Dang good question Malaya!
I wish I could always guess correctly the first time I'm with a woman without feeling like I picked the right technique for the wrong lady.... Some like it hard, some like it soft, some liked it hard last week but now for some reason are too sensitive today....
I'll be interested to hear what each ladies "default" is though!
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So Malaya, has that always been your favorite or did it change because you are pregnant?
Were you ever a crab-tap lover? (one of my exes didn't like to have her nipples pinched hard or constant (like a nipple clamp),instead she loved\
insisted on having her nipples pinched over and over with medium-light pressure between the thumb and forefinger; I felt like I had little crab claws but instead of pinching, I was just tap, tap, tap, tap, tap, tap....)