Explain To Me..........

[MsElena]

The reasoning behind going into the reviews of the same ladies and commenting the same thing over and over and over again? Some of you make it look like the lady NCNS you all the time or was very recent or the lady charges too much because YOU say so or the lady was late to an appointment 2 yrs ago with you.

You're costing ladies money because of your selfish comments and quite frankly it doesn't make you look good in the eyes of others....men or women.

If a lady charges more than you would pay, big deal. If you don't plan on seeing her, why keep commenting? If she's not your body type, why comment? You have no idea what goes on in her sessions if you've never seen her. Does the money factor of a lady you've never seen nor plan on seeing matter that much that you need to continously comment on her reviews and make it her look bad? Are you deliberately trying to make her look bad? Hell, there's a recent comment from a gent saying that he won't see someone because the same thing keeps coming up on her reviews. Hopefully he'll go read all of her reviews and see that the same comments are made by the same people.

Why go in a review and continously post that a lady NCNS you a yr ago or was late to your appointment or never called you back or never emailed you back?? What good does it do you except to ruin someone's business who may have stepped up her game and changed for the better?

I'm just curious.

Some ladies do have off days we're not perfect and/or have a true personal problem arise. I'm not saying that's always the case because there are flakes out there.

If the bad behavior of a provider is recent then add that in the review, but to keep repeating yourselves like a broken record just makes people think of a child throwing a temper tantrum because he didn't get his way.

[schmuckenputz]

I agree 100%.....Hence my comment in the review thread mentioned. Subsequent to my pushing the "send" button, I thought "why the hell are there comments on reviews at all ???" I think if you have a review, it should stand on it's own. If someone has had a different experience, then they should post their own review. If they've done that, then it's kinda senseless overkill to keep coming back with the same comments every time there's a new review of a provider you've seen, or not seen for that matter. Of course, I've been guilty of commenting in these threads as well, though I don't recall saying anything negative, it really seems inappropriate to do so at all. I've had unique experiences with many ladies that others have reviewed, and some not so great at that. I've also had some that seemed "better" to me than some reviews. We do need to remember YMMV as well as taking most things we hear with some grain of salt. I do have to agree it becomes tedious to read the same negative comment every time a provider is reviewed. For the record, I have seen the provider in question several times, though not real recently, and was always quite pleased with performance, attitude, punctuality, etc. All that said, I, for one, intend to try to not comment at all on reviews. (Well, Momma did say "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all" So, I might make a positive comment occasionally. )

[guest101013-2]

I appreciate comments on reviews, either negative or positive from established members. Let's me know the type of individual that I'm potentially going to be dealing with or have seen and I can make my own judgement.

A few months ago, I saw a known provider for the first time. She had some great reviews on here and the old escorts.com. An establshed monger mentioned that she wasn't as good as the reviews for a couple of different reasons, mostly inconsistent performance. Should've taken his advice and still kicking myself in the ass for seeing her. First time in my life that I ended my session less than half way through because it just wasn't going anywhere and I didn't want to waste a nut on her because a much better provider was nearby.

For me, I appreciate all relevant infomation from respected mongers about a gal, positive or negative. Believe most of us are intelligent enough to make our own decisions. Additonally, I find that 99.9% of his comments are right on the spot and I agree with fully. The comments from trusted mongers on reviews reminds us that sometimes we are not dealing with the fantasy that someone is trying to paint in the reviews, especially from newbies that are just getting their feet and/or dick wet.

Thirty years ago, if a gal just touched my cock, I would have thought the world of her and would have written a glowing review with an exceptional rating. Nowadays, if a gal doesn't "fuck me (more) senseless", she would get an average rating at best.

[MsElena]

Nash,

I'm not referring to all reviews. Reviews are a catch 22 in the eyes of providers and great for the hobbyists. Myself I appreciate reviews because I can see what guys like, what they don't like and if the review is about me......then I can see what I need to work on, change or keep doing right.

What I stated in my original post is what I was referring to.

Does it truly help the guys if they keep seeing the same comments from the same person about the same lady? Do you think it hurts the ladies business if that happens?

[guest101013-2]

The guy needs to keep posting that info if he believes it's still valid because some newbie will take the review for what it is worth and then perhaps become a "chump". Sometimes people need to be reminded or they lack due diligenece competency to avoid the common pitfalls of this hobby. Most people are casual users of the boards, while others are die hard fanatics, so he may be helping the occasional pussy buyer (PB) out. You and I might have seen his same comment a thousand times, but Joe Blow might never have seen one of his previous postings and appreciate the heads up. We don't know the circumstances of his opinion, but since he has been around for years and is a welll respected veteran of this hobby, his repeated view IMO is greatly appreciated. I don't think it hurts the gals business because the PB is going to see her anyway if he wants to. He will use it to form an opinion, but it won't stop him from seeing her. In fact, it might improve the session because the PB might have a tad lower expectation before the meeting in which she might use all her womanly power to enhance his opinion of her.

[farmstud60]

My thought is that if the issue happened fairly recently, say in the last 6 months, then it is fair to comment on the review. What is to say that a provider reads a few reviews, realizes that she needs to change a little, changes for the better, but one person that saw her 2 years ago keeps bringing up the past that isn't relevant today.

Maybe the hobbyist was having a bad day, and was short with everyone they met at the drop of a hat. So one thing that wouldn't bother him most days set him off that day, and the session went bad because the hobbyist was in a bad frame of mind.

I really like the reviews simple, were pictures accurate, was it easy to set up a time, and no upselling. If I wanted a lot of details, I'd go buy a Penthouse and read the Forum stories.

[burkalini]

I agree with you farm. If it was a simple matter of a single bad connection or someone having a bad day then just review it and forget it. I agree. If it's a matter of it happening three times without as much as an apology or any good reason other than that then in my opinion it reveals bad character. I have reviewed many providers very well and continue to refer them to other hobbyist. With that in mind should I just forget the very very bad ones and say she is ok now? I don't think so

[MsElena]

No one can say she's OK without seeing her and experiencing time spent with her. But, what good comes out of repeating the same story a yr or two yrs after it happened? Why say anything at all after the first time you say it? Is there a need to mark each of their reviews? If so, that's trashing a providers rep because she hurt your feelings. That's what I'm asking.

In a review the guy isn't asking for an OK from other hobbyists, he's writing down his experience. You'll either agree with it or you won't.

If a provider reveals bad character flaws with one person, it doesn't mean she's going to continue that behavior with someone else. If she does, then it'll come out sooner or later in another review and/or ISO (request for info).

[schmuckenputz]

Originally Posted by nashluv69

I appreciate comments on reviews, either negative or positive from established members. Let's me know the type of individual that I'm potentially going to be dealing with or have seen and I can make my own judgement.

A few months ago, I saw a known provider for the first time. She had some great reviews on here and the old escorts.com. An establshed monger mentioned that she wasn't as good as the reviews for a couple of different reasons, mostly inconsistent performance. Should've taken his advice and still kicking myself in the ass for seeing her. First time in my life that I ended my session less than half way through because it just wasn't going anywhere and I didn't want to waste a nut on her because a much better provider was nearby.

For me, I appreciate all relevant infomation from respected mongers about a gal, positive or negative. Believe most of us are intelligent enough to make our own decisions. Additonally, I find that 99.9% of his comments are right on the spot and I agree with fully. The comments from trusted mongers on reviews reminds us that sometimes we are not dealing with the fantasy that someone is trying to paint in the reviews, especially from newbies that are just getting their feet and/or dick wet.

Thirty years ago, if a gal just touched my cock, I would have thought the world of her and would have written a glowing review with an exceptional rating. Nowadays, if a gal doesn't "fuck me (more) senseless", she would get an average rating at best.

Points well taken, and I agree for the most part.....I guess I just don't find it helpful and certainly not necessary if someone comments EVERY time Sally provider is reviewed that she one time did or didn't do something . I just read a couple more posts and can't disagree with any, with the exception that maybe I just think I've seen it too much..I bow to the experience of the rest of you and now take my leave of this subject. Sure hope I didn't hurt anyone's feelings! lol (If I can hurt your feelings that easily, shame on you!!!) I assure you, my opinion isn't worth that!!

[burkalini]

Ok gang. It looks like you would prefer to just let my issue with you know who go away. I will just say I hope none of you hobbyist experience what I did and leave it at that

[boomer_ci]

I appreciate Burks or anybody else's input on a bad or good experience with a provider. That's helpful when it comes to choosing who to see. It doesn't mean I won't see a provider based them but in this case with the NCNS I know if I book with her I had better have a backup plan just in case. Providers have several blacklist sites for this type of information and we need a place with this information also. I say keep the comments coming as long as they're honest.

[MsElena]

OMG you're not understanding what I'm saying or you just plain refuse to give an inch. I'm starting to believe its the latter though.

Its NOT about Tila, I used her as an example.

Burk, you seem to say the same things when it comes to certain providers reviews.....over and over and over again. If you go back and look at the comments you've left in reviews, you'd see what I'm saying.

My question was why keep doing it? What good does it do?

Just because she NCNS you doesn't mean she does it to everyone. Just because Jane Doe provider didn't service you as you would like doesn't mean she does that to everyone (again an example).

Everytime you post the negative stuff, it makes it look like the lady just recently did it. As I said, if it happened recently then write it, but if it happened a yr or two yrs ago....is there really a need?

I've had bad experiences in the past, but I don't keep rehashing them.....I simply don't return to where the experience happened and move on.

Again, reviews are great for you guys, but c'mon....be honest here, what good does the same negative comments from the same people do you? Keep adding to the reviews as long as the comments are honest and help you guys out.

This business is always going to be YMMV no matter who you deal with.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by MsElena

OMG you're not understanding what I'm saying or you just plain refuse to give an inch. I'm starting to believe its the latter though.

Its NOT about Tila, I used her as an example.

Burk, you seem to say the same things when it comes to certain providers reviews.....over and over and over again. If you go back and look at the comments you've left in reviews, you'd see what I'm saying.

My question was why keep doing it? What good does it do?

Just because she NCNS you doesn't mean she does it to everyone. Just because Jane Doe provider didn't service you as you would like doesn't mean she does that to everyone (again an example).

Everytime you post the negative stuff, it makes it look like the lady just recently did it. As I said, if it happened recently then write it, but if it happened a yr or two yrs ago....is there really a need?

I've had bad experiences in the past, but I don't keep rehashing them.....I simply don't return to where the experience happened and move on.

Again, reviews are great for you guys, but c'mon....be honest here, what good does the same negative comments from the same people do you? Keep adding to the reviews as long as the comments are honest and help you guys out.

This business is always going to be YMMV no matter who you deal with.

I'm sorry I put out an opinion. I didn't realize that yours was the only one that counted. If I want to say something on here about a provider then I am going to do it no matter you put out ten threads on how you think its redundant . I had just said I would let it lie I.E.(Ok gang. It looks like you would prefer to just let my issue with you know who go away. I will just say I hope none of you hobbyist experience what I did and leave it at that ) and you had to keep on saying how right you are and how bad my reviews are. Apparently you can't stop saying the same thing either.

[MsElena]

I'm not saying I'm right nor did I say your reviews are bad, please don't put words in my mouth......sortaspeak. I said the comments you make in reviews of certain ladies.


It seems you hold grudges against them.

[newyorkboy]

Best way to put it.... do ALL your friends get along with each other? Nope! Personalities and preferances always come into play! Coke or Pepsi? Crown or Jack?
Ginger or Marianne? (Both please). Everyone has different tastes, preferences and opinions.