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maica22010 · 02-21-2012, 10:55 PM

Well I just got my p411 account approved, and I noticed that the providers there, or at least the better majority of the ones that arent charging upwards of 500 per hr, are still asking for references. It's not that bad since there are still some that are newbie friendly so I'm making my rounds for that now and I finally saw a p411 provider, but I was wondering how to bring up the subject. I know it might be just me but it feels like a slap in the face to see a provider and then say "Oh hey by the way could you vouch for me so I can see this other person?" but like I said that might be just me, so is that the way it works or is there some other way I'm supposed to ask.

Ms. Athena · 02-21-2012, 11:16 PM

Most providers will just go back and give you an ok. We do receive points for giving ok as well. If not you can just ask her, or you can send a formal request through P411 after the visit for an ok. Its really no skin off our back, and much easier to do it that way, then researching you when a provider sends us a email asking for an ok. Have Fun!!

deanna_bell69 · 02-21-2012, 11:43 PM

excuse me --- but do the ladies REALLY have an issue with a client using her as a reference -- personally i think it is kind of a compliment as it means he enjoyed his time with you and by somewhat you are a VERY VERY small but granted representation of a mans sexual energies??

lost??

here get in my mouth ... i will carry you back to reality

The Color Green Sucks ---------------and not in a good way

enderwiggin · 02-22-2012, 12:06 AM

After you see her, go back to her profile. There should be a link there saying something like "Request an OK". Click it and fill out the information. She will give you an OK. If she doesn't, you can ask one of the staff members there to look into it.

internet_inventor2 · 02-22-2012, 01:10 AM

THAN

john353 · 02-22-2012, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by enderwiggin

After you see her, go back to her profile. There should be a link there saying something like "Request an OK". Click it and fill out the information. She will give you an OK. If she doesn't, you can ask one of the staff members there to look into it.

^^^this.

It's not a big deal.

Most of the times that I see a P411 provider...I will usually wait until after the session and say something like..."I'm going to send you a request for an OK...cool?" That way she knows to expect an email notification and it's usually a done deal with no hassles.

LexusLover · 02-22-2012, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by maica22010

Well I just got my p411 account approved, and I noticed that the providers .... are still asking for references. It's not that bad since there are still some that are newbie friendly so I'm making my rounds for that now and I finally saw a p411 provider, but I was wondering how to bring up the subject.

There are a sufficient number who will accept the screening done by 411.

Abigail (Source of JOY) · 02-22-2012, 10:24 AM

Just don't be that guy that comes in and during the session says "I don't do reviews of ladies, or even post on behalf of ladies" then leaves and expects an "OK" to be submitted on your behalf. Not all ladies want reviews, and others do.... be prepared to reciprocate if the situation arises. You obviously do reviews so I don't think a simple "hey, mind if I send you an OK request?" is out of the question.

enderwiggin · 02-22-2012, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Just don't be that guy that comes in and during the session says "I don't do reviews of ladies, or even post on behalf of ladies" then leaves and expects an "OK" to be submitted on your behalf. Not all ladies want reviews, and others do.... be prepared to reciprocate if the situation arises.

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying here. Are you saying that if a guy says he's not going to do a review of you, you wouldn't give him an OK? I thought the whole point of P411 was a screening tool for providers and hobbyists, not a quid pro quo -- reviews for OKs.

Abigail (Source of JOY) · 02-22-2012, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by enderwiggin

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying here. Are you saying that if a guy says he's not going to do a review of you, you wouldn't give him an OK? I thought the whole point of P411 was a screening tool for providers and hobbyists, not a quid pro quo -- reviews for OKs.

No I should have worded it differently I guess.... I personally don't mind either way... however I have spoken with a lady or two who said they asked for a review and the guy said no, but then turned aroun and asked for an ok (both of these ladies were fairly new to the board and a review could have helped them just a bit). And yes, you are correct... It is not a quid pro quo so to say, but providers don't get "ok's" we get reviews... Which is kinda the equivilant to us.... Gals use P411 to see who a guy has seen and if those providers are reputable then we feel more at ease and will see the guy... Same reason you guy read "reviews".... They are tools for us to see other hobbyists as well...
I am not saying to get one you have to give the other, just saying... Don't come off as a selfish hobbyist...

enderwiggin · 02-22-2012, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

No I should have worded it differently I guess.... I personally don't mind either way... however I have spoken with a lady or two who said they asked for a review and the guy said no, but then turned aroun and asked for an ok (both of these ladies were fairly new to the board and a review could have helped them just a bit). And yes, you are correct... It is not a quid pro quo so to say, but providers don't get "ok's" we get reviews... Which is kinda the equivilant to us.... Gals use P411 to see who a guy has seen and if those providers are reputable then we feel more at ease and will see the guy... Same reason you guy read "reviews".... They are tools for us to see other hobbyists as well...
I am not saying to get one you have to give the other, just saying... Don't come off as a selfish hobbyist...

Ok, I understand where you're coming from now.

Wakeup · 02-22-2012, 11:23 AM

Hobbying in Houston is like a grandpa playing multiplayer Modern Warfare 3...it's fast...it's brutal...and it has a very steep learning curve...

maica22010 · 02-22-2012, 01:17 PM

Ok I just didn't want to end up in a situation where I see a provider I like and then she writes me off because I asked for a review

internet_inventor2 · 02-22-2012, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by maica22010

Ok I just didn't want to end up in a situation where I see a provider I like and then she writes me off because I asked for a review

I've been doing this shit all wrong all this time FUCK. I thought we were supposed...... Nevermind.

aznlvr11 · 02-22-2012, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Hobbying in Houston is like a grandpa playing multiplayer Modern Warfare 3...it's fast...it's brutal...and it has a very steep learning curve...

That's some funny shit.