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Guest072013 · 07-13-2010, 08:11 AM

Ok .. so I have to say something....

What is it lately where the hobbyists and/or lurkers have very bad etiquette when it comes to contacting a provider? I mean really... is there not a forum where these people can go and read? ( I guess there is they are just not reading it)

SOOO... can they get some help from ya'll here on what you think should be said or done? ( with your experiences or thougts) I say to post here cause it seems everyone reads this forum. lol.

Sorry for the vent.. but I really think this is needed for the newbies and or for those that just dont know.
Ladies... let em know... as for me... do not barter with me. Not trying to be an a$$, but I am already being generous with my rates and am understanding with the economy, but that does not mean I will give it free or next to free.
One more thing... Research your providers you are interested in. They have a page explaining to you what we look like and our measurements and stuff... dont waste our time with.. "oh I didnt know you were a BBW or I didnt know u were a blonde" " i was looking for something else". Please.
anyways... SOMEONE educate some of these people.

JSmith2010 · 07-13-2010, 08:28 AM

People are stupid, you should know this by now, and you can't cure stupid. It's just part of the business, and virtually any consumer based business. You have to take the good with the bad.

If that's all you have to complain about, I'd say you've got it pretty good.

Guest072013 · 07-13-2010, 09:13 AM

well i have to agree with you.. I dont need to bitch out much, but this occuring more times than not... that is one of the point i was making.

JSmith2010 · 07-13-2010, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by mslovebjs68

well i have to agree with you.. I dont need to bitch out much, but this occuring more times than not... that is one of the point i was making.

With guys from here, or other places?

Guest072013 · 07-13-2010, 10:52 AM

here babe... that is what is surprising to me...

Mokoa · 07-13-2010, 11:31 AM

It always disappoints and saddens me whenever I see a thread such as this one because it means that such classless individuals are still here among us.

landman40 · 07-13-2010, 12:01 PM

agree with Mokoa...lovesbjs you may remember we had this conversation with your "will work with you" ad and I mentioned I hate to state a rate as I never want to take a chance of insulting a provider...

JSmith2010 · 07-13-2010, 12:20 PM

Well the good news is that there is new blood here, you can only do so much with the same people, just like we like to see new providers, you should be happy to see potential new clients. So you might have to train them, women have been training men for years, you should have some experience by now, and hopefully today's jerk will be tomorrows great client, if you steer him in the right direction.