MSAOG - Multiple Shot *Attempts* On Goal

[Netx9]

So I his is my cross to bear... I can get the first shot off pretty quickly... That's what I get for seeing the amazing and sexy friends I have. That's why, in part, I prefer an hour because I know I can be quick on the draw, especially with a great and sensual bbbj. Given the time constraints, I don't always get a second shot but i sure like trying. Love to kiss, cuddle, massage, lick, caress, etc, and yes, CFS so i hope to have the rest of the time to engage in the above activities. Also a good time to get to know someone. I don't have an issue getting back to full staff, just sometimes the tank doesn't fill back up and finish.

Wondering what you ladies think about someone like that? I can shoot twice but i sometimes feel bad when I don't, especially after you have done all you can, and even then some. I sometimes feel like I've let myself down or even let you down.... Just a matter of physiology and I'm not really interested in supplements or other assistance. Just want to enjoy myself. Would you like me (or someone like me) to tell you ahead of time? Is it a turnoff? Does it even matter to you?

For all of the ladies I've met, you make me feel like a king and is in no way directed to *any*of you. Just been thinking about this and wondered what you all thought.

This also isn't a question about staying the whole hour, early shot or not. That's been talked about in other threads. I've been lucky to meet ladies who make good on that arrangement, and sometimes a little more time. I truly enjoy myself more when I know my friend is enjoying themselves so I'll ask what I can do to help you O or just enjoy yourself. Just curious how you feel during that time if the gent doesn't finish.

Netx9 from Omaha

[Hollywood101]

That's actually a really good question. For me when I first started, I used to take it personally, like I wasn't doing something right. But now I understand that for some, two pops just isn't in the cards and I'm ok with that. As long as my date is happy then I'm happy. Whether I "O" or not, I always enjoy my company and time spent together. =-)

[Guest061815-1]

MSOG is very rare for me, too, but has happened. As long as I'm reasonably sure that my partner has enjoyed herself, as well, it's all good. But I won't even make it around the bases once if there's no GFE "click" between us.

(BTW, your post inspired me to come up with a new handle for someone: "Twopop Shakur." I toss it out there freely for the first one to come along and claim it.)

[Guest021214-02]

First of all I would like to say you have way to much time on your hands and you need some company..See Ya Sunday Night..It is not a turn off at all I also agree as long as the date ends Happy,Happy,Happy..I offer 1 1/2 hour dates just for that to have time to relax and reload but if it doesn't happen the 2 nd time hey had fun trying and I for one ask anybody I do not give up..Kinda like that little yappie dog on your pants leg and your trying to shake me off as your walking out the door.. pack a bag Sunday night might be one of those yappie dog nights..Just saying..To me as long as you are both happy with the ending that's what counts.As for me I O all the time with a little help from my friend .. Oh!!! by the way I don't think I'v ever had that prob..Just Me...Thanx and see ya soon...Dezirie

[repete offender]

Great thread and I really like how Dezirie has set up her appts!!!

[SAUrbanAnimal]

I've noticed the same problem since hitting the big Five Oh. Getting up for seconds is still in the cards but about 5 out of 7 times the tank is dry.

[Guest101314]

Aww netx9. I definitely offer MSOG if you want to try again. Just say something, or make a move because I can't read minds.

I also do not watch the clock and I try to not schedule appts too close together, just in case someone runs over.

Also, I would hope most of the providers realize that with age comes some limitations on sexual activities... hell, some young guys even have the same problem! It could be anything... maybe he just had too much stress on his brain that day. But you shouldn't feel bad if you can't perform to completion twice. Sex is only part of the fun of our date... we can do other semi sexual and non sexual things that are just as fun!

[Samcro84]

I have have had the same thoughts Netx9. MSOG's are very rare for me too, but I am always afraid of the first one too quick and then she is ready to kick me out.

But, I can also go for up to an hour before the shot. I am always afraid that I will go too long just because she is so awesome and beautiful and ????.

Maybe we should just let the fun happen and not worry so much or talk it out with the girl so all know what makes each happy.

Sorry just rambling.

[Guest101618]

I like MSAOG!

I certainly understand the problem though. Usually I only get one "O" in the hour, but I sure enjoy going for the second one. Then there are the glorious days you always remember. The UTR that just wasn't finished with me and took me through four amazing "O's" in the hour. Or the recent sweetheart who unexpectedly got me to three in under 30 minutes of incredibly sensual action. Those are the days you live for. I don't know what happens, whether the planets are aligned or she really needs my sexual energy.

[sms918]

Netx9, believe me when I say I know what your talking about.
first time too fast, no second time finish
first time fine, no second time finish first time fine, second time no start no matter how much encouragement(although fun)
msog rarer but always like option and providers who encourage play
one you didn't mention, no finish first time, no matter how much play
hobbyist feel bad, provider feel bad



rover, just wow

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by Rover14

I like MSAOG!
Then there are the glorious days you always remember. The UTR that just wasn't finished with me and took me through four amazing "O's" in the hour. Or the recent sweetheart who unexpectedly got me to three in under 30 minutes of incredibly sensual action. Those are the days you live for.

Ah yes, the glory days... When I could shoot like the proton packs in ghost busters! Seriously though, I think this is why I've become so good at foreplay over the years... Trying to postpone the first shot but making sure I'm so hot and bothered, when I did come, it was in fact so much that it could capture a ghost, make rainbows, and lead to world peace !

That reminds me, favorite quote from Ghostbusters :

Ray: Everything was fine with our system until the power grid was shut off by dickless here.
WALTER PECK: They caused an explosion!
MAYOR: Is this true?
DR. PETER VENKMAN: Yes it's true. This man has no dick.

[wheels69]

There have been time that I can cum like a busted pipe and times just a squirt or two ...it depends on the girl, my age, and RW situations.
I feel bad that she doing all she can to make me pop a second time, but its not going to happen ...usually when this happens..I ask if I can watch as she plays with herself or a massage for her or maybe some more daty :

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by PDid

(BTW, your post inspired me to come up with a new handle for someone: "Twopop Shakur." I toss it out there freely for the first one to come along and claim it.)

If only there was a drink that would help...

[Netx9]

... Or maybe you ladies might want to advertise that option so no one can be confused!



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[Guest101314]

Had a 90 min appt this morning... we completed twice and even tried for round three....