Why do the ladies ask the guys of they are married!

[Houston.Epicurean]

This one is for the ladies or the guys if they know.

Are they looking for a date?

Are they screening for a husband?

Do they only want to see maried men to avoid entanglements?

Do they think it enhances the fantasy?

Are they worried about leaving marks!

As a part of getting to know each other after repeat encounters I get it, but on a first date?

Your thoughts?

[instfixer]

"""Are they screening for a husband?"""

Yup!

In the past , went to a 'spa' and my ring finger was rubbed around to see if makeup was applied to hide a ring mark. Except electrical workers CANNOT wear rings, it is a real deathly hazard.
But I told the truth is I am married.

[Great Cornholio]

It gets them wet thinking about the psycho wife drama to come.

[Wombat94]

I don't ask them who they are with outside of the session, its none of my business and I hate it when they ask me if I am married. To rationalize this shit you have to compartmentalize things so the last thing I want right as a session is starting is a reminder of what a pos I am.

[Pristy N]

Uh oh. I think I've been guilty of asking this. Not for any reason other than making conversation or breaking an awkward silence.
I'll make a mental note not to do it again.

I've has several hobbyists ask me the same thing.

[Wakeup]

The only people who care if you ask if they're married are the guys who are married...because they're embarrassed...no need to stop asking...

[instfixer]

"""It gets them wet thinking about the psycho wife drama to come."""

My ATF had a psycho wife drama experience once

[Guest071514-1]

I never ask, it doesn't matter. But truth be told banging a married guy with a ring on his finger gets my pussy wet!

[Guest123018]

I never ask

[Skipp]

I don't care if they ask, and I will answer truthfully. But I am cautious about giving out any identifying details before I know someone after regular visits. I don't want to set myself up for any blackmail or threats. As for anything else--it's all about making conversation and possibly becoming friends.

[Guest102114]

I only ask if I get asked about it. I personally think that it is rude.

[jazzguy]

I don't care if I am asked...but...it was strange when a provider started talking to me about her husband. Don't know why but it sounded creepy.

[SexyCassandra]

Its usually obvious when one is married...

[Guest062217]

Originally Posted by Skipp

I don't care if they ask, and I will answer truthfully. But I am cautious about giving out any identifying details before I know someone after regular visits. I don't want to set myself up for any blackmail or threats. As for anything else--it's all about making conversation and possibly becoming friends.

+1...

I don't care if they ask because I'm single....the Eternal Hobbyist..

[NMEufdaST8]

If she's asking because she needs to know if she should avoid scratches and excessive lipstick and such, no problem. But it otherwise need not come up.