Private message seen by others?

[topmoose]

I have a question, is it possible for providers to see when a private message is sent from a client to another provider.

Case in point: I sent a private message to a provider and got a response. But then 50 minutes later I got a PM from another provider referencing my PM from earlier.

Is this normal? Should I be concerned? Is this a giant red flag telling me to stay away from these two ladies?

Thanks.

[Boltfan]

Can they share your private message?

Yes

Only you know if what was sent should have remained private or if she has loose lips.

[ck1942]

Perhaps you were seeking a session wth 1 and she asked 2 for reference?

[atxdream]

There is the option to forward a message in the inbox. I only forward messages when the person has asked that I check their references. If it's a lot of info... physical description, phone, email, etc, I will just hit the "forward" button and delete out all non-essential info. Doing this eliminates the possibility of me accidentally mistyping the info or copying the wrong info into the email (i use hotkeys so sometimes there's a misfire).

I recently forwarded a PM from a hobbyist to another provider bc he provided way too much personal information about that provider (unsolicited) and I thought she should know and deal directly with him on proper etiquette.