How to get response?

[Sgfguy90]

So I’m rather new to the game, but have had two great meetings with other providers when I’ve been out of town and have had zero issues getting a response and trying to set up an appointment.

Today however, I’ve messaged 6 different providers in Springfield and only one responded and she didn’t have any availability today. We exchanged a few messages and all was good and she invited me to check in with her next week.

My typical first message states where I saw their posting, letting them know I’m interested in meeting, give them a rough time(s) I’m free, how long I’m wanting to meet (usually an hour), and then thank them for their time. What am I doing wrong to get a response from the providers in Springfield?

Thanks guys!p

[copul8ter]

You're not doing anything wrong you just need to realize that the lady you're trying to do business with is battling a number of things. A need for a few hours sleep, (Staff edit The Dr) , total lack of what a good business consists of, boyfriend/family issues, etc. etc. etc.If the lady is under about 30 years of age it is the norm. Some improve & stay in the life most burn out & go out in flames.

[xyzwibeancounter]

The Springfield market degenerated over the past 2-3 years. Some of the reasons including the prior post. Most of the women are not professionals. Most of them are doing it for short term money. And don't tried to look for regulars even though they may say it. On the other side of the coin, the same women claim it's hard to find real clients. A lot of goof balls and A-holes respond to their posts. Bottom line it's not a slam dunk finding a good provider in Springfield.

[DallasRain]

i am one of "the good ones" here...

i try to be as accomodating and take care of answering mails & texts in timely polite manner..and honor set apts....
but my family always comes first,so if theres some issues going on in my family-life.....that will determine my response times or availibility sometimes.....but patience pays off (wink/wink)

[Rooter]

It is hard sometimes. Agreed, we only see it from the guys point of view. I'm sure it's hard to imagine what providers have to go thru. Ever sell anything on marketplace?? Lol. Our biggest issue is how long to wait before you move on. Try really hard not to annoy a provider, but with then answering back hours later or taking a hour between messages it gets difficult. We have literally burned up entire nights trying, waiting and not even found one.
If everyone did it the same way at least it would be easier. The one time I saw Dallas, booked ahead if time, she responds at the time, easy! But some are don't message me till you are ready and then it's message and wait. Years ago I have tried to book ahead and with most it just doesn't work.

[MoDriverguy]

Getting a response from providers isn’t the hard part of the process…

[Guest020124]

Oh Dallas face it!!! You just love a good... :-)

[CravinRaven2]

I have no defense. I can be persnickety at times. Mostly I don't keep my phone on me all the time and if too much time has passed I don't respond at all. I just don't know if it's still safe to text back. Client Privacy is important to me. I'm sure your persistence will pay off. Just don't text a freakish amount of times together because red flags start flying everywhere in a girls head...lol
It's sucks, I know...but sometimes when it sucks it can be ohhhh sooo good...lol
Happy Hunting!!
Rub ya later gator!!��

[Sgfguy90]

I appreciate the response and insight from everyone.

I’m a one shot kind of person, so I haven’t attempted to reach out again if I never got a response days earlier. From the sounds of it, maybe I should every once in awhile.

Slowly learning about this world and I appreciate the different points of views from everyone.

[cynic]

Originally Posted by CravinRaven2

if too much time has passed I don't respond at all.

I'd much rather never hear back than to hear back 2 days later, and have the girl get upset that I'm wasting her time

[DallasRain]

mmmm yes Sean
Thx Rooter

I have had issues answering in timely matter...not often...but if I do,I try to ammend things asap

hi raven!

[Cherokeechief]

Simple ! It's a business. Post your hours and keep your phone on and answer between appointments during those hours. We don't like to set around waiting either. Dallas is one of the best I know at returning calls.
Mostly it's the ones that are so full of themselves they think I'll get back to you when I feel like it with no sense of urgency to it. IMHO

[grinin22]

Yes. And a simple, sorry I am busy or something came up, will let the hobbiest know he can move on and maintains a more favorable reputation for the escort.

[Hot Summer]

Well it sounds like you did your part. I can only speak for myself when it comes to this matter . I know I don't respond to all text messages.
75% of text messages I receive will not turn out to be future bookings.
Just Do your homework on the ladies before seeing them, that might help ya out some . and welcome to ECCIE

[Hot Summer]

Originally Posted by Cherokeechief

Simple ! It's a business. Post your hours and keep your phone on and answer between appointments during those hours. We don't like to set around waiting either. Dallas is one of the best I know at returning calls.
Mostly it's the ones that are so full of themselves they think I'll get back to you when I feel like it with no sense of urgency to it. IMHO

BUT If I can't respond in a timely manner, I'm not going To respond hours later.
We know Most of you guys just move on to the next lady.
SO, unless you have clearly text me to book with only me.
That should be stated in your introduction text MESSAGE
And I will respond ASAP
example.... IM LOOKING TO BOOK WITH YOU LOVELY HOT SUMMER > PLEASE GET BACK WITH ME at your earliest convenience.