Between The Worlds

[Leah Ireland]

This thread is suggest by SR Only's reply to my post 'When Clients Change'.

Maybe you've followed what's been said on that post, maybe you haven't. But some interesting issues came up, like the differences between worlds one experiences with clients and worlds one doesn't.

As an offshoot of what SR Only said - well, I got some bad behaviour from a client which could well be attributable to the face he likes me a lot. Wierd but true.

And in this situation it's interesting (to me), both my client and I had discussed our ideals in mates, and he knows mine is nothing to do with him (easily available in Miami, but without money - big dealbreaker for me). His ideal also was kind of jaw-dropping to me - a 25 year beautiful billionairess happy to finance his business. Extremely unlikely.

Nevertheless, we have (had, since I had to kick him to the curb) great sex.

So I'm finally getting to my point - isn't it an interesting anomaly that we can connect with the most unlikely people in this business, and still have extremely valuable times that in fact become part of our standards, the parameters we choose for our life?

Just saying...

[Guest083011]

Obviously great sex works, for both gentleman and lady. I've found divergent mentalities between me and my partners. But BCDs I will enjoy the virtues of my partner rather than focus or ignore our differences. Two examples.

I met a SB I had been desiring for a few months. We finally hooked up Wednesday. It was anti-climactic for a variety of reasons. Her smoking while I was around was just about a deal breaker, but her yapping about life issues wore me out. Whereas other SBs are fun to be with even with an age differences.

Number two is a provider (new to the biz) who we talk about RW and demimonde. While we cannot really meet in RW, if the opportunity presented itself we'd both embrace it with giggles.

[Guest083011]

And there are a couple of ladies (ok providers) where it is like we are indeed lovers. We enjoy each others company and kisses and everything that goes along with it.

[am-a-pleaser]

I have connected with a few ladies. I value them and have affection for them. Some are more like friends and girlfriends. It's a very good feeling to have found and quite unexpected.

Other ladies and I have fun together. We enjoy each other's company. Unfotunately, the geography is a hinderance.

Yes, Leah, we do connect with unlikely people. That's one of the wonderful things about this life.

[guest043013-2]

In some ways, I think I have sought out ladies who are polar opposite to what I might want in the real world.

While it might seem I am just looking for a fantasy world far from my real world life, I chalk a lot of it to my desire to expand my horizons. Without naming names, many of these ladies come from a world that I might never experience. From these experiences, I grow as a human being.

I once explained to a lady I had just finished a hot session with that my travels through this fantasy world had made me a better person. The old, stuffy, engineer in me would have looked down on ladies in this industry. While I would never say I understand women, and I can never walk a mile in their mocassins, I do have an appreciation for them, where they have come from, perhaps why they are here. My life now requires me to interact with a broader segment of society, and my experiences here allows me to accept and even embrace those members of society (male female, and, well, in-between) without judging whence they came, or where they may be going.

The lady I was with was so happy for me, grateful she was able to lead me down that road I would never had traveled before.

[discreetgent]

I have connected with a handful of ladies in demiland over the years. With the exception of perhaps one the odds of even meeting, much less making a connection, would have been negligible.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by SR Only

Obviously great sex works, for both gentleman and lady. I've found divergent mentalities between me and my partners. But BCDs I will enjoy the virtues of my partner rather than focus or ignore our differences. Two examples.

I met a SB I had been desiring for a few months. We finally hooked up Wednesday. It was anti-climactic for a variety of reasons. Her smoking while I was around was just about a deal breaker, but her yapping about life issues wore me out. Whereas other SBs are fun to be with even with an age differences.

Number two is a provider (new to the biz) who we talk about RW and demimonde. While we cannot really meet in RW, if the opportunity presented itself we'd both embrace it with giggles.

Very interesting post, SR. Hmmmm....