The aging escort...

[Sensia]

Of all the beautifully talented escorts whose blogs/websites I love to read.. (to name a couple, Maggie McNeil "the honest Courtesan", and Brandy's Bedroom wordpress blog) I always find myself clicking back to Beverly Fisher's site. I laugh a little bit at the funny things she say's and can only imagine what she is like in person.

This is one of her "little rants" that I really do share something in common, as I have reached middle age..just thought I would share with those who may not even know about her blog posts.

Old Sluts Never Die
or Act Your Age (or at least your bra size)
by Beverly Fisher, Slut at Large and Woman of Easy Virtue


click here to read on: http://www.beverlyfisher.com/rant.aging.slut.htm

[Marcus Aurelius]

You're a beautiful lady Guilty.
Damn Texas!

[NinaBrooke]

Wonderful!! Btw i admired your new webpage! well done! Great photos! Oh btw i don`t buy into that stereotype of young women being "more " attractive. SOunds snobbish, but especially nowadays where every second avaerage looking woman is an escort and only thinks the best of herself because clients are easy to satisfy with average nowadays, i do find the lack of skills and attractiveness that escorts have , to be blunt - quite embarassing. So for me personally, i`d take it up with any 25 year old anytime in question of looks. Most of them look at their best when 21 to 23 then with 25 to 30 they are already worn out :-), that is because they don`t have the skills a hard working model or escort has in taking care of her body (and brain). I am 35 and i do think i look a lot better than some people ever did in their 20ies. To be old and manage to have the body of a 25 year old due to work out and healthy food and taking care of brain and body is what i call interesting.

When i started to work it was something special to be an escort, you had to have the skills, the brain and the looks, and people took care of themseleves very well. Nowadays, sorry to say, many , and way too many don`t do that anymore. For some escorts its even too much to ask to have miraculous lingerie available. They think victorias secret does it (or any other cheap brand). For me , these things, and not looking like a stripper are what makes a true courtesan. Therefor, I admire older escorts because they *know* and they have the skills. Nowadays everybody runs around in plateau heels because they would drop on their noses flat when wearing "real" stilettoes. Blunt Blunt Blunt. And some of them who wear "almost stillettoes" walk like cows. Hello?? It seems to me nowadays "pretentious" is the "real deal" and it sells.

Some women have photos on their pages that look like i could do them with a snapshot camera. Some even have dirty feet or dirty shoes. I mean DETAILS, DETAILS, that is what matters. Or hairdo. Or stuff like that. I wonder where taste is these days.

I used to remember when i was 18 and started to work for a great escort agency and the owner told me what to wear and buy. I told him that i can`t walk in stilettoes. He was very friendly and funny and he told me: No problem , sweetie, absolutely no problem. We will walk up and down vienna`S street arm in arm so long until you are able to fly in them.

That said, i don`t want to generalize , there are certainly young women out there who have the brains and the skills as well, but the market is overwhelmed with "wannabes" who never face criticism because no one tells them the truth in the face.

Why is that? I think its because of the internet and the "easy" availability. You only need a webpage and advertising and that is it. In earlier days you needed connections and you needed to be "casted" and - for me - that was better, since i have the prejudice that young and inexperienced women ruin the market in the long term because of their unprofessionality and the skills they lack. Which means precisely doing "everything" in bed and demanding almost nothing in return. A skilled escort satisfies a customer without behaving like a sperm bank.. :-) . Its all about magic. And this magic many young women lack nowadays. Not all of them. There still are great women there. But the majority? I am not sure. It has become fashionable to be an escort (at least secretely) without having any clue what being a courtesan truly means. If you look at rates, they dropped increasingly over the years. I mean when i started to work 600 an hour for something that was all safe was the norm . Now the same goes for 300. again, its because of internet and many unprofessional women. Or men.

When i started to work in one of the best and most amazing clubs in Europe (Babylon) the selection was quite intimidating. The criticism too. Nowadays i see homepages of 25 year old wannabee escorts who write a lot of bullshit, act prissy and snobbish but contradict their own words with lousy photos (not even a 5 dollar stripper would look that stupid, but hell - at least we pretend to be ivy league edcuated, even if we look like streetwhore par excellence) , slutty presence , doing customers bareback and whatnot. Sorry to say. :-)

So i personaly am not of the opinion that young women are anything better. Not sounding snobbish, but i am 35 years old and i look a lot better than some of these 25 year olds running around, because i was trained how to keep my body, i was told the truth in my face about style and looks, and
the older you get the more "wise" you are supposed to get, right? And i personally like intelligent people. :-). And intelligence or skills develop more when you get older (again, not generalizing, some people never get smart, but the ones who have true friends who tell them the truth or who worship personality seminars for growth do).

[gnadfly]

Lemme tell ya something every older stripper in Houston knows: You gotta stay in shape. The original article didn't say anything about it and Nina devoted one sentence to it.

Its rule number one, two and three. Yeah, its not fair that men can walk around with an extra 50 lbs but women can't. I just tire of 200 lb+ women who never even TRIED to lose the "baby weight" wonder why men aren't attracted to them.

Eat a salad, go to the gym, turn off Oprah. Life really isn't that difficult.

[NinaBrooke]

exactly, and that said i like every kind of shape in females, i have slim female friends, then some who have more meat on their bones and some who are curvy, and some who are playboy shaped. Its not so much about having the "extra 50 lbs" its much rather how you present them. and how they suit you. I personally am very slim, but since i am bisexual i tend to date women who have more curves. My girlfriend (the one who had the accident) is very curvy but well shaped. but she has a little on the "more" side. But the men were digging her like nothing else, simply because she was looking stunning hot and well shaped and presented nicely.

And: Looking good with 25 is not really a great skill. It would be a shame if you are 25 and already look bad. but staying that way is what matters.

ps: men can`t run around also with looking out of shape. They CAN as long as they have the money to buy wives and escorts and as long as they have a position of power women benefit from. But take any jobless guy looking the same, no way.

There is a quote we have in europe: A man with money never looks bad. so - you should not overestimate looks .
A woman also don`t need to look good if she has the skills.
Escorts do need to "look good" because that is what they sell. (and that explains some guys obsession with young women, because if it was for intelligence they certainly would not buy a young woman, right?? )
Its a difference. A model also has to "look good" because that is her income.

[Naomi4u]

Oh gosh Nina you're so snobby.... like me. lol

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Oh gosh Nina you're so snobby.... like me. lol

I know .... ;-)..... If you have a lot of people telling you the truth in the face and educating you, then you earn your snobbery :-))

btw: you are one of the young escorts i greatly admire. You are one of these that do have the looks and the intelligence. But that is rare. So you can be really really proud of yourself. :-)

I believe escorting is a job like anyone else and if you don`t constantly work on yourself why would anyone pay for you? I am probably too european to have patience or pity for women who lack these kind of attributes. Some people think escorting is nothing else than putting a homepage up and having guys pay you. But that is not it. SOme women even think its "doing what the guy wants" . Oh please... :-). I offer the services, i am in charge. But many people don`t get that.
And why would that be my business? Because its that kind of attitude i then have to deal with from gents coming from other ladies. Its annoying.

That attitude ruins the business and since i am an old hag already i really know what i am talking about. :-)

[Camille]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

since i am an old hag already i really know what i am talking about. :-)

You do make me laugh Nina.
You are a breath of fresh on this board

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

I know .... ;-)..... If you have a lot of people telling you the truth in the face and educating you, then you earn your snobbery :-))

btw: you are one of the young escorts i greatly admire. You are one of these that do have the looks and the intelligence. But that is rare. So you can be really really proud of yourself. :-)

[Guest050715-1]

I, for one, am not a snob, but I can tell you what I think a true courtesan is. I was practically born walking in stilettos. I’ve had a sexy walk and mad, although better now, skills since I was in high school. These are just enticements. I am not 25 or even 35 anymore; I don’t need to be. I have the desire and ability to provide a cocoon of sexual hunger and genuine warmth when my gentlemen friends call on me in my swank hideaway. Expensive trappings, openness to off the bell curve sexual cravings, beauty, intelligent, educated and up to date thinking and knowledge of current events are the things that make a lady worthy of a high entertainment fee.

Gnadfly is right, stay in shape: eat a salad, hit the gym (I prefer working out outside), get some sleep, stay out of the sun and live a good life. That will keep you young and healthy well into old age. I look many years younger than I am because I take care of myself. The picture in my avatar is untouched and was taken in my foyer three months ago. Trust me, I haven’t seen 35 in years.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Oh gosh Nina you're so snobby.... like me. lol

Originally Posted by ninasastri

I know .... ;-)..... If you have a lot of people telling you the truth in the face and educating you, then you earn your snobbery :-))

btw: you are one of the young escorts i greatly admire. You are one of these that do have the looks and the intelligence.

You guys probably don't realize how interesting and beautiful you must be for us to overlook such snobbery....or perhaps you do and are too snobby to care.....truly amazing!! Makes me sick!! (LOVE sick!!)

[Marcus Aurelius]

Obviously I have a different definition of snobbery. Or their brand of sarcasm escapes me.

For I don't care for snobbery wrapped in any package.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

You guys probably don't realize how interesting and beautiful you must be for us to overlook such snobbery....or perhaps you do and are too snobby to care.....truly amazing!! Makes me sick!! (LOVE sick!!)

I heart you Ed.
Call me today if you can chat.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Obviously I have a different definition of snobbery. Or their brand of sarcasm escapes me.

For I don't care for snobbery wrapped in any package.

Yea, I just looked up the word snob. It's not a pretty picture. Why would anybody brag about being a snob?

[Naomi4u]

Exactly who was "bragging" about being a snob?
Edit: Oh yeah that's right..I don't care.