Ghosting

[Johngalt0316]

Ok sorry but I gotta vent. I mean what the actual f$&k? I communicated with a girl. Set a time. Checked in when I arrived at incall. Got an ‘ok’ message and then crickets. Wasted my time in a big way. I’m an understanding person but this goes on too much. Asking the ladies here - what causes this situation? Double booking? Just a general lack of professionalism? Seriously bummed as this particular provider looked like the type I like. Seriously frustrated in more ways than one.

[SteeleRod]

Some are not in the hobby or a provider. It's like they get off on just to see how many contact them

[Boredinop]

Need to reveal a name so others don’t waste their time.

[kcpitchreader]

Originally Posted by Boredinop

Need to reveal a name so others don’t waste their time.

Agreed...

[queenV]

It can be everything you all named off or even she had a gut feeling. I was always always told to follow my guy feeling. I have not listened a few time when I should have. So if she thought maybe you were LE she wouldnt text back as in that would be conforming ( my guess). But it also happens with thr guys a lot as well. People just get off on the challenge.
I am sorry that happened, that really does suck and not in the way Im sure you wanted

[JedClampet57]

The smallest amount of verification would lead one to believe that the poster has over 500 posts and 54 "encounters" Its doubtful he gave off a LE vibe.

[Enchanterlingum]

All the above to include the influence of certain demons can cause it.

I have had an instance of a lady passing out in the bathtub while I was still on the premises. She got lucky that, (A) it was me, and not some nefarious character and (B) I was able to intervene and attend to her before disaster happened.

Unfortunately, it was a close call that was only a harbinger of what was to come and she is sadly no longer amongst us.

[yourdesire]

OP if you find an answer to this question please share it. I myself cannot understand it either. The way I see it is it doesn't take that long to send a text saying I'm not going to make it. I've had them ghost me when we were talking up to the very last minute, later found out it was because they went to see someone else. Regardless of the reason it's just rude and people need to put their manners in check.

[queenV]

I was just saying in general. I cant speak for why and she did. Im just saying that could be a reason. Maybe her veification does not incluse looking into that part of his profile. I cant speak for every lady. I was just throwing that out there.

[Johngalt0316]

I got the ‘my phone died’ message later. I’m guessing she double booked and had another guy in the room. The issue I had was that we were literally texting 2 min before my scheduled arrival time and I let her know I was at the light where her incall was. Hence expecting a ‘ok my room # is xxx’ message in response. For those wondering who she was - she was a listcrawler girl. Phone # is 913-391-3315

[cmore197474]

Nm

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Johngalt0316

Ok sorry but I gotta vent. I mean what the actual f$&k? I communicated with a girl. Set a time. Checked in when I arrived at incall. Got an ‘ok’ message and then crickets. Wasted my time in a big way. I’m an understanding person but this goes on too much. Asking the ladies here - what causes this situation? Double booking? Just a general lack of professionalism? Seriously bummed as this particular provider looked like the type I like. Seriously frustrated in more ways than one.

There are a few people, we hope so very few, that enjoy playing games with others. Some are female, and some are male pretending to be female. They just enjoy the game of making others jump; and seeing nothing in return.

Yes, it is kinda sick. That is why names need to be reported. If they receive no call, they soon quit playing the game.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by queenV

It can be everything you all named off or even she had a gut feeling. I was always always told to follow my guy feeling. I have not listened a few time when I should have. So if she thought maybe you were LE she wouldnt text back as in that would be conforming ( my guess). But it also happens with thr guys a lot as well. People just get off on the challenge.
I am sorry that happened, that really does suck and not in the way Im sure you wanted

• "if she thought maybe you were LE she wouldnt text back as in that would be 'confirming' sp? "

This would just be rude, with no excuses. One can always send a single text saying the appointment is canceled.

[queenV]

I agree 100%. Im just trying to stay a little positive.

[dumars]

Oddly, the deposit scam/requirements are ostensibly supposed to assure that from not happening on one end. Nothing in place to prevent on the other!





I've been suggesting a forum! Some agree, management apparently does not!

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

That is why names need to be reported. If they receive no call, they soon quit playing the game.