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12-09-2011, 01:52 AM
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Registered Member
Join Date: Dec 8, 2011
Location: Dallas
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How does a new member create trust with providers?
Just curious b/c I found a gorgeous provider and I'd like prove that I'm NOT Charles Manson or anything. Haha.
Thanks,
Keith
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12-09-2011, 05:09 AM
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Moderator
Join Date: Aug 26, 2009
Location: Austin TX
Posts: 53,363
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this really bolongs in co-ed but if if you don't have references I would suggest joining p411 and when contacting her be polite and courteous and answer her questions in a nice manner so she doesn't feel uncomfortable and you can also search for providers who use the term "newbie friendly" in their ads
good luck and happy hobbying
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12-09-2011, 08:53 AM
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Account Disabled
Join Date: Jan 18, 2010
Posts: 4,406
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It is all about developing some credibility.
See some of the newbie friendly ladies as suggested, right some reviews, post some comments showing what a nice, polite, educated person you are, don't be a troll, don't be an ass, etc. Eventually, you will be accepted in our little warped community here.
Also, not sure how well it works these days, but CHAT can be a place to make new friends.
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12-09-2011, 09:07 AM
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Pending Age Verification
User ID: 2336
Join Date: Nov 18, 2009
Location: Never never land
Posts: 1,648
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YES , Chat is a great idea ! I go in alot and its always fun to learn about the new guys and gals ! Also, I am newbie friendly !
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12-09-2011, 09:34 AM
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Account Disabled
User ID: 112
Join Date: Mar 27, 2009
Location: Walnut Hill & 75
Posts: 3,029
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Please please please DON'T offer to meet for coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!
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12-09-2011, 09:35 AM
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Pending Age Verification
User ID: 21422
Join Date: Apr 6, 2010
Location: New Orleans/Lakefront
Posts: 10,185
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Give me your name, phone number, email, work number, address, and ss # and we can go from there bwahahha!
I don't know about anyone else, but full name and employment is the only way I will see a guy who does not have legit references, and I don't consider just any provider a valuable ref.
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12-09-2011, 11:01 AM
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consulting for delites
Join Date: Apr 2, 2009
Location: Dallas TX
Posts: 19,773
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Originally Posted by HoneyRose
Please please please DON'T offer to meet for coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!
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because?????
is this a general rule or just one for you??
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12-09-2011, 11:26 AM
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Account Disabled
Join Date: Jan 18, 2010
Posts: 4,406
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I have never done the meet for coffee - drinks - etc. first approach. Not sure how this helps in the screening process other than insuring the person is not Attila the Hun or the Hunchback from Notre Dame. (OK, now instead of a NBA thread, we can start a NFA, No Freaks Allowed thread).
A lot of ladies suggest this as an ice breaker. I can see some advantages to making a session more relaxing, but to screen?
I can remember a lot of visits to a lair in Garland where I brought snacks, breakfast, lunch, etc., but that was after I was a regular there and knew where to find the plates, silverware, etc. All of my visits with ladies at restaurants, cafes, etc. were after we were already friends.
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12-09-2011, 01:52 PM
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The Grey Knight
Join Date: Apr 12, 2009
Location: South of the Trinity
Posts: 16,874
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Rule #1: don't introduce yourself by saying, "I'm not Charles Manson!"
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12-09-2011, 01:56 PM
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Account Disabled
Join Date: Aug 5, 2009
Posts: 2,259
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i thought rule # 1 was wash your ass
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12-09-2011, 02:20 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Dec 31, 2009
Location: Dallas
Posts: 2,192
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Declare you're the sole winner of a powerball lottery and want to shower some poor gal in clothes, jewelry and cash. Confess to premature ejaculation and a teeny weiner. Then watch your inbox light up like the 4th of July.
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12-09-2011, 05:30 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Sep 30, 2011
Location: I can see FTW from here
Posts: 5,611
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Talk about how much you love to golf.
And what a terrible housekeeper Squeaky is.
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12-09-2011, 05:46 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Nov 15, 2011
Location: Dallas
Posts: 236
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Chat is misleading, beware of the CHAT. Be diligent meet hobbyist that will accept newbies and build on that. I know, there are people I like to get with, but I was told that I needed reference
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12-09-2011, 06:02 PM
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Lifetime Premium Access
Join Date: Mar 28, 2009
Location: Under a Big Oak Tree, Between Nowhere and Goodbye
Posts: 2,750
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GET P411
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Originally Posted by London Rayne
Give me your name, phone number, email, work number, address, cc# exp date w/pin, and ss # and we can go from there bwahahha!
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lol
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Originally Posted by HoneyRose
Please please please DON'T offer to meet for coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!
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damn
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YES , Chat is a great idea !
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Can someone direct me to the CHAT ROOM?
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12-09-2011, 06:49 PM
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El Hombre de la Mancha
Join Date: Dec 30, 2009
Location: State of Confusion
Posts: 46,370
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Originally Posted by tigercat
It is all about developing some credibility.
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Ah shit . . . Really?
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