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05-25-2013, 02:51 PM
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Join Date: Apr 17, 2013
Location: US
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I'm an idiot, need advice.
I realize I'm a newbie and am trying my best to figure this out.. if someone can tell me what idiotic mistake I made, it would be appreciated.
I was pre-screened almost a month ago.
So I contacted a well reviewed lady and asked her out for 3 days later. She sounded interested, but I was slighty confused by her response, as it just said 'sure' but to contact her later.
I texted her back at the time she mentioned for clarification, but never got a response. I waited a day, then sent a PM. Finally, the day of I called her and she sounded annoyed and hung up on me.
In general I waited a full day in between attempts, in a deliberate attempt to not annoy her.
I kinda feel like a fucking loser now, and just want to know what I did wrong. Can anyone fill me in on this so I don't make the same mistake in the future?
And to the lady, I won't contact you anymore, but I do apologize for whatever I did to prompt this reaction.
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05-25-2013, 02:55 PM
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Join Date: Mar 13, 2012
Location: San Antonio
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You chose poorly. Back on the saddle, mate.
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05-25-2013, 02:56 PM
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User ID: 4781
Join Date: Jan 2, 2010
Location: Private Incall ~ Westchase/Memorial/Energy Corridor
Posts: 12,420
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It wasn't anything you did, it was her. Some of these ladies have the customer service skills of grizzly bears.
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05-25-2013, 03:01 PM
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Join Date: Dec 30, 2009
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Nothing. You did nothing wrong, except start a thread wondering what happened.
Look, half the time these girls will flake and it has nothing to do with you. Let it go and move on.
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05-25-2013, 03:30 PM
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Join Date: Mar 9, 2010
Location: Insane In The Membrane
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Originally Posted by gobblethisobelisk
So I contacted a well reviewed lady and asked her out for 3 days later.
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Define "asked her out" ... Did you "ask her out" for dinner, or were you requesting a session?
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05-25-2013, 03:53 PM
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Join Date: May 6, 2010
Location: Roundabout's Here
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Some ladies, well reviewed or not, don't have the ability to plan and think ahead 3 hours, let alone 3 days. She likely forgot all about you and was confused and suspicious when you contacted her asking about the date you had made 3 days previously.
Just keep trying with a different lady.
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05-25-2013, 04:20 PM
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Join Date: Apr 17, 2013
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Thanks all.. I'll just call it 'scheduling conflicts' and move on.
And in the future I won't be such a whining pussy if things don't work out!
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05-25-2013, 05:48 PM
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Join Date: Feb 7, 2012
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Yeah, as others have said, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. Just one of the hazards of the hobby. Walk it off and you'll be fine!
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05-25-2013, 06:40 PM
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HELL's bell ringer!!
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It wasn't anything you did, it was her. Some of these ladies have the customer service skills of grizzly bears.
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ditto! try another provider who is well reviewed and had better tcb skills
have fun!
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05-25-2013, 06:56 PM
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Join Date: Jan 8, 2010
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Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
Define "asked her out" ... Did you "ask her out" for dinner, or were you requesting a session?
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I would like to know this also. If you asked her out on a real life date with no compensation, 9/10 she wasn't down for that. If you were requesting a session, she was just being irrational.
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05-25-2013, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne
I would like to know this also. If you asked her out on a real life date with no compensation, 9/10 she wasn't down for that. If you were requesting a session, she was just being irrational.
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Yeah, the language "asked her out" struck me as odd in this context. This is only the Op's half of the story ... The truth is usually somewhere in the middle, or, nowhere to be found
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05-25-2013, 07:28 PM
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Welcome and enjoy
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05-25-2013, 07:33 PM
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Grizzly Bears
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It wasn't anything you did, it was her. Some of these ladies have the customer service skills of grizzly bears.
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 ROFLMAO
Damn that's funny...
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05-25-2013, 07:55 PM
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Join Date: May 20, 2011
Location: Houston
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Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
Yeah, the language "asked her out" struck me as odd in this context. This is only the Op's half of the story ... The truth is usually somewhere in the middle, or, nowhere to be found
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I think the OP was just trying to be discreet, but it did sound unusual. If OP said something like this to the provider it may have had put up a red flag or been a deterrent.
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05-25-2013, 08:18 PM
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Join Date: Jan 19, 2013
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hey, I had the similar problem when I started looking around for ladies like what you are doing now.
Move on and keep searching. There are tons of ladies in H-TOWN. When you have the first OK from a ladies, then everything is going to be smooth after that..
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Originally Posted by gobblethisobelisk
I realize I'm a newbie and am trying my best to figure this out.. if someone can tell me what idiotic mistake I made, it would be appreciated.
I was pre-screened almost a month ago.
So I contacted a well reviewed lady and asked her out for 3 days later. She sounded interested, but I was slighty confused by her response, as it just said 'sure' but to contact her later.
I texted her back at the time she mentioned for clarification, but never got a response. I waited a day, then sent a PM. Finally, the day of I called her and she sounded annoyed and hung up on me.
In general I waited a full day in between attempts, in a deliberate attempt to not annoy her.
I kinda feel like a fucking loser now, and just want to know what I did wrong. Can anyone fill me in on this so I don't make the same mistake in the future?
And to the lady, I won't contact you anymore, but I do apologize for whatever I did to prompt this reaction.
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