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Jeff010 · 02-28-2018, 09:23 PM

Recently my go to provider has started a RL relationship. Me understanding this, I've tried removing myself because I know that she will not be able to live life normally and still part take in this one (whatever you ladies call this line of work).

She claimed that she would be able to see me and others and still have a dating life, but things changed quickly. The first incident was when I was going to setup the usual meeting with her, then all of a sudden she stopped texting. I texted her a few day's later to see if everything was alright. She responded a week in a half later to apologize, but I called her and she was crying profusely. She called me a few days later and said love makes you crazy. I felt it was whatever.

Then there was another incident when I met up with her. She basically hid me in her location. She said, "things were complicated" so I tried to leave because there wasn't much to go on and she wasn't explaining much on her part. She hid me until he left and then I left a few minutes later. She cried and told me she felt that we were "better" than this and I just laughed.

The last incident was last week. I called her to meet up and I felt that she had me on speaker phone. When I addressed her about it she suddenly switched it. She said she was going to take a nap and call me when she woke up. I agreed to meet up with her, but I fell asleep because I was tired from work. She already knew the situation on my part, but the text she sent was about me being mad and weird since she started having the relationship. I texted laugh out loud and all of a sudden she called me. I told her that she was either lying about the relationship she has or she she's playing a dangerous game knowing she's still living a double life. Her response let me know that she has some type feelings for me. I just told her I'll talk to her later, but the truth is I won't see her or talk to her again. I think I've gone too far, but don't know where I went too far.

A1. · 02-28-2018, 09:57 PM

He is standing over her phone and watching every move because there is no trust.

gentlemantoo · 03-01-2018, 06:30 AM

You went too far when you saw her again after knowing she was in a RL relationship. Come on man, letting her hide you and then seeing her again after that?!

Need to check your own feelings for her, cuz you went way too far when you took her call after a week and a half. No pussy is that good, to put up with that shit.

If you want to see her again, let her RL relationship runs it course because in less than six months it will be over. I mean she is hiding guys while he is there, how long can it really last? People in this hobby both men and women and some of the most untrustworthy and selfish people ever. I mean you hid while SO was there, I would not. I would have said hello to him and walked out. She is cheating on him and unless you are into that she will do same to you. And we as poon hounds probably would not stop fucking around either.

You are doing the best thing by leaving her alone, stop all texts, calls and everything. Another provider out there can help you with your needs.

LA Man · 03-01-2018, 06:42 AM

What are you going to do when SO finds you hiding and beats your ass, or pulls a gun?

Melissa Madyson · 03-01-2018, 07:17 AM

The best thing you can do is leave the lady alone she's obviously trying to lead two lives at the same time and it's catching up to her. Not saying that a woman cannot have two things going on at the same time because people do it all the time, I'm just saying it's dangerous for you and you need to stay clear of that before you wind up getting yourself hurt or in a situation that compromises your real world life. Best of luck to you.

M.M.

Jeff010 · 03-01-2018, 06:05 PM

Appreciate it. I put this out to vent really.

DocHolyday · 03-01-2018, 06:09 PM

You made the right move. Move on!!

pyramider · 03-02-2018, 09:18 PM

The OP should not puss out and let the boyfriend run him off.

el guero · 03-02-2018, 09:32 PM

Like Doc said. Move on! There is always someone better out there.

NoTell · 03-03-2018, 12:39 AM

Escorts with RL relationships are bad news and problems waiting to happen.

Run as fast as you can the other way

Guest123018 · 03-03-2018, 02:51 AM

On the news here in LC yesterday a guy unexpectedly went home and walked in on his GF having sex w/another guy. He shot the guy while the guy was having sex w/his GF.
To make a short story shorter, the guy died in the pussy. It's on the news.

Take care of your vessel, Jeff

I don't know you but keep safe out there. Here's a hug

Jeff010 · 03-03-2018, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

The OP should not puss out and let the boyfriend run him off.

Me fight over some side action? That's a no for me sir. I may be a trick, but I'm no simp.

bigd1962 · 03-03-2018, 05:43 PM

Hey but he died happy!

Guest123018 · 03-03-2018, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bigd1962

Hey but he died happy!

You think so?

Melissa Madyson · 03-03-2018, 09:25 PM

No matter how somebody passes away it's never a happy occasion. And anybody that makes light of that or makes fun of that shame on you. God will not bless you. When someone dies and is tragic no matter who they are or what the circumstances.

M.M.