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funnyboy · 09-01-2010, 10:47 AM

Put this on the national board, but wanted some local input as well...

OK, I am doing some traveling (Chicago, Houston, Dallas, DC & Vegas) for work over the next couple of months and intend to make up for what has been a dismal year in the hobby, most time spent in SCs hunting SC girls...

Anyway, as i was doing my research I found a lot of ads that had MILF either in the title or in the ad itself. This included CL, BP and here on ECCIE. Many of the girls were 19 to 22.

So one question for the ladies. How do you decide to put MILF in your ad?

One question for the gents. What do you consider a MILF?

For me, MILF is mid to late 30s, mature, distinguished with a wild side. Sexually open and has a knowledge of what they want. Looks like the mom of the teenager next door....is not the teenager next door.

For me, 19-22, is a young cookie that I use to build my ego, every once in a while.

Thoughts?

newcummer · 09-01-2010, 10:49 AM

This is San Antonio...milfs start at a young age...just check out the teenage pregnancy rate!

Seriously, I agree with you on what you believe to me a MILF...

Mature Companion · 09-01-2010, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by funnyboy

Put this on the national board, but wanted some local input as well...

OK, I am doing some traveling (Chicago, Houston, Dallas, DC & Vegas) for work over the next couple of months and intend to make up for what has been a dismal year in the hobby, most time spent in SCs hunting SC girls...

Anyway, as i was doing my research I found a lot of ads that had MILF either in the title or in the ad itself. This included CL, BP and here on ECCIE. Many of the girls were 19 to 22.

So one question for the ladies. How do you decide to put MILF in your ad?

One question for the gents. What do you consider a MILF?

For me, MILF is mid to late 30s, mature, distinguished with a wild side. Sexually open and has a knowledge of what they want. Looks like the mom of the teenager next door....is not the teenager next door.

For me, 19-22, is a young cookie that I use to build my ego, every once in a while.

Thoughts?

Regardless of their age. IF their a mom. Then YES they can be considered a M.I.L.F.
Age has absolutely NOTHING to do with with being a milf. It's about whether or not your a mother. Sadly enough many young females are moms.
There's someone out there who thinks that particular *mom* is someone they'd like to f*ck. Regardless of age.

My personal definition of Milf is--------->>>>

Mature
Insatiable
Lady
Friend

in which any female can be called a M.I.L.F

JSmith2010 · 09-01-2010, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

Regardless of their age. IF their a mom. Then YES they can be considered a M.I.L.F.
Age has absolutely NOTHING to do with with being a milf. It's about whether or not your a mother. Sadly enough many young females are moms.
There's someone out there who thinks that particular *mom* is someone they'd like to f*ck. Regardless of age.

My personal definition of Milf is--------->>>>

Mature
Insatiable
Lady
Friend

in which any female can be called a M.I.L.F

You're talking the acronym too literally.

MsPrittiKitti · 09-01-2010, 04:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by newcummer

This is San Antonio...milfs start at a young age...just check out the teenage pregnancy rate!

Seriously, I agree with you on what you believe to me a MILF...

newcummer,
you definately made me giggle with your statement.
but i totally agree with you.

funnyboy · 09-01-2010, 04:58 PM

I guess this is what had me thinking. Much like some of the generic acronyms, like PSE, GFE as examples, MILF has different meanings to different people. As my definition above, MILF to me is a mature lady whom I would fantasize about having intimate relations with. But when a 20 year old puts MILF in her ad, is she telling us she has a child or is she indicating she is a mature insatiable lady friend??? Or is she using the acronym so she is precieved in a certain way, trying to mask her young age?

Mature Companion · 09-01-2010, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by JSmith2010

You're talking the acronym too literally.

No, I'm not.

Guys have mentioned they don't understand why providers of young age call themselves MILFs in their Ads. I explained it. And also added MY definition of it.

Which is a lot more tasteful.

Quote:

Originally Posted by funnyboy

I guess this is what had me thinking. when a 20 year old puts MILF in her ad, is she telling us she has a child or is she indicating she is a mature insatiable lady friend??? Or is she using the acronym so she is precieved in a certain way, trying to mask her young age?

She more than likely has children. The mature Insatiable Lady friend. Was my own personal definition of milf. Which is befitting of me. And I'm sure it is of others too.

I doubt many young girls w/o children. Want to be perceived in any way that would mask their young age. As many of them already know that there are men out there who'll only see young girls.

One thing to keep in mind. Regardless of her *mature* age. If a woman hasn't had kids.
She won't take to kindly to being called a milf. And that's a mistake guys make.
Calling women whom never had kids, (milfs).

pickupkid · 09-01-2010, 05:44 PM

I prefer an milf to 20 year old. I like older women than to younger women. To me older women are not clock watchers.

FootLong · 09-01-2010, 08:17 PM

Regardless of what the term literally means (from the movie "American Pie"), regardless of what WM thinks it means, to most guys the term refers to a mature woman. You have only to look at porn clips on internet to see the clear connection between "MILF" and mature age.

If you think about it, whether a provider is an actual "mom" or not is personal info. It actually should not be divulged. I personally think the term should not be used in the hobby, we should use the word "mature" instead.

Mature Companion · 09-01-2010, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by FootLong

Regardless of what the term literally means (from the movie "American Pie"), regardless of what WM thinks it means, to most guys the term refers to a mature woman. You have only to look at porn clips on internet to see the clear connection between "MILF" and mature age.

If you think about it, whether a provider is an actual "mom" or not is personal info. It actually should not be divulged. I personally think the term should not be used in the hobby, we should use the word "mature" instead.

So your saying it only refers to older women.

And milf should not be used in the hobby. Rather only use the word mature. Yeah okay. You got it buddy.

Sexy Roxanne · 09-01-2010, 10:43 PM

OK to me a MILF is a lady that has a child already, no mater what her age is. Even though I'd like to think of them as being older than 20, but not the case these days or in the old days really. However a Cougar is a mature lady that seeks younger men. My 2cents.

Bull149 · 09-01-2010, 10:52 PM

I know a 24 year old provider who has 4 children. Does she qualify. While mature works for me, at least they should be of the age to be a mother of a teenager. Granted in TX that can be as early as the late 20s. In fact the 24 year old will be something like 27 when she qualifies.

All that said mature is a state of development as much as it is a number of birthdays. I have know women 50+ who while getting old are still not mature.

The English language is to imprecise for such hair splitting definitions, so there will always be room for discussion.

newcummer · 09-02-2010, 07:26 AM

Roxanne basically nailed it in a simple and basic manner. Really not sure how else to describe it...

textodd11 · 09-02-2010, 09:38 AM

Yes, to me MILF definitely brings up an image associated with maturity and age. Whether that's right, wrong or literal doesn't really matter, it is what it is. When I see MILF as a descriptor, I definitely am not picturing someone younger than about 30 whether she has children or not. I'm also pretty sure that I'm not outside the mainstream in this way of thinking.

funnyboy · 09-02-2010, 09:58 AM

This then spurs another question in my mind (great discussion so far by the way)...I know there are those that don't think a single acronym can explain a person but

if MILF = any woman that has had children
Cougar = a woman looking for younger men as described by the formula in the general interest area (which I love by the way)

Then is there a designation for the 30 + woman? I am 40ish, mostly not looking for a 20 year old, not looking for someone who would be considered a cougar if she was with someone at my age, so what is in between?