Grow Some Fucking Balls!! UNCLE WHO??

[aspenp]

So normally I keep quite about things that piss me off and anybody who actually has seen me or knows me knows that I am a pretty easy going fun person to get along with. But I just heard that someone who I don't know and have never seen is posting things in the mens locker room saying Fuck Aspen??? The fact that you are posting and slandering my name in a private area kinda shows me the size of your balls, but it also has me annoyed that us ladies on this site can't see what is said and can't defend themselves accordingly when this type of thing happens. I don't even know who you are?? But yet you are talking shit about me to other hobbyist??? Now I see why these threads I have read the last few weeks with providers cussing and fussing back and forth have caused a stir, and now I see why my fellow providers get so pissed when these types of things happen.
WE DO have lives outside of this site, I certainly do and I'm a mom, so I try to be as flexible as I can, but I as with other providers have requirements that need to be met to see clients. WE also don't need to be BASHED everytime someone gets in their feelings because they didn't meet those requirements or if something comes up in the HUMAN PROVIDERS LIFE, that may change their schedule..I don't know this dude that is complaining so I can't say what was going on this supposed day that he is talking about....SO UNTIL HE DECIDES TO FIND HIS BALLS OR SOMEONE CAN TELL ME WHAT IS GOING ON...HE WILL REMAIN A DEUSHBALL!!..

[bobbyupside]

Originally Posted by aspenp

HE WILL REMAIN A DEUSHBALL!!..

Thanks for my new favorite word.
Deushball!
Ganna use it all the time now.

[BobInKC]

Maybe this belongs in the Alerts section but the grammar, punctuation, and syntax police are on their way.

[aspenp]

LOL...No prob Bobby...anytime...I also like the term "He Has His Deushpumps on"...thats for men who act like they wear high heels....

[aspenp]

Originally Posted by BobInKC

Maybe this belongs in the Alerts section but the grammar, punctuation, and syntax police are on their way.

?????

[bartipero]

Try the prefix "douche" and see how it works with pumps or balls, unless he's German, in which case DeutscheBall or pump works for me.

[aspenp]

Originally Posted by bartipero

Try the prefix "douche" and see how it works with pumps or balls, unless he's German, in which case DeutscheBall or pump works for me.

I just think when I spell it the german way it looks ,more "serious"...lol thanks for clearing that up for me.

[bartipero]

Now that you mention it, that's true, so it needs context, like 'The Big DeutscheBall Joe Polka Show.'

[aspenp]

Originally Posted by bartipero

Now that you mention it, that's true, so it needs context, like 'The Big DeutscheBall Joe Polka Show.'

[bigryan222]

1.) We are aware you girls have private lives, but are you aware that some of the guys do too? Some guys have to put a lot of planning do to their personal situations that not all girls respect.

2.) Rumor has it the girls have a private area to discuss things also. Should the guys have access to it so they can defend their names? Maybe we should make PMs visible to everyone also.

3.) I dont know the situation personally. I read all recent threads in the private areas, but I'm not going comment on anything from any of those threads. But I will say the person that told you what you heard is a big DEUSHBALL.

4.) Over the past few months you have 5 reviews with YES recommendations. I dont remember readying anything bad about you in the public areas. If someone is posting stuff that you read or hear about, there are ways of dealing with it that are 100 times better then how you come across in this post. Guys overlook comments if there is a stream of good reviews. Guys overlook comments if the girl comes across in a pleasing way on the board, on the phone, and in PMs.

5.) There are ways for you to have your personal life with your personal responsibilites where it has a minimal impact on the guys. You mentioned requirements to see you not being met. If you expect a guy not to get upset about it, it is your place to communicate it as clearly as you can. If you have family responsilites, it is your place to communicate with the guy as clearly and as quickly as you can (we dont need specifics). The only reason I bring those things up is because when I read your post those two things came across as escuses more so than reasons for possible problems. I dont know that it is true and Im sure if you are doing your best now and in the future you will not suffer from any conversations that you believe are false. Guys have the same communication responsibilites as the girls which obviously are not always followed, but as far as I know that sort of stuff could come up when you check references (I dont know if you do or not).


This board is for sharing information both good and bad. Both the guys and girls on this board have brains in general and there are patterns that develop for both the girls and guys. Keep your reviews good follow the golden rule as best you can and this will just be a blip on the radar. Starting threads calling out people from a thread that I assume you have not seen in person in a grand matter will not help you though. I cant tell you the number of times where a guy has said something negative only to take it back or give additional details that when they have posted. It is pretty safe to say that you handling it like this will not make it the case for this incedent. Im not saying you are in the wrong for what you say you heard from a thread. I will say that the way you are dealing with it makes you look wrong at least in my eyes. I cant speak for others.

[jan-w]

Well, Aspen, you may have opened a can of worms you didn't intend to with this thread. Even though we guys know the Lounge isn't really secure, the thing is that it's supposed to be.


There are strict rules about revealing any information that's in there. Since you have this info, you got it from somewhere, either on your own or had it funneled to you from someone who shouldn't have.


In either case, the mods will be investigating and you will likely have some questions to answer. Hope they don't come down too hard on you. I know you're still learning the ropes.

[big country]

I learned a long time ago if I did not want to be held accountable
for what I said both in public and privet just keep my mouth shut in the first place. How many people need to know something before it is not considered secret anymore?? I use the 3 people mode for a secret ME, MYSELF and I

[Shayla]

The fact that you are posting and slandering my name in a private area kinda shows me the size of your balls, but it also has me annoyed that us ladies on this site can't see what is said and can't defend themselves accordingly when this type of thing happens.

Though it sucks to find out when someone is talking negatively about you, I think it's better that it be happening in private and not out in an "open" forum. I think it would cause you a lot more stress if that were the case.
Besides, by making this post I think you have just left people more curious than actually feeling bad for you.

[FireSerpent]

NO ONE EXPECTS THE SPANISH INQUISITION!!!

[FireSerpent]

Originally Posted by Shayla

Though it sucks to find out when someone is talking negatively about you, I think it's better that it be happening in private and not out in an "open" forum. I think it would cause you a lot more stress if that were the case.
Besides, by making this post I think you have just left people more curious than actually feeling bad for you.

I've had the same thing happen to me... Luckily, I was able to go into those "private" forums and face my accusers head-on. I made it clear that if people have something to say about me or want to spread rumors then either bring it up in public or say it to my face. Personally, I don't like it when people feel the need to whisper about me behind closed doors by won't come out and say what's on their mind or give me an opportunity to challenge their assumptions.

Having said that... Aspen, it is against the site rules for people to leak M.L. info to a provider... what is worse is that your admitting knowledge of this information you are hereby implicating someone else as an accomplice or you are admitting to having a separate handle for accessing this information. You've been given an infraction for this posting. Further disciplinary action may be enforced after I investigate the issue either to you or parties involved.

I do not agree with the title of this thread or the negative connotation it yields. However, I do feel you have a right to respond to accusations made against you when you have gained knowledge of them. But, sometimes, it is better to be silent and remove yourself from this than to show your hand.