When you open the door.......

[ESwho'snext?]

I guess this one is more for the guys.

When you open the door what do you want to see?

Taking into account that we all have different taste in things we like in our TYPE of provider. What do you want to see ON your favorite provider?

I find that I am a very visual person. Just like many other things in life I like when it looks good. Cars look better clean and shiny, food taste better when nicely plated, even yards look better when they are groomed.

While I like to see a lady that is fit and takes care of herself. A lot of it has to do with the dressing. I have seen girls that most women would kill to have a body like look like crap because they didn't bother to fix themselves up. And I have seen BBW that would make your jaw drop because she knew how to put it together.

I should point out that I am not a quickie or hhr type of guy. I want more than the sex.

But I would love to hear what you guys think about this. Am I strange because I want a lady to prep herself for me then slowly undress so I can see everything as it comes into view?

[Marshpirate]

I do like yoga pants and a nice, low-cut top, wearing minimal make-up, hair up in a bun or pony tail, if applicable. A pair of specs adds to the milf next door persona. But, if its going to be an overnighter, I plan a nice evening of food, drink and dancing. So in this case, a slinky cocktail dress with naughtiness underneath. I still like minimal make-up. Her hair down and heels. If her feet get sore from the dancing, thats the signal that it's time to retire for a footrub.

[Nicolet]

I like to surprise my gentleman. I may come to the door dressed in jeans, a t-shirt, and socks. But when I step into my room for a minute, I come out in lingerie, stockings and heels (that I was secretly wearing already)! The same applies when I travel to meet a gentleman, I will dress according to the surroundings, but underneath, I have some sexy lingerie.

[ESwho'snext?]

I understand that different dates require different outfits. As Marsh points out. But there is a big difference from "I wanted to look nice for you" and "Ok here is my body. Do me and get out."

[Nicolet]

@ Marshpirate, did you get the sense that I was a 'do me and get out' kind of lady? LOL

[Marshpirate]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

I like to surprise my gentleman. I may come to the door dressed in jeans, a t-shirt, and socks. But when I step into my room for a minute, I come out in lingerie, stockings and heels (that I was secretly wearing already)! The same applies when I travel to meet a gentleman, I will dress according to the surroundings, but underneath, I have some sexy lingerie.

Yes, yes she does! It's quite jaw dropping.

[DallasRain]

GREAT QUESTION BABY!!!!

I dress according to my mood or whatever the situation calls for.

when I travel,it is easier for me to dress accordingly.I will wear a sexy tight wifebeater/daisy dukes and funky kneee high socks {my trademark} or I will wear lingerie/bra & panty with high heel boots or pumps.

In my new place,I have to greet you by the gate,so I dress in jeans and a nice top for discretion....I am just getting the routine down,so now I am going to start going into the bathroom and come out "in lingerie" or "something more revealing".

[Marshpirate]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

@ Marshpirate, did you get the sense that I was a 'do me and get out' kind of lady? LOL

Negative, I was just kicking myself for forgetting my snorkel!
You are a Jedi Master of seduction.

ES: I am sure that as your great chicken/feather sig line talks about finding your kink. I am sure that there are men out there that may enjoy the "do me and leave" types just as there are those of us who enjoy the drawn out, sometimes weeks long, anticipation and seduction.

Good thread.

[ESwho'snext?]

Thanks Marsh.

Dallas,
I totally understand that you have to be discrete as most in this hobby do. I am sure as Nicolet says she does, going into the next room to change for her date. I am totally fine with that type of thing. I think it is more in the attitude that I am looking for. But this is yet another reason I no longer like to see backpage girls. While there may be some diamonds out there, I will wait till they are a little more polished.

[Nicolet]

Smart man, ES!

[DallasRain]

it is a great question...........how you feel about yourself & life is what you should portray in your dress/appearance....... I also will dress accordingly to a clients request if I have the outfit

[ESwho'snext?]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

it is a great question...........how you feel about yourself & life is what you should portray in your dress/appearance....... I also will dress accordingly to a clients request if I have the outfit

As I have heard many times. Dress for the job you want, not the job you have. Hell if I dressed for the job I have I know many of you ladies would slam the door in my face lol.

[Marshpirate]

I had a NSA GF a while back that I would see every couple of weeks. She took demented joy in surprising the crap out of me every time we met. Once when we were going out on the town, with reservations at a steak house, I was running late, she was running later, i parked and jogged up to her door in a hurry to go, she answered naked, grabbed me by my lapels and proceeded to have her way with me on her living room floor. Awesome!

Another time, I show up and she's mowing her lawn. She's dressed in shorts and an old tank top, sweaty and dirty. I took her in her garage.

I never knew if she was going to answer the door wearing a nurses uniform or a clown suit.

[Marshpirate]

Originally Posted by ESwho'snext?

As I have heard many times. Dress for the job you want, not the job you have. Hell if I dressed for the job I have I know many of you ladies would slam the door in my face lol.

Tried that twice, NASCAR and NASA, didn't go over well.

ES, would you consider creating a parallel poll/thread asking the ladies the same thing? I'd be interested in that as well.

[ESwho'snext?]

Originally Posted by Marshpirate

Tried that twice, NASCAR and NASA, didn't go over well.

ES, would you consider creating a parallel poll/thread asking the ladies the same thing? I'd be interested in that as well.

It was when I did the LE that I got in trouble lol.

Do you want a poll asking what they want us in or what they want to be in?