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MediumNerd · 10-07-2011, 03:42 PM

So, I mostly pose questions like this in the gentlemen's forum, but I thought this deserved a more feminine approach (not saying that dudes can't answer as well... but I'd really like to hear what the ladies have to say on this topic).

After reading several of the reviews (all well written with their own style), I find myself wondering how a guy goes about asking for something in particular without sounding like a total ass. Some of the acronyms that I'm picking up, such as BBBJ, CIM, Russian, etc, all sound hot... but I'm not quite sure how to phrase "I want to cum in your mouth" without sounding like a prick. Also, I guess the fear of the lady saying "you want to do WHAT???!!!???" is present, rejection is never fun for anybody. Last thing that I'd want to do is make a great situation/dynamic turn into something awkward...

Maybe I'm repressed and this isn't an issue for other people. Maybe I'm way over thinking this (which is probably the case)... So, what's up ladies? How does a fella balance etiquette and gentleness with lust and desire, especially in making requests?

Centralarnewguy · 10-07-2011, 04:26 PM

"baby do u want me to come in your mouth?". "that feels so good can I come in your mouth". "your ass is so fucking hot can I fuck you there?". Treat these ladies like you would treat any girlfriend of yours, except they are better than most of our girlfriends and wives! Just be nice and ask, these girls are very accommodating and without a doubt some of the best providers I have ever been around! They want to make you happy so you will want to see them again and if you are happy you will want to see them again!

Ginger Doll · 10-07-2011, 09:12 PM

I think the best way to determine if a girl is open to a certain menu activity is simply to view her P411 info or the activity acronyms from her previous reviews.

Any attempt to discuss menu items or activities with a girl that you don't yet have a good rapport with just might scare her...and get you put on her DNS list. Wait until you've had at least one successful date with her, and you're both comfortable...then tell her your fantasies. "Our last date was great, but there's this one thing that I've always wanted to try..."

Sweet N Little · 10-09-2011, 12:12 AM

Good advise Ginger Doll

MrGiz · 10-09-2011, 12:45 AM

SnL. . . . I'm kinda shy, and don't know how to ask... Can we do everything we did last time, again?

Giz , leaving SnL's place last time....

blug35 · 10-09-2011, 07:28 AM

Dear Ginger Doll, I read your P411 profile and I see "Russian" as one of your activities. Its supposed to be a 10 hr drive but with that gorgeous face, I'll be there in 5. Its a little blunt, hope I didn't scare you

Sweet N Little · 10-09-2011, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by MrGiz

SnL. . . . I'm kinda shy, and don't know how to ask... Can we do everything we did last time, again?

Giz , leaving SnL's place last time....

You shy??

urhuckleberry · 10-09-2011, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MrGiz

SnL. . . . I'm kinda shy, and don't know how to ask... Can we do everything we did last time, again?

Giz , leaving SnL's place last time....

I'm gettiing turned on watching the smilies!

Huck

urhuckleberry · 10-09-2011, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I think the best way to determine if a girl is open to a certain menu activity is simply to view her P411 info or the activity acronyms from her previous reviews.

Any attempt to discuss menu items or activities with a girl that you don't yet have a good rapport with just might scare her...and get you put on her DNS list. Wait until you've had at least one successful date with her, and you're both comfortable...then tell her your fantasies. "Our last date was great, but there's this one thing that I've always wanted to try..."

All very good advice above.

In addition, if you are a P411 member - be sure to review the lady's listed activities she enjoys (and for which no money is exchanged.) Additionally, your profile should be up to date with what you enjoy. A professional lady will screen you on P411, and if she likes what she reads, she will make notes about your preferences... right down to the bottled water!

Problem solved.

Huck

medic4u69 · 10-09-2011, 07:18 PM

So where is the book/guide that lets you know what "russian" means? or any of the other 100 initials thrown together

Ginger Doll · 10-09-2011, 07:36 PM

Just google the words "adult industry acronyms." Several sites will pop up with comprehensive definitions. I still occasionally find acronyms that I'm not familiar with.

http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID15/2.html

Ginger Doll · 10-09-2011, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by blug35

Dear Ginger Doll, I read your P411 profile and I see "Russian" as one of your activities. Its supposed to be a 10 hr drive but with that gorgeous face, I'll be there in 5. Its a little blunt, hope I didn't scare you

Awww. Thanks.

And bluntness never scares me...with proper references, anyway. This isn't exactly my first rodeo.

MediumNerd · 10-09-2011, 11:55 PM

As always, you guys are awesome. Thanks for the advice! I look forward to using it!

Guest010312-3 · 10-12-2011, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Centralarnewguy

"baby do u want me to come in your mouth?". "that feels so good can I come in your mouth". "your ass is so fucking hot can I fuck you there?". Treat these ladies like you would treat any girlfriend of yours, except they are better than most of our girlfriends and wives! Just be nice and ask, these girls are very accommodating and without a doubt some of the best providers I have ever been around! They want to make you happy so you will want to see them again and if you are happy you will want to see them again!

Very well put!!!

Centralarnewguy · 10-12-2011, 10:33 AM

Thanks Shelby!