What is a high class provider to you?

[Christina Watkins]

I aspire to be one, so tell me; what makes a girl high class in your opinion?

Inquiring minds want to know!

[awl4knot]

These are the basics:

Immaculate personal hygiene

Well done nails, hair and make-up

Stylish, classy and classic clothes, including lingerie

Immaculate in-call with romantic touches

Immaculate TCB meaning prompt responses, quick screening and being ready on time

Great sexual skills and the ability to create the illusion of passion.

good social skills including interesting conversations

Welcoming and enthusiastic attitude

Beyond these basics, it's simply a matter of adopting your style, and advertising, to create the level of customer that you wish to attract. Many of the ladies that I see at $300 (moderate in my area) are as classy as dames who charge five times that rate, since class is different than flashy looks. But if you stick to the basics you will quickly attract the type of guys who will treat you with respect and become repeat customers.

[Ansley]

What awl4not said. You will also find quite a few threads in this section that will be able to help you out. The first thread of this forum has lots of great information.

[CJ7]

Originally Posted by christina86

I aspire to be one, so tell me; what makes a girl high class in your opinion?

Inquiring minds want to know!

http://trumpescorts.com/

[Christina Watkins]

Thanks for the responses, they seem pretty in line with what I had in mind. I want exactly as said by all4knot, respectful guys who are easy to be passionate with. I hate when a man comes to my home and starts telling me "take it bitch" and things like that. I believe it's a man's right to get what he wants (within reason) when he's spending his money to be there. However, I'm just not the girl for these activities. I'm the girl who wants to pamper you, talk to you about your day, what you did and what you dream of doing. I want to cook you dinner or go on a date and then rub your feet after I blow your mind in the bedroom. I'm just not the girl to be pushy or rude with, I have no problems being assertive when it's required of me and though I have only been doing this a short period of time I've had to cut a few guys off. It seems that some men believe a call girl is equivalent to the value of zero, but then maybe most girls are ashamed of it and allow themselves to believe what society thinks of them.

My situation is a bit different, it's never been about desperation for me and I've never had to hide who I am in this world. My husband held my hand every step of the way during the path to this discovery and was incredibly supportive as well. Obviously we have a unique relationship that allows us to do this with no hurt feeling on his end of things. In fact he is the one who is currently busting his butt fixing, painting and decorating our new house so that I have a nice in call. He's also the one who takes my daughter to the park, movies, Et cetera... during the afternoon and other times that would normally be inconvenient to see guests. I'm sure there are bound to be men who are turned off to this fact, but it is just that, a fact. I'm married to my best friend and wouldn't change it for anything. To the rest of you, my hubby sends his regards, best wishes and this message "Please remember that my wife is a human being just like you."

My point is this, any girl should be as lucky as I am and because of my uniquely advantageous circumstance in the hobby world, I'm going to do my best to deliver an equally unique and genuine performance that I hope my hobbyists will reminisce over for years to come. In fact, I feel that just became my mission statement.

[pjorourke]

How many of these "high class" threads are there?

awl4knot has some good points. I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class.

But like most marketing issues, the answer lies in putting yourself in your "clients" shoes. Pretend you have the money to pay a lady $500 an hour for multiple hours and maybe pay for a 4 star hotel room too. You can do this without spending the rent or car payment money. Think about how such a person might live. What kind of things would freak them out? In a word - visibility. This isn't their life. This is an escape - a diversion. The last thing they want is anything that looks out of place for their surroundings. They want to have a good time, but blend in. People like this inhabit the same social strata. That guy at the next table might be a customer next month. They don't want to be remembered by them as "the guy with the bimbo" at the next table. There is plenty of time to get freaky in the bedroom, but not in the lobby or over dinner.

If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead.

[Christina Watkins]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

How many of these "high class" threads are there?

awl4knot has some good points. I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class.

But like most marketing issues, the answer lies in putting yourself in your "clients" shoes. Pretend you have the money to pay a lady $500 an hour for multiple hours and maybe pay for a 4 star hotel room too. You can do this without spending the rent or car payment money. Think about how such a person might live. What kind of things would freak them out? In a word - visibility. This isn't their life. This is an escape - a diversion. The last thing they want is anything that looks out of place for their surroundings. They want to have a good time, but blend in. People like this inhabit the same social strata. That guy at the next table might be a customer next month. They don't want to be remembered by them as "the guy with the bimbo" at the next table. There is plenty of time to get freaky in the bedroom, but not in the lobby or over dinner.

If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead.

I really enjoyed your opinion here, wise words on the subject of interpreting perspective. Thank you!

[CJ7]

I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class

4 hrs --$9500.00 ... both.

[Nicolet]

Its all in how a woman carries herself. Are you as comfortable in the atmosphere of those who frequent the Ritz and places similar, and just as comfortable at the local watering hole with the working stiffs? Both spend their hard earned money on an unforgettable experience with a lady. If you can pull that off, you should do well!
Be a chameleon! Blend in your surroundings!

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

How many of these "high class" threads are there?

awl4knot has some good points. I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class.

But like most marketing issues, the answer lies in putting yourself in your "clients" shoes. Pretend you have the money to pay a lady $500 an hour for multiple hours and maybe pay for a 4 star hotel room too. You can do this without spending the rent or car payment money. Think about how such a person might live. What kind of things would freak them out? In a word - visibility. This isn't their life. This is an escape - a diversion. The last thing they want is anything that looks out of place for their surroundings. They want to have a good time, but blend in. People like this inhabit the same social strata. That guy at the next table might be a customer next month. They don't want to be remembered by them as "the guy with the bimbo" at the next table. There is plenty of time to get freaky in the bedroom, but not in the lobby or over dinner.

If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead.

I agree 100%. Go and observe...figure out how to blend in...see how other ladies interact with men you are trying to attract and emulate them. I wrote a post in a similar thread, some of the advice was Houston specific, but you may find some useful tips:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=888709&page=3

Good luck!

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

Its all in how a woman carries herself. Are you as comfortable in the atmosphere of those who frequent the Ritz and places similar, and just as comfortable at the local watering hole with the working stiffs? Both spend their hard earned money on an unforgettable experience with a lady. If you can pull that off, you should do well!
Be a chameleon! Blend in your surroundings!

Also good advice!

[pjorourke]

Originally Posted by CJ7

I think CJ7 is confusing hot with high class

4 hrs --$9500.00 ... both.

Well, at least hot and expensive.

[awl4knot]

christina86,

I was speaking with another guy, who only sees "high class" ladies, about a new girl who had caught our eye. He did some research and found three negatives: she smoked, she had tats and she did half hour sessions.

I looked at your reviews and saw that you too have half hour session and BnG specials. I would ditch them since it cheapens your "brand". Maybe offer them as an accommodation to your best customers but keep it quiet. Just a thought.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

If you want to learn how to be classy, go observe people like that. Go to the lobby bar at the nearest Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton. Observe how people dress. Observe how they talk and act. Follow that lead.

Instead of the lobby bars, I would watch the people in the hotel restaurants. Often times the lobby bars are meat markets. A few years ago I went to the Ritz Carlton in Dallas with a couple of friends. That lobby bar was a huge party bar. If you want to learn how to pick up men, that would be a great place. If you want to learn how to blend in with a date, not so much.

[Marcus Aurelius]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

Maybe offer them as an accommodation to your best customers but keep it quiet. Just a thought.

Agreed.