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[country1]

Am I the only one that gets a no response from these ladies that claim they are coming to our town and then nothing not even I am not interested or can't make it. When a lady says she is coming to your area and you clear your schedule just to be able to see her and the on the day she is supposed to arrive you send an email in anticipation of a visit it is frustrating when you don't get any kind of response what so ever. My time is just as valuable as any of the ladies out there.

[shagnthor]

I hear your frustration. Scheduling can be tough. In the last two weeks there have been ladies who've canceled their visit or backed it up a week, but I did receive return emails and/or calls. Even with good communication it can be frustrating. Time is irreplaceable. However, I have had to cancel appointments and am certain I will in the future. That's life...shit happens.

I dunno...if you feel that your communication was good, and you're not happy with the way it went down, then don't pursue this provider in the future. Then, maybe it was isolated and she wants to make it up to you with a big sloppy BJ. Who knows, brotha.

[lowgear]

Sorry this happened to you,there are a lot of well reviewed ladies on the board,if the shoe were on the other foot,you would be a no good SOB,maybe she retired again and forgot to tell you??

[JustaGuyinMS]

Interesting situation - I have verified that the lady in question was not in Alabama and has not been for quite some time. I have verified this through a person I trust. It is possible that someone else is using her handle on BP. So, I have removed the review and will remove her handle from this thread. I'm leaving the thread open because it is a legitimate general topic. The lady in question has also left ECCIE.

JaG

[country1]

She told me she was not in Alabama but was planning a trip and would be in the Montgomery area on that Friday or The next Monday at the latest when she responed to my original email with my info and references. And then when her ad came out on BP on the Sunday before that Monday it sure seemed like she was planning to be in the area so I sent another email to confirm and thats when I did not receive a response. Thats what happened in a nut shell. My personal opinion is if your not coming to my area don't post the ad unless it states you are trying to round up business in advance.

[JustaGuyinMS]

Country1 - whether or not it was the ECCIE provider or someone using her ID, the topic is a good one and worth having a discussion about. I suspect most of us have had your experience, or, worse, waiting for a lady to show up who never does and never calls after an appointment has been set. It's unprofessional and inconsiderate. And ladies have had the exact same thing happen to them - guys who don't show up. In both cases, there may be good reasons, but an explanation should always be given.

It's good to have a reminder occasionally that it is inconsiderate.

JaG

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by JustaGuyinMS

Country1 - whether or not it was the ECCIE provider or someone using her ID, the topic is a good one and worth having a discussion about. I suspect most of us have had your experience, or, worse, waiting for a lady to show up who never does and never calls after an appointment has been set. It's unprofessional and inconsiderate. And ladies have had the exact same thing happen to them - guys who don't show up. In both cases, there may be good reasons, but an explanation should always be given.

It's good to have a reminder occasionally that it is inconsiderate.

JaG

Ditto!!!!

{sorry that happened to ya...happy hobbying babe!}

[lowgear]

country1,I don't buy the bullshit that some body was using her name,and i can backup my comment.hope you find a good one soon,another girl pulled the same bullshit on the new orleans board the weekend,check it out,jessica gray,

[country1]

Thanks for all the replies. happy Fourth.