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Guest102612 · 10-06-2012, 04:32 PM

Being a hobbyist or provider is pretty secretive in most of our lives, but what about the so's life?
What would you do if you found your wife advertising on here and she had reviews or if you found your boyfriend on here and he had written reviews on ladies?

Marcus Aurelius · 10-06-2012, 05:35 PM

I would be hard pressed not to break it off and say so long.

I could only imagine I wouldn't if we had kids.

guest101013-2 · 10-06-2012, 06:39 PM

I'd write an additional review and give her a "no" recommendation. Then again, some guys like expensive providers with lackluster performance.

Guest102612 · 10-06-2012, 06:51 PM

If I found the guy I was dating on here (if there was one) It would be a great way to tell him what I do in my spare time.. Not much he could say at that time.
After all sex is sex and nothing else. I could love you and never fuck you and hate you and fuck you everyday.

strawberrycar934 · 10-08-2012, 08:44 AM

It would excite the hell out of me and I would then say to her - why don't we just swing?

Blaze · 10-08-2012, 12:32 PM

I tried that Strawberry, but he wouldn't have it. He wanted me for himself and to play the field. Something about that just didn't sit right with me, so I dumped his @$$ after 13 yrs! Now I am stepping into the swinging community LOL by myself... Its weird, but I got this and plan to see it through. I need something just for me.

Marcus Aurelius · 10-08-2012, 01:12 PM

I thought about finding a provider that would like to try out the swinging scene with me but I haven't yet.

strawberrycar934 · 10-08-2012, 04:49 PM

Well Blaze, if you need a partner... Of course, we need to a test run or two to make sure that we are compatible but I am sure things would work well.

Ahh swinging... now that is another thread.

*thread hijacking*

Now, MA that is an interesting idea. Would one of our fine ladies enjoy posing as a SO for a swing opportunity?

Guest102612 · 10-08-2012, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by strawberrycar934

Well Blaze, if you need a partner... Of course, we need to a test run or two to make sure that we are compatible but I am sure things would work well.

Ahh swinging... now that is another thread.

*thread hijacking*

Now, MA that is an interesting idea. Would one of our fine ladies enjoy posing as a SO for a swing opportunity?

That could be a lot of fun!

TRex1176 · 10-09-2012, 10:28 AM

Damn, infiltrating a swinging community! Super secret spy stuff! That could be a lot of fun with the right provider!

Marcus Aurelius · 10-09-2012, 11:08 AM

A woman does not need a partner to join a swinger group.
Single men are not needed and are discouraged.
I would think a woman would like a male partner for several reasons.
An excuse or even security would be a couple, however I really can't say.

MrMikeD · 10-09-2012, 01:00 PM

I have actually been to a couple of swinger parties in my youth that allowed some single men. In the 90's there was a place in San Diego called Thad's that I went to twoce. And then I went to a party in Ohio in around 2002. Got action at both, but would have been better to be part of a couple.

Bigh1955 · 10-11-2012, 07:20 AM

Nice post OP -

Before we were married I watched my then fiancee take down two guys at once while I was screwing one of the other guy's gf. It was HOTT! The next afternoon we discussed it and agreed it was an amazing experience. Fast forward one year, my wife says she isn't interested in swinging - she tried it and enjoyed it at the time, but thought that being married meant being monogamous. As far as I know, she has not screwed around.

If I discovered her posting here as a provider I'd be shocked, and would have to carefully consider what to do. If her reviews were good I'd probably book...and see where things went after she opened the door. Needless to say, swinging would be back on the table. At the very least I think it would improve the quality and quantity of sex at home and would open the door to some (as yet) untried experiences.

Guest121212 · 10-11-2012, 11:53 AM

Most all the clubs in KC welcome single males, just at a higher "donation" rate for entry to the event.

Guest102612 · 10-11-2012, 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bigh1955

Nice post OP -

Before we were married I watched my then fiancee take down two guys at once while I was screwing one of the other guy's gf. It was HOTT! The next afternoon we discussed it and agreed it was an amazing experience. Fast forward one year, my wife says she isn't interested in swinging - she tried it and enjoyed it at the time, but thought that being married meant being monogamous. As far as I know, she has not screwed around.

If I discovered her posting here as a provider I'd be shocked, and would have to carefully consider what to do. If her reviews were good I'd probably book...and see where things went after she opened the door. Needless to say, swinging would be back on the table. At the very least I think it would improve the quality and quantity of sex at home and would open the door to some (as yet) untried experiences.

It a amazes me what a women will do to get a man to marry her. lol Just kidding BigH.
Maybe I should pretend to be your wife and go swinging.
Never done it!