Awkward Position

[hobbygiik]

Ok, so there is this girl from high school that was so very beautiful and gorgeous. I really, really, really wanted to do things to her that would make a pornstar jealous. Well, now I have a chance to because I found out she is a provider. How do I go about this, I really want to hook up with her, but she's gonna figure out who I am pretty quick. Should I let her know before? Or let it be a surprise? I mean, she's on my friends list on Facebook even. I don't want it to be weird or uncomfortable, and I know it will be unless handled just right.

Please give some insight, as to what I should do.

[Guests021916]

Wear a mask made of 100 dollar bills. Seriously let her know before and how you always wanted her. man, she may have wanted you.

[nosweat]

just go for it.. just use your handle until you show up.. then fuck her like there is no tomorrow.. it will all be on the table then.. nothing to hide. and your relationship will be even better as you both have reasons for provider/hobby...
who is she??- shit maybe I will do her and let you know how good it is..
Cheers

[bored@home]

Good luck!
I have never heard of it going well. Something about those HS bonds that even cash can't break. I came from a small town and have since ran into several of my old HS crushes. Some went to dancing, others became rub and tug girls, a couple are full on PSE providers.... of those the ones I slept with or dated in HS do not want to cross that cash for service line.
My advice would be to find one you don't know that looks similar or better and just pretend (you will probably have a better time anyway)

[fletch]

to me you are wandering to close into the real world. i don't know all the details...but since she will know your name or can likely figure it out, what happens if she freaks out and gets pissed or goes psycho on your ass.

if you are married is it possible that she knows your wife or could find her? these are all things to be considered. i like to keep my hobby life anonymous as much as possible, hobbying with someone who knows anything about my real life is just too risky for many reasons. my $.02

[guest043013-2]

Your real world and your fantasy world should never cross paths.

Forget it. There are plenty of fish in the sea, toss out your hook and reel in a different fish.

[rcg001]

I would say "No".

This would allow someone, outside of your control, to know that you hobby and your real name. You have no way to stopping her if she should have a bad day or just be talking too much to old mutual friends. She could revel a part of your life best left unknown. This would be a chain of events that you do not want to ever happen. Stuff happens and there is no reason to take that kind of chance. This exists from the moment she lays eyes on you to the day she dies. I fully realize that she might be exposing herself, but that would all depend on what she says and to whom she speaks.

I vote to keep your personal life and your hobby life well apart from each other.

[Adonis]

Tell her you have a fetish where you will wear a hero mask like Spiderman or something. Ask if she's cool with it and then set up an outcall to your hotel. Keep the mask on and role-play a little bit but never, ever let on that you know her and don't take the mask off until she's gone.

Otherwise, no, hell no and no fucking way. You'll have a can of worms that will never clean up if she knows who you are.

[Sensei]

I say reverse it and try and hook up as a civy, just don't let her know you are a monger. Ask her out on a RL date and see where it goes.

[TexTushHog]

How long has it been since HS. If you're like me and it's 35+ years, there's no guarantee she'll even recognize you.

[pyramider]

Go for it and punish her for teasing you in high school.

[Guest041216]

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[sexy.heather39]

Don't do it!!! I had a guy from high school show up one time.....it was traumatic.

[Guest070213]

What did you decide to do? If you went through with it, how did it go?

[ElisabethWhispers]

If I answered the door and there was a guy that I knew from high school, who would know my real name and easily find my family, and he KNEW what he was doing by seeing me, hell would hath no fury.

Or something like that.

I would probably start shaking. Freak out. Get upset. Drag him in the house by the collar and have a "Come to Jesus" meeting with him.

It would NOT be good. THEN, if he was on my facebook page (which is ANOTHER reason why I don't do facebook) then I would be scared that he was stalking me.

Bad idea in a long line of bad ideas.

But enjoy thinking about it and fantasizing about it. To go through with this would be unusually cruel.

My thoughts.
Elisabeth