National Black List- Take it down

[bF75Hobbist]

I found my name on the National Black List. In fact my brother pointed it out to me a year ago, so my whole family knows. Before I go any farther, I not going to be like every other guy who has said "I didn't do it" because I did. Guilty as charged. I refused to pay the escort on two separate occasions over the last 4 years. I had a justified reason for not paying. I've told my story to many providers. They 100% agreed with my decisions and I stand by my actions.

***Just to state for the record. I still see consistently 3 providers a month. Usually a rotation of 2 regulars and always 1 something. I never stop because of my story. My regulars act as my references.***

So, guilty as charged and I am not going to defend myself. I wasn't careful and angry at the same time. The result- I made two big mistakes. I made the choice to meet them and I decided not to pay when after feeling cheated. I can't blame anyone but myself. I picked being right over being happy.

Now my punishment- If you Google search my name look at the results half way down the page. You will see my name followed by not so nice words(horrible actually). Definitely an eye catcher, especially just a line below a subject titled in big caps the words NATIONAL BLACK LIST.

The second incident was the end of last March and in May the social media search engine ruling pasted. That's when my punishment starting taking effect. Since then It's cost me at least 50k in deals after losing a long time client, a girlfriend, a few friends, a few no second dates, my family knows, and both my step mother and mother barely speak to me without a look of disgust, The worst thing of all it has done damage to my father because we have the same name. $500. That's the amount I did not pay two girls who really didn't deserve it. That was my crime and I'm done serving a life long sentence.

So this is paragraph I would to share every once of detail of truth NBL. I got to be vague. Don't want to show all your cards right away. I have nothing left to lose and nothing left to hide. My thrill seeking lawyer wants to go to court. He says it will be fun. I started doing research on the internet last night which took me through a maze of lies. Finally 8 hours later I hit the jacket pot. I know everything and I mean everything. The possible up to 6 people involved, their personal and business affairs, the details of website. The daily profit and net worth of the site. It's some really juicy shit!

Bottom Line.... These people are going down! I wont stop until it happens. The one bit of info I will give- If you actually thought it was an angry ex stripper by the name of Crystal who created this site only in the interest of protecting escorts, think again. The protection is the monetary value they are selling to the escorts. Without the ability to slander our names on the internet the website loses it's value. This site's main purpose is financial gain for a group of sleazy small timers in WA, Vegas, and AZ. it

My purpose for writing this thread is I want them to know that the 100's of men and I on this site mean business. Their same old response challenging us to take the matter to court won't work any more. That's exactly what I'll do.

So... Larry and Darliss or Gary and Wendy, I'll look forward to speaking to you soon!

[guest010313]

TL;DR

Get the fuck over it.

[Leah Ireland]

You ripped off two escorts and there's no justifying that. The whole point of Blacklists is that men do get to pay for their shitty behaviour eventually. You deserve it and as the lady said before me, get over it.

[Guest030824]

How will I find the national black list?

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by tucson

How will I find the national black list?

nationalblacklist.com

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by bF75Hobbist

If you actually thought it was an angry ex stripper by the name of Crystal who created this site only in the interest of protecting escorts, think again. .

Who thought that? NBL is a for profit website. I think its funny as hell that ladies pay for that crap when you can get the same thing for free on providerbuzz.

[Sami]

You admit to the bad behavior that got you posted there in the FIRST place.
Now why would you think you wasn't a threat to the rest of us?


Now your pissed because your shadyness caught up with you?
That's what I call Karma!! Ya it has it's way to rear it's ugly face don't it? But I say if you scammed anyone well that's what Karma does 10 fold.

[Col. Zodiak]

Moved to a more appropriate forum.

The Colonel

[Sweet N Little]

ummm you gave your real name to an escort?

[LazurusLong]

Send all the owners as specified on their doman registration a DCMA form. Do the research and see just what part of the DCMA they are breaking by their actions.

Their hosting service will most likely pull the plug until the information about you is removed. There ARE risks to using that form. You will have to prove that you are the one named.

[bF75Hobbist]

ALright, Ladies I guess I'll get into a little bit. when I google your real name half way down is it going to say your a fucking dirty whore? Probably not. Please excuse my choice of words. I'm comparing apples to apples.

First encounter- Provider excuses herself 15 minutes in to use the bathroom, but really she needed a Staff edit Forbidden topic, CC. I put on my clothes and tell her I'm leaving. She demands money anf I refuse so she curses out and two days later my name pops up on NBL.

Second encounter- About 20 mins we are about to get into the GFE portion and she says btw I started my periodabout an hour ago. Hope you don't mind. You can use the shower when we are done. I decide we were do right then. Left and no payment.

I was cleaning up my side off by taking ownership of what what I could have done differently. A provider needs to take ownership when the are not professional. these two incidents are not that only time this has happen. Usually I always pay up front. Any other time this is happened Never once did I ask for my money back. So basically if I had paid it would not be for a service. I'd would be paying to protect my name.

That just isn't right. I do broker loans for 25 floor minimum commercial. If I make a mistake. I fix it. Sometimes just sometimes think maybe it might not be the John's fault.

Silly Girl- Gladly take upyour time for an hour or two. I'm just saying

[bF75Hobbist]

Yes Sweet N Little, San Francisco does things a little bit different in the big city.

[Jannisary]

Sue them, and they'll claim the "safe harbor" exemption under the Communications Decency Act. I'm sure your lawyer is fired up to go. Go, and run up your legal bill that is.

I don't see how the DMCA would fit in this case. Where is the copyright violation?

[Brooke Wilde]

So how is it you screen clients who do not have a P411 or a board handle? Clients give me their real world information every day.

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

ummm you gave your real name to an escort?

[badhusband]

Please keep us posted. I'd be interested in knowing the outcome