Beware of “Cakes”

[Ksblkdom]

First off I apologize for the lateness of this post, I was going to write a proper encounter report but this happened on 5/2 and I got busy and I’m now just getting the total fall out of the encounter. The providers info is no longer on Skip the games since the encounter is over a month old. The provider name is “Cakes” she is a white female 5’4, 180 lbs with mid back blonde, large natural breast, would consider her small bbw. She had quite a bit of baby weight/ damage and her pictures were accurate. She only did outcalls and my first flag is when she was dropped off and walked down the street and called me unable to find my actual location. When she got here we negotiated for bb services since I prefer that. This is where the second flag came up. She said she had started her period but it was light, she also mentioned that she was having pain down there and had a dr appointment the next day. We went ahead and did bbfs. Although not the best I at the time was satisfied and if I had wrote a review I would have recommended a yes.

Fast forward 2 weeks when I was on vacation (I had not had any other encounters or partners) and on the last day I noticed a severe burning sensation and pain when I had an erection. I went to the Dr when I came back and mentioned that I believed I had an UTI and my urine tested dirty and I was put on 10 day antibiotic. I immediately thought of Cakes and couldn’t tie the UTI to her but it was no big deal as it was just an UTI.

After finishing my antibiotic I was still having issues with painful erections and a drip so I followed up with my Dr. and they took a culture and it came back as positive for gonorrhea. So I was given the shot in the butt and given 10 more days of antibiotic. Cakes was the last bb partner I had so I do tie this to her.

Gonorrhea is reportable to the health department so now I might get a call from them. Fortunately I did not have any contacts after Cakes.

We all know the risks when we chose to go bb with a provider. This is putting me on the shelf for at least a month and I’m lucky that I did not spread it or get something worse (though I will go on for my annual full physical and full sti test here in a full weeks). If I see her put an ad up I will make sure to post a link so that you all can avoid her. As for me I’ll probably step back from the hobby for awhile, so beware and be safe!

[Oilers]

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[Ksblkdom]

It’s on the 23rd. If I was feeling any other symptoms I would go for a free test. With my current appointment my current issue should be cleared up and I’ll stay benched until I get the results of that one to be safe. If I do decide to return to the hobby I’m wearing a hat from now on even though it doesn’t feel as good to me and I don’t enjoy it as much!

[satan666]

you can get burned by a civie just as easily ijs!!!...

just my .02

Satan666.

[Viking21]

[Ksblkdom]

Originally Posted by satan666

you can get burned by a civie just as easily ijs!!!...

just my .02

Satan666.

True. If I had done the deed bb before or after with a civie or any other provider I wouldn’t make this post. All I know is that this incident has got me paranoid as it’s the first time I’ve been burned in my life and not only do I hobby, hook up but I’m also been to parties and clubs so I know I’m at higher risk for things like this. Only thing more high stress was the time a provider texted me to let me know that I might be the baby daddy!

[JohnBower]

What did you expect? You went bare back full service. That is straight up crazy! You have no regard for safety bro. This is on you. She even gave you heads up... bleeding and pain.

[eyecu2]

just hanging out in other forums here, but certainly as a gent who prefers things to be natural, I'd steer clear of red/ painful openings. There's just too many things that can go wrong. But with that said, a BBBJ is harder to catch bad stuff from. If's its bloody red, just give me head!

[JohnBower]

Lol. Yep!