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Vixen DeVain · 03-25-2010, 09:28 AM

I don't wanna be Debbie Downer.. but
.. But early last night a buddy of mine passed away.. It's not that this is a 'first time' experience or anything...or that I needed sympathy or whatever.. it's just that I needed to 'vent'...
I feel for his mom, this was her only son. He was 24. He had been sick, and tonsils were touching.. and he was having a hard time breathing anyways.((mouth breather-not a nose breather)). He laid down for a nap and died.. cardiac arrest-half hour later... so sad..
So, even though ya'll didn't know him or his mom.. just keep them in your thoughts today..

Thanks for letting me 'vent'..
XOXO
*V*

Poppa_Viagra · 03-25-2010, 09:32 AM

Loss of a child is a hard lick to take, I've seen it twice in my family and again with friends.
I hope you can do something for your friend, lend her a shoulder, an ear, a hand, whatever.
It's something that never goes away, but it does get better.

Vixen DeVain · 03-25-2010, 09:52 AM

Thank You San... Just thinkin 2day is better time than any to tell those in your life that they're special.. perhaps share a hug..

Hawkeye9 · 03-25-2010, 10:17 AM

my parents and oldest sister have lost children, its was very difficult for them. Also for me since I lost a sister and nephew.

more thoughts the better!!!

Tony Patella · 03-25-2010, 10:22 AM

Sorry for their loss...he was way too young! It's a sobering reminder that our time here is never guaranteed, and always finite. So living a full, and kind life are simple rules to keep in mind.

TP

Captain Caveman · 03-25-2010, 10:24 PM

I am sorry for your loss.

Guest100314-1 · 03-26-2010, 02:47 AM

Prayer said.

Guest050911 · 03-26-2010, 09:04 AM

V,

Here is a virtual Hug for you....

Hang in there, Sweety!

PPE

Guest030911 · 03-26-2010, 11:24 AM

Dealing with death is a part of life. I went to the Starbucks by Dragonass's old apartment yesterday and had a beverage to commemorate my friendship with him. I miss his company, but he will always be in my heart.

Thanks for sharing a personal side of you, Vixen. If it would make you feel better, I would be happy to come over and give you a good massage with a happy ending. I know it would definitely lift my spirits.

DFWRaven · 03-26-2010, 12:57 PM

Vixen
Sorry for your loss..
CPI.. You never cease to amaze me...Just Who gets the happy ending ?
I thought of our friend DragonAss the other day.. I also miss his Smile, his Friendship and his Company..
May they Both Rest in Peace

flowerflower1 · 03-26-2010, 10:56 PM

my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family....

Guest062124 · 03-26-2010, 11:05 PM

Vixen,

I am sorry for your loss and will say a prayer for your friends mother. I can't even imagine losing one of mine.

Reese

Ps.. I miss DragonAss too

guest062511-1 · 03-27-2010, 04:01 AM

Most definitely in my thoughts and prayers...only the good die young, and many that were close to me fit in that category, also...