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chellachella · 09-06-2013, 06:49 PM

Objectification more broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object, without regard to their personality or dignity.

I mean, you men are just an object with money, and usually the provider doesnt care about anything else. Odd to think the tables are really reversed. The women are objectified as only being sex objects. The men are only worth the amount of money in their pockets. Ironic isnt it?

Guest051920 · 09-06-2013, 07:07 PM

Not really ironic.Guys often say I meet hot women in real life.Ladies often say I love guys no matter if they are overweight,bald,hairy back,ect. Both will say the right thing to make each other feel better but deep down some don't really feel that way.There maybe a few extreme cases in which both parties are interested in each other.To be honest it goes beyond the hobby.Some relationships are based on that premise.

chellachella · 09-06-2013, 07:12 PM

Im talking hobby. The consensus has been by therapists that women are victims because of objectification, only worth how great of a fuck they are in other words. However, men are only worth the amount of money they can pay. Apples to apples...

and you know that big obese guy is only getting fucked because he has money. He knows it but tells himself she really likes him. NOPE, she likes his money....

Just as he sees her worth based on how great the blow job was.

Guest062317-1 · 09-06-2013, 08:46 PM

I love u to pieces but I'm leaving this one alone

chellachella · 09-06-2013, 08:51 PM

LOL it is what happens when I drive for a long period of time, start thinking about stuff...I almost posted one titled "you wanna suck it?" then decided I need to save that one for another time

GlobeSpotter · 09-06-2013, 09:54 PM

It's about security.
Long ago, man provided security with strength.

today, the security a woman needs is.....wait for it....money!!!!

muny4huny · 09-07-2013, 02:09 AM

When I go to get my car detailed they don't give a damn about me either, I pay and get what I want then I leave. Isn't this a business? isn't it no different than any other business? Anyone who expects it to be is a moron. When the dentist is done cleaning your teeth do you ask for their private cell number for a free blowjob after work? You pay for a service, not for a friendship, if that is what you are seeking then go join one of those friends sites. If a provider wants more from me than my money I run like hell so by all means PLEASE see me as just cash, earn it and leave.

jl11 · 09-07-2013, 06:38 AM

Your companionship is the commodity and the hobbyist is the customer. You're profiting off of the goods and services that you're selling, and you're not selling the hobbyist.

The whole objectification line you mentioned is more of an example of a pimp turning out a trick.

chellachella · 09-07-2013, 12:07 PM

I wasnt referring to a pimp, I was referring to the argument by mental health professionals that women are victims because they are objectified. Just stating that in my view it works both ways.

Just a conversation piece. Apparently its over some heads lol

muny4huny · 09-07-2013, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by chellachella

I was referring to the argument by mental health professionals that women are victims because they are objectified.

If a woman can decide how to use it to make a baby, she can damn sure decide how to use it to pay the rent. A bunch of damn hypocrites that support Rowe v. Wade but not Rowe IN Wade. I can pay my lawyer 10 grand to fuck me in public but not 250 to get fucked in a hotel? I guess that's why porn is legal, as long as everyone can enjoy the fucking then it is legal. Besides, If 2000yrs ago a guy managed to live 33 years never holding a real job while traveling with a hooker I say the Pimp & Hoe business is grandfathered in.

Yea I said it!

leehf321 · 09-07-2013, 04:24 PM

wouldn't that be Wade IN Roe. or maybe you did mean the opposite.

jl11 · 09-08-2013, 09:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chellachella

I wasnt referring to a pimp, I was referring to the argument by mental health professionals that women are victims because they are objectified. Just stating that in my view it works both ways.

Just a conversation piece. Apparently its over some heads lol

I didn't say you were. I was giving an actual example of a human being treated as commodity in the sex industry.
Sorry but it doesn't work the other way around. Any male that whines about being a victim bc women are looking at him for his looks is not really a male, a strict Christian, or is gay.

chellachella · 09-08-2013, 09:45 AM

It could work the other way around. What if I only see you(the client) as a dollar sign. You come to see me, telling me your sob story as is if I care, and as I am counting the money while listening, Im thinking of my next salon appointment. You have only one worth to me, just as I would only be worth one thing to you. Even trade. Just wondering if it is damaging to men, like it is said to be for women?

Quite frankly, I dont see the difference when your married, its the same concept. He is needed for the income, and she fucks her husband for jewelry, house, and cars....just sayin

pornodave69 · 09-08-2013, 09:52 AM

Now I feel cheap, used and abused. You mean all these women aren't madly in love with me? I'm going to need a lot of therapy to get over this revelation.

chellachella · 09-08-2013, 09:57 AM

I know porno, its horrible isnt it? And I hate to think that all those times I was paid for my company they didnt really care, versus the times I gave it away for free when in the dating game and was used for sex and never called again.

I call the hobby and "honest deception" or at least I hope it is.