What is the point to including Conversation as a review activity?

[Codybeast]

Unless one or both of you are deaf and dumb I would imagine there will always be some degree of conversation. Personally who really cares that you talked during the session?

The ability to converse is always nice but I don't see the value in listing it as an activity anymore than LIB (Lying in bed). It's basically fluff or filler in a review.

Have you ever thought "Wow she talks too gotta jump on that"?

[rockerrick]

It tells newbs that they're not going to walk through the door and stick their dick in . Although I know a few that is not true !

[sue_nami]

Well, some women are good at drawing out a shy fella and getting the flow of conversation going. some women are not into chit chat or drawing out the taciturn and shy guys. I always think a good conversationalist adds to the experience as it helps a nervous guy to relax. A good conversationalist is just another skill to add to the magic bag of tricks a skilled provider can offer. Another pleasant people skill to add to the over all experience. I think to mention it is valid if she is really good at it.

[fun2come]

The value for me is that it tells me that neither one was spaced out, drunk, or in some other mental state. I think it is an important part of the GFE experience and when you mention convo in the activities, then may be you should also list the general topic(s) you talked about (Life, the Universe and Everything).

All depends what you expect in a session, but sometimes you want to be able to have an intelligent conversation during the session for additional stress relief.

Just my take on this. List it or not, IDC.

[Toyz]

I find an intelligent girl.stimulating....its as simple as that. Plus, if you connect there are future opportunities to be enjoyed by both. Not to mention that time together might be better for both if you have some shared interests....not saying there are not times where the time lag between meeting and my cock in her mouth has only been seconds and not minutes...

[googol^googol]

I see it as one more piece of information of what the lady can provide. She can make interesting conversation, so that's available. If you like that kind of thing.

Kinda like, she's a good kisser. Or will suck your toes. Or will kiss your kneecaps. If you like that kind of thing. If you don't care about that, then it's just information for you to skip over.

[nuglet]

maybe it's because some of the guys are so socially awkward that having a lady actually have a conversation with them is a thrill for the month..

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Toyz

I find an intelligent girl stimulating...

As do I. Very much so. And as my sessions are typically 90 minutes or more, the more topics or interests she is conversant in the better.

[Qziz]

Originally Posted by Toyz

I find an intelligent girl.stimulating....its as simple as that

Quoted for truth.

[saustin]

In addition to the other great comments, it tells me there is an opportunity to begin to establish a repertoire often leading to a more intimate BCD experience.

[AfterDarkIFeel]

If I include "convo" in my list of activities, I mean that the provider is lots of fun to talk to and I elaborate in the ROS (while respecting her privacy, of course). My reviews so far have been of newbie friendly providers, so I think it is especially helpful for newbies. They're obviously going to be nervous and may have never hobbied before, so it helps a lot of them to know a bit about the provider's personality. Also, I think convo is especially important to bring up if the provider is a GFE-specialist.

The hobby for me is 50/50 enjoying the provider's skills and just spending time with a pretty woman I like in a no-strings-attached environment. I am very picky about which providers I see and greatly value a provider's personality. There are a lot of hot, skilled providers who I am not interested in seeing simply because I think there wouldn't be much chemistry. If I see a provider displaying a lot of wit, intelligence, or kindness in the forums or her reviews, she definitely moves up my list. In my line of work, I have to be hypercompetitive, manipulative, and mean to succeed. It's usually a lot of fun while I'm doing it, but it's not my personality at all and tbh it changes me for the worse. Spending an hour with a sweet, fun provider brings me right back to where I want to be. OTOH, I can 100% understand and respect how these things might be much less important to other hobbyists.

Chemistry is really important when it comes to having an amazing session, and for me, convo is huge. I find that the little things really make a big difference to me... TCB (huge!), convo/laughs, taking a few extra seconds on the good-bye hug, etc. Feeling appreciated and respected can be the difference between a fantasy that lasts an hour and a fantasy that stays with me for days/weeks/months.

And good convo can mean a lot of different things to me. I have been with a provider who was so intelligent that she actually tried to hide it because she was worried it would intimidate some clients. I was with another who was extremely shy and reserved, but she was a great listener and asked a lot of questions. Lots of styles can work!

[Codybeast]

I've always assumed some intelligent or at least semi intelligent conversation was part of the experience just like getting undressed.

I now have a better understanding of it being listed in activities based upon your responses. Thanks.

[VictoriaLyn]

I know its not the norm but I have two gents that book me for multi hours and we never go bcd... Just dinner and hanging out talking because thats all they want..

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

I know its not the norm but I have two gents that book me for multi hours and we never go bcd... Just dinner and hanging out talking because thats all they want..

[fun2come]

VL, good for you, easy money :-))))