I don't understand

[LUCYJOSE7]

I wonder why a provider will not kiss you on the lips but yet suck your dick dry or take it up her back hole.They let you DATY, preform a BBBJ and swallow, etc.....you get the picture but no kissing! Some say kissing is personal but what about fucking or don't folks consider that personal. I know that I have experienced love sex and well as animal sex. I guess animal sex is for recreation while love sex is personal. What are your thoughts?

[TheRedMonroe]

I think that the no kissing rule is ridiculous and I wonder if some of the providers get the idea from the movie Pretty Woman.
Maybe the providers saw that movie and decided to take notes?

[RochBob]

It all depends upon the person involved. I have one Provider that will only normally LFK. But on occasion she stays into DFK. It seems to depend upon what kind of mood she is in. I know a couple of other Provider's where full on kissing is allowed, encouraged and expected by them. I have also met a couple where Kissing (amongst other acts) is strictly forbidden. Sometimes Provider's for whatever reason feel the need to "hold something out" just for the person that they "love" or care about in their non-Hobby lives. The basic thing to remember is to accept and respect any limits a Provider sets on her activities with you. Especially if you intend to see her again. You never know if you become one of her "regulars" different Menu options may open up for you. If you can't do that then I would recommend moving on to someone with a menu more acceptable to you

[trojantide]

I agree it doesn't make much sense but if I could figure women out I might not be hobbying. I do know that if they don't kiss I probably will not repeat, however, it is their choice and I respect that.

[JohnnyCap]

It is the most intimate behavior, with the most dangerous extremes: too good, butterflies, tingles, watch out JC! Or if its nasty, it can ruin the attraction. You have no choice but to taste and smell your partner and I can get why you might not want to. Facial hair, smoke, food, drink. Those of us with hygiene overestimate others. The mouth can be a filthy place, very easy to have an unknown sore or maybe a popcorn kernel flake came loose and a little blood too. I get it, I love to kiss, but its my downfall sometimes.

Worse thing is not being able to know up front. One shouldn't have to pay before one knows if dfk can be at least tried.

[pyramider]

Why would a man even ask this question? You are talking about providers, aka women. Since when do a woman's behavior make sense to men?

[Maximum4]

Kissing takes a session up by 10x some times with me. One Rochester provider brought me more passion and ecstasy through her mouth kissing me than I ever thought possible from a provider.

I think a provider may not want to kiss as it might be an the one easy part of themselves they can keep personal in an encounter where everything is else is pretty much being given away. Maybe?

[Frankie Fine]

Kissing rules. Bad breath sucks.

Never figured out how to say " dude..go use mouthwash" ..pecks it is in these cases.

Kissing is a good ice breaker..but you have to respect all boundaries, it doesn't matter the reason. If you like kissing, then it is best to go with a kissing sp !

[boomer49]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

Worse thing is not being able to know up front. One shouldn't have to pay before one knows if dfk can be at least tried.

That says it all.

Best bullshit line I ever heard -- "Young people don't like to kiss." Do you see the sign "STUPID" on my forehead??

[offshoredrilling]

errr I thought it said ATM ..... errr sorry wrong thread ahhhh carry on

[Guest121613]

Of the ladies that don't kiss passionately (please don't give me a grammy kiss) usually are germ sensitive, and also do CBJ, or just do hand jobs.

Some girls the true DFK is YMMV. I have found most to do LFK, and about half actually DFK. I once asked a provider "how come some many providers don't do DFK?"

And she said "let me demonstrate", and came at my face with her tongue half hanging, and lick me mouth all over, LOL

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

Kissing rules. Bad breath sucks.

Never figured out how to say " dude..go use mouthwash" ..pecks it is in these cases.
!

listerine in the truck...minutes before ..important

like to do it on the way out also with my own stash..aftr Im driving down the road

eerrr,, no offense girls

[Gotyour6]

Never seen one that didn't mind DFK.
Maybe I just read reviews and expected it or my mother was right when she said "Don't listen to them, you are a good looking boy"

[Guest091813]

it helps to have mints on hand of any variety.. i will offer mints anytime i can get a guy to take one..when i offer one i always wonder if the man thinks im offering up a date rape drug..lol..

[Guest091813]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Never seen one that didn't mind DFK.
Maybe I just read reviews and expected it or my mother was right when she said "Don't listen to them, you are a good looking boy"

id dfk you in a sec..after you take the mint..