Sexy lingerie, sexy street clothes, or totally nude?

[GymRat]

Went out last night with a high school GF that I haven’t seen in almost twenty years. We went to one of the Lake Charles casinos, had a nice meal, did a little gambling and shared quite a few drinks. While she is a 50 yr. old woman, she was totally rocking a little black skirt and sporting some amazing cleavage. As we drank, she started getting really frisky and there was a lot of sensual touching going on. Naturally, I decided to get her back to one of our homes asap. We decided on her place, and as soon as we got there she opened me a beer, fixed herself a drink, then excused herself for a moment. She comes back into the living room about 5 minutes later butt naked. Don’t get me wrong, hard to be too disappointed when a woman walks back into the room naked. I knew I was going to get laid, but this certainly took away any doubt.
However, she looked so fucking hot in her outfit, I could wait to undress her myself. Or, at the very least, it would have been nice to strip her out of some nice lingerie as well. I have had this happen a number of times with providers as well. They might take the donation, excuse themselves for a moment, then come back naked.
Am I too old school, or does anyone else out there prefer to undress the women? I don’t care if it’s sexy street clothes or lingerie. To me, undressing a woman is part of the process? I can see where some gentleman might prefer the provider to come back nude. Time is money and perhaps you would rather get right down to business?
Just curious guys, where do you stand on this? Naked as soon as possible or undress her yourself?

[proudoftexas]

I love undressing a woman.

Even if she undresses herself, I want her to do it in front of me. Slowly. No, slower than that.

My problem with hobbying is my top priority is making sure the woman feels safe. Even with a civvie it can make her feel vulnerable if she's naked and I still have my clothes on, but that can be its own turn on.

Unless I know the provider real well, I'd want to make sure I'm naked before she is --- or at least concurrently --- so that she doesn't start to freak out about anything.

In any case, the undressing part is a major part of the seduction for me, whether I'm undressing her or she's undressing me. And even when it becomes awkward instead of this smooth process, I find it funny, and that can add to the mood itself. It's fun to take things seriously, but not take yourself too seriously.

Good post.

[tbone77494]

I actually prefer casual clothes or even better workout/yoga clothes. And I like watching her undress. I have begun requesting none of the stripper lingere and heels.

[proudoftexas]

Oh, anything cotton or other natural fabrics, especially on bottom. Skirts, shorts, light tops. Being able to get maximum pressure with my hand through the fabric prior to taking it off, is a huge turn on for me.

Love yoga pants.

[HoneyRose]

I absolutely love the undressing part!

I like the hidden secret of what color/style lingerie is under the dress. It goes along with the petting on the sofa, following a very natural progression, unrushed and unscripted.

If all of the clothes come off in the living room and some activities get started before we get back to the bedroom, so much the better

[Pica Flor]

In a recent returned visit to a provider, I requested she meet me in street clothes (previously she met me in lingerie), I arrived and she had on tight jeans, heels and a tight white top, she looks amazing!!!!, found her to much sexier dressed like that than in lingerie. And yes, undressing her, and sensually playing with her as I undressed her, made the session more memorable. Will ask the same of her again next time I see her.

[Sarunga]

I too prefer the undressing part. Definitely adds to the experience.

[jeep07]

I like to undress um, even better had one couple wks ago undress me

[Guest123018-4]

Damn, that is one of my old tricks. go to the bathroom, strip nekid, and you are fucked one way or another.

Seems like maybe she thought you were missing the clues and needed to remove any doubt.

On the other hand, do you have any contact info for her???????

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by GymRat

Went out last night with a high school GF that I haven’t seen in almost twenty years. We went to one of the Lake Charles casinos, had a nice meal, did a little gambling and shared quite a few drinks.

Next time I recommend a limo. The return trip can be exhausting with the hot, short dress.

[GymRat]

Originally Posted by LexusLover

Next time I recommend a limo. The return trip can be exhausting with the hot, short dress.

I hear you. I made the trip back to her home in record time.

[Wakeup]

Doesn't matter to me...

The hottest sex I ever have is when I tell the provider to answer the door naked, we make out like crazy, I push her against the wall and take her right there in the foyer...

Clothes are highly overrated in the hobby...wait...clothes on some providers are highly overrated...with some of the fat hobbyists and providers here, clothes are a huge bonus...

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

...with some of the fat hobbyists and providers here, clothes are a huge bonus...

ob·sess

[uhb-ses] Show IPA
verb (used with object) 1. to dominate or preoccupy the thoughts, feelings, or desires of (a person); beset, trouble, or haunt persistently or abnormally: Suspicion obsessed him.


verb (used without object) 2. to think about something unceasingly or persistently; dwell obsessively upon something.



Origin:
1495–1505; < Latin obsessus, past participle of obsidēre to occupy, frequent, besiege, equivalent to ob- ob- + -sid ( ēre ) combining form of sedēre to sit

Related forms ob·sess·ing·ly, adverb
ob·ses·sor, noun

Can be confused: abscess, obsess.

Synonyms
1. possess, control, haunt.

[Guest041413-2]

It's okay DJ, truthfully the more clothes I'm adorning and the dimmer the light, THE SEXIER AND MORE CONFIDENT I BECOME! Truth! Side note: my preference is European tailoring. Helps my thick neck look sexier!

Inverse: the more light and neckedness reveals my true flaws:
Tiger stripes on my ass
Gut
Flat-chestedness
Balding
Little dick (pee-wee or "little leagues")
Oh, and I'm ugly as FUCK (darkness helps, you know, like in a party when the lights come on...FUCK!!!)

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

ob·sess

[uhb-ses] Show IPA
verb (used with object) 1. to dominate or preoccupy the thoughts, feelings, or desires of (a person); beset, trouble, or haunt persistently or abnormally: Suspicion obsessed him.


verb (used without object) 2. to think about something unceasingly or persistently; dwell obsessively upon something.



Origin:
1495–1505; < Latin obsessus, past participle of obsidēre to occupy, frequent, besiege, equivalent to ob- ob- + -sid ( ēre ) combining form of sedēre to sit

Related forms ob·sess·ing·ly, adverb
ob·ses·sor, noun

Can be confused: abscess, obsess.

Synonyms
1. possess, control, haunt.

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by GymRat

I made the trip back to her home in record time.

In the limo with that sexy black dress it seems like the trip never lasts long enough....

... so I pre-arrange for a slow, scenic (for the driver) route.