Harassment

[moonbabybri]

I’ve been having some issues with an ex client. His username here on eccie is Okraslayer. His name on tryst is Okra. His name on seeking arrangements is Christopher. This post is really to warn other providers. I had a potential client reach out on seeking and we agreed to meet up. He was also seeing another provider that I’m friends with. Upon entering his home, he had a room set up for a woman (floral bedding, cutesy stuff, woman products in the bathroom). He immediately remarked that he’s not married and no girlfriend, this is to make providers more comfortable. My experience was fine, he paid my rate. All is well in the world. Then he starts texting me all the time just to chat. I inform him that I’m a business owner (I own a hair salon) and if I don’t respond to him that doesn’t give him the right to repeatedly blow me up. Then I started getting texts from random numbers that seemed like him trying to see if I was actually busy or just ignoring him. It couldn’t prove it though, it was just a weird feeling. My provider friend (that he’s been seeing) get lured out to an unsafe place and he texts me about it in the middle of the night. Not her. Which I thought was very strange. Why wouldn’t share something dangerous like that with me? She told one of her clients before she told me? Immediately red flags were raised. Then he proceeds to tell me about other clients that I’ve seen being unsafe to other providers. At this point I’m starting to feel like he’s trying to scare me into not seeing new clients. So I reach out to the client of mine that he claimed “catfished” another provider for clarity and my client send me screenshots of him and that providers texts. Nothing weird. My client then proceeds to tell me that Okraslayer told him to make a new burner number to text providers to see if they’re actually busy or just ignoring him. Ding ding ding! My intuition was right about the weird texts from the jump! So now my heart racing and I’m super nervous about this guy. I immediately call my provider friend and tell her every thing. I can only imagine she ripped him a new one because he has proceeded to continuously message me on multiple different platforms harassing me. I don’t think this man is safe. I think he has some sort of mental illness. He seems to invest a lot of time in stirring up drama between women and when things don’t go his way, he proceeds to talk
shit about providers to potential clients to “hurt” our money. It’s a really sick game but this is the very real and dangerous side of this lifestyle. I’m having a hard time attaching screenshots because the files are too large but I would be more than happy to email or private message them

[yourdesire]

Thanks for the heads up, I'm sorry you're having to go through this

[Unique_Carpenter]

Moon, yup, you have a stalker.
Go into full safety mode.
Consider posting in the ladies room.

[BigDeal]

I agree and it would be possible Bri to come to KC where we can keep you safe and warm? Sorry your having this issue.
BtW I hate Okra!!

[Spunk]

I mean, this is exactly why so many providers have these ridiculous screening/verification standards. Why can't we (as men) just have our shit together?

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Spunk

I mean, this is exactly why so many providers have these ridiculous screening/verification standards. Why can't we (as men) just have our shit together?

Because as men we are idiots and its stronger than we are

[Dondo7]

Originally Posted by Spunk

I mean, this is exactly why so many providers have these ridiculous screening/verification standards. Why can't we (as men) just have our shit together?

Ugh, the WK's jump into action. I'm assuming you want us to believe all of the strippers and escorts are top notch level headed women who are marriage material? Don't get me wrong, I'm not taking anything from her problem but many many men have been burned good in the hobby

[Ass-a-holic]

Paragraphs please

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Dondo7

Ugh, the WK's jump into action. I'm assuming you want us to believe all of the strippers and escorts are top notch level headed women who are marriage material? Don't get me wrong, I'm not taking anything from her problem but many many men have been burned good in the hobby

Sorry but I dont see what Spunk said was WKing..he just made a statement.
He aint saving or protecting, or coming to her aid!

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Spunk

I mean, this is exactly why so many providers have these appropriate screening/verification standards. Why can't we (as men) just have our shit together?

FTFY

Originally Posted by BigDeal

Because as men we are idiots and its stronger than we are

Correct

Frankly, once upon a time ago, it was much easier to simply toss idiots out of a club.
Whether or not they bounced off a door frame on their way out, was dependent on how upset one of the gals was.

[moonbabybri]

The only thing I check for is to make sure you haven’t ever been arrested for beating women. Unless they have a history of being in trouble for stalking women, most people’s background checks come back clean

[moonbabybri]

lol I’m on my way!

[JohnnyGleet]

For some reason I always read that word as ' Her Ass Meant'. ( so much to me)

[Spunk]

Originally Posted by moonbabybri

The only thing I check for is to make sure you haven’t ever been arrested for beating women. Unless they have a history of being in trouble for stalking women, most people’s background checks come back clean

Which site do you use for that?