Seeing a Provider as a Couple

[YaBoi2000]

Long story short my SO is down for seeing a Provider with me...rather than try and find a Unicorn we are opting for a professional. I would like to get some advice, feedback, and or experiences from my fellow hobbyist. Providers is there anything extra or out of the normal I need to do?

[Unique_Carpenter]

I may catch heat over this but, find a provider that is actually into gals. You do want your civie to be happy.

[Guest022718]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I may catch heat over this but, find a provider that is actually into gals. You do want your civie to be happy.

Good advice....but just the beginning.

I assume you want to keep your SO around. And want to do this again and again?

Do your research on providers together. And some very key steps:

1) LET HER PICK THE LADY.

2) Have her talk to the lady beforehand.

3) Best possible situation would be to have dinner together beforehand....paying for the providers time....with the tacit understanding that ANYONE can say stop for ANY REASON before it advances to the bedroom, with no hard feelings.

4) You have two jobs and two jobs only: Provide the dick. And provide the money.....lots of it. Other than that....shut the fuck up and let THEM make the connection.

5) You do this right, and your SO and the Provider will have a torrid sexual affair, and you will be the only sex toy in the room. You will get used. A lot.

Do this wrong.......well, use your imagination.

Best of luck to you! Hope you have lots of fun.

[Lolove]

Originally Posted by hgritstoo

Good advice....but just the beginning.

I assume you want to keep your SO around. And want to do this again and again?

Do your research on providers together. And some very key steps:

1) LET HER PICK THE LADY.

2) Have her talk to the lady beforehand.

3) Best possible situation would be to have dinner together beforehand....paying for the providers time....with the tacit understanding that ANYONE can say stop for ANY REASON before it advances to the bedroom, with no hard feelings.

4) You have two jobs and two jobs only: Provide the dick. And provide the money.....lots of it. Other than that....shut the fuck up and let THEM make the connection.

5) You do this right, and your SO and the Provider will have a torrid sexual affair, and you will be the only sex toy in the room. You will get used. A lot.

Do this wrong.......well, use your imagination.

Best of luck to you! Hope you have lots of fun.

Well said ✔️

[YaBoi2000]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I may catch heat over this but, find a provider that is actually into gals. You do want your civie to be happy.

Good point...that was one of the few things I knew had to be done. We have a list of about 3 or 4 ladies that she likes and are couple friendly or Bisexual.

Originally Posted by hgritstoo

Good advice....but just the beginning.

I assume you want to keep your SO around. And want to do this again and again?

Do your research on providers together. And some very key steps:

1) LET HER PICK THE LADY.

2) Have her talk to the lady beforehand.

3) Best possible situation would be to have dinner together beforehand....paying for the providers time....with the tacit understanding that ANYONE can say stop for ANY REASON before it advances to the bedroom, with no hard feelings.

4) You have two jobs and two jobs only: Provide the dick. And provide the money.....lots of it. Other than that....shut the fuck up and let THEM make the connection.

5) You do this right, and your SO and the Provider will have a torrid sexual affair, and you will be the only sex toy in the room. You will get used. A lot.

Do this wrong.......well, use your imagination.

Best of luck to you! Hope you have lots of fun.

All of these are great points. We have reached out to a lady and are in the works to try and have a meet and greet to see if they have chemistry. As far as the last 2 points...that was my plan the whole time. My SO is Bisexual and the last few relationships she's been in have been with men that were insecure and wouldn't allow her to enjoy herself fully. This is more about her than I.

Originally Posted by Lolove

Well said ✔️

FYI.....you are on the short list of possible ladies she wants to see.

[Lolove]

Originally Posted by YaBoi2000

Good point...that was one of the few things I knew had to be done. We have a list of about 3 or 4 ladies that she likes and are couple friendly or Bisexual.



All of these are great points. We have reached out to a lady and are in the works to try and have a meet and greet to see if they have chemistry. As far as the last 2 points...that was my plan the whole time. My SO is Bisexual and the last few relationships she's been in have been with men that were insecure and wouldn't allow her to enjoy herself fully. This is more about her than I.



FYI.....you are on the short list of possible ladies she wants to see.

💋 Well I'm thrilled . Good luck to the both of you and maybe we will be in touch soon

[YaBoi2000]

Originally Posted by Lolove

💋 Well I'm thrilled . Good luck to the both of you and maybe we will be in touch soon

You have PM on P411 waiting on you.