcase.

EX. under availability instead of having a broad view narrow that view to working 1/4/14 thru 1/5/14 incall only from 10am to 7pm text me or PM me if you are wanting to book. That would help us see who is working and not wait for ads to pop up. Most cases we can wait for hours hoping an ad pops and nothing then we go to BP.

My 2cents

oh no I get that some are just looking for a last minute hottie with litle to no screening available asap.

but ive also been on my end of the business about 8 years and trust me some people get off on the sterotypical "john meets hoe" danger. More than u think. Some of these guys who are consistently getting robbed on bp are getting off on it.

[Austins1hobby]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

oh no I get that some are just looking for a last minute hottie with litle to no screening available asap.

but ive also been on my end of the business about 8 years and trust me some people get off on the sterotypical "john meets hoe" danger. More than u think. Some of these guys who are consistently getting robbed on bp are getting off on it.

I see your point.

[Guest061414-1]

I just want to get off on nikkiwhite