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Samus · 09-26-2013, 12:04 PM

This has been on my mind for a while, for the most part, the women I tried to see, never returned my pm or if they did it was a I don't see black guys or something along them lines. With that said, I think a handsome guy like myself should bow out. Yeah I enjoyed the pleasure and no strings attached days, but its obviously not working any more.

Any how, I think I should peace out and starting dating UTR. Let me know what you think ppl.

Altbier · 09-26-2013, 12:25 PM

Dude! I looked at the list of your reviews. If you're not having fun with those talented women, it's definitely time you called it quits.

Zhivago52 · 09-26-2013, 01:05 PM

Understandable. I recently went thru a stretch of last minute cancellations. I'm a long time hobbyist with a good rep and 100% positive recs and OKs on 411, so I know it's not that. It pops my hobby bubble when that happens. I'll put myself on the bench and behave for a few months, and venture back out with my ATF for a few sessions who always puts me in a good mood.

Samus · 09-26-2013, 01:10 PM

I think I'll do, that. I'm hitting the Bench for the rest of the year. In all reality, I might just move to Miami next year. They're some fine women down there. Finer than I have ever seen.

Ms Francisca · 09-26-2013, 02:30 PM

I am not very good at sugar coating things. Please do not take what I say as anything more than my honest opinion, given to help you have a better hobby experience.

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Originally Posted by Samus

This has been on my mind for a while,

If it is on your mind, it is time.
I do not recomend you quit, but it does seem as if you need what I call a "Vacation to the Real World"
I take them often...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Samus

for the most part, the women I tried to see, never returned my pm or if they did it was a I don't see black guys or something along them lines.

When you use the PM system to contact a Lady, she will do a search on eccie. She will 1st read your Reviews.

I honestly do not like reviews, but they are helpful to both hobbyists and providers in many ways.

Your reviews are mostly short dates or rates on special. Majority of ladies prefer a longer date.

You said you are young and black. Again, from a ladies perspective, you are hard work and a small chance, but a chance nevertheless of being a potential problem.
I truly. truly hate this happens, but it does eventually get better, but it does not get ok, IMHO.

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Originally Posted by Samus

With that said, I think a handsome guy like myself should bow out. Yeah I enjoyed the pleasure and no strings attached days, but its obviously not working any more.

Ok, I do not know what bow out means, but I do have a clue.
There is nothing wrong with being young. If anything, being young is a wonderful thing, but you are in a community where the majority (by far) communicate in English, not bow out.

Put yourself in the shoes of my business ...

Client 1- Young good looking black guy, probably has a big d*** n he will use it for exactly 23min. Looking for a quick date (nothing wrong with that). average spenditure $150

Client 2 - Older ugly gentleman regardless of color wanting 90mins. Have some wine, music, relax, mental seduction, touching, kissing, going into the bedroom...

Which client do you think is "A Good Day at the Office??

Quote:

Originally Posted by Samus

Any how, I think I should peace out and starting dating UTR. Let me know what you think ppl.

YES. If you know UTRs, I strongly recomend you see them. They tend to be a lot more personal and probably a better experience for you. just my 2cents.

Ms Francisca · 09-26-2013, 02:31 PM

Zhivago....... Hola amigo

mikedmato · 09-26-2013, 03:24 PM

It's time when you find a more enjoyable way of spending disposable income.. Get a gf for a while, go traveling, or find another hobby.. Hope all works out for you either way

chivalrous · 09-26-2013, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Ok, I do not know what bow out means, but I do have a clue.
There is nothing wrong with being young. If anything, being young is a wonderful thing, but you are in a community where the majority (by far) communicate in English, not bow out.

Huh? "Bow Out" happens to be a very common English idiom and a synonym for "retire".

Doglegg · 09-26-2013, 04:34 PM

I hate it that she can describe me to a 'T' and we have never been BCD.

J/K. Ms Francisca.

Bow out. In other words bow to the lady you have been dancing with, turn and walk away as another gentleman takes his place. A term well used in my opinion.

Dogg

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

I am not very good at sugar coating things. Please do not take what I say as anything more than my honest opinion, given to help you have a better hobby experience.

If it is on your mind, it is time.
I do not recomend you quit, but it does seem as if you need what I call a "Vacation to the Real World"
I take them often...

When you use the PM system to contact a Lady, she will do a search on eccie. She will 1st read your Reviews.

I honestly do not like reviews, but they are helpful to both hobbyists and providers in many ways.

Your reviews are mostly short dates or rates on special. Majority of ladies prefer a longer date.

You said you are young and black. Again, from a ladies perspective, you are hard work and a small chance, but a chance nevertheless of being a potential problem.
I truly. truly hate this happens, but it does eventually get better, but it does not get ok, IMHO.

Ok, I do not know what bow out means, but I do have a clue.
There is nothing wrong with being young. If anything, being young is a wonderful thing, but you are in a community where the majority (by far) communicate in English, not bow out.

Put yourself in the shoes of my business ...

Client 1- Young good looking black guy, probably has a big d*** n he will use it for exactly 23min. Looking for a quick date (nothing wrong with that). average spenditure $150

Client 2 - Older ugly gentleman regardless of color wanting 90mins. Have some wine, music, relax, mental seduction, touching, kissing, going into the bedroom...

Which client do you think is "A Good Day at the Office??

YES. If you know UTRs, I strongly recomend you see them. They tend to be a lot more personal and probably a better experience for you. just my 2cents.

SanAntonman · 09-26-2013, 04:41 PM

when one girl declines the offer, simply move on to another one....eventually you'll hit upon one that you will like and become a regular

Texas_361 · 09-26-2013, 04:47 PM

Have you ever thought of having a weekend getaway in Houston? Check some of those girls out as most are open to AA men. If you walk with a big stick, you might was well use it! Good luck!

Ms Francisca · 09-26-2013, 04:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doglegg

I hate it that she can describe me to a 'T' and we have never been BCD.

J/K. Ms Francisca.

Bow out. In other words bow to the lady you have been dancing with, turn and walk away as another gentleman takes his place. A term well used in my opinion.

Dogg

I did not know. I do apologize. guess I had no freakin clue after all,

BTW... Just want to clarify....I never said I did not like a young handsome black man with a big D*** because I do. And I would want plenty of time to enjoy him.

It is a lot more difficult for young men, especially black to find ladies but not impossible. Going to a "Get Together" always helps.

Another option is to book a longer date with a well known lady, pay an xtra 50/100 and charm her panties off

Then you have a life time reputable reference (priceless) and probably will be able to book quikies with her once she knows you.

Good Luck & again, I do apologize.

Samcro84 · 09-26-2013, 08:39 PM

It has been on my mind to. Been looking for a girl to see on a utr basis. Maybe weekly or ever couple of weeks. Had a planed date tomorrow, now no pm or txt today to confirm.

Good luck

TrmaOne · 09-26-2013, 08:58 PM

Ok...I'm going to stir the pot a bit. Why should it be necessary to pay extra to "charm her panties off" 200-300 hundred dollars an hour should be sufficient to put a smile on anyone's face. I'm not a young black male and find it difficult to spend time with nice ladies.
I can say that I am courteous, kind, giving, and a true gentleman and do get turned down.
I am truely thankful for the lovely ladies who I have had the pleasure to spend time with. I appreciate them immensly and will continue to do so. I am a very private person and work in a very busy profession which inhibits a long and drawn out seduction sorta say. Discretion for me is paramount so I don't attend socials for that reason. I think my professional image and creditabilty is far more important in paying my bills than a misinterpreted stero-type rebuttal.
I can say this for sure with confidence that the women get an enjoyable experience just a much as I do. It saddens me to see such "fill in the blank" within an adult community. This is not to cause any disdain to anyone but if it does, there may need to be some self reflection directed towards oneself.

I know it's off topic...sorry mods not trying to hijack this but shed only an opinion for some previous posts...
T-1

bearf15amc · 09-26-2013, 09:32 PM

You have to do what is right by you and you alone. I don't post or review much either for professional reasons and have been turned down, ncns, pm ignored...etc. sometimes it is only my bad perception and time seemed to help work everything out. Everyone hobbies for their own reasons, find yours or take a break. My advice, which is like...you know how that goes... is take a deep breath, contact a mature provider and take sometime. Maturity is an attitude not an age IMHO...

Bear