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Old 07-07-2017, 05:41 PM   #1
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Default Sending messages with specifics...

Just a heads up...

As everyone knows, I don't discuss specifics through any form of communication when you're a new friend. That is the quickest way to get busted.

Lately, my new friends don't seem to understand that means don't bring it up to me at all. I have had to cancel two sessions in the last week due to specific acts being mentioned by guys.

Im not doing this to be a witch. It is for everyone's safety. When we are together and there is something you would like, then let me know. My reviews tell what I do. You don't need to ask. Normally, there's almost nothing I won't try if the chemistry is right.

The point if writing this please, please, please stop mentioning things in your communication with me. I haven't received a no her. I know we will have fun, because I love what I do.

Now....lets meet and have fun.

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Old 07-07-2017, 06:07 PM   #2
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Come on guys......don't piss off the twins!!!!
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Old 07-07-2017, 07:26 PM   #3
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Come on guys......don't piss off the twins!!!!
Im not pissed. Just don't like knowing someone was disappointed when I has to cancel because they couldn't follow my requests (which are very few).
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Old 07-07-2017, 07:48 PM   #4
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I hear you Sarah Renee. Ive got myself into trouble with that before and learn my lesson to look at reviews. But, the problem with that is guys are not always truthful with the activities. And the ROS, oh my, I had no idea you ladies could cum as much as the ROS indicates. Im sure you get my point. And for hobbiest who dont hobby much, dropping 250 bills and not getting exactly what they want can be a disappointment. Some say just move on and forget it, and thats good advice, but still a hard pull to swallow.

But, I understand your view point completely and its the safe way to go.

I flat out like it when the lady lists her menu on the things she likes in her showcase, and use that with the reviews.
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Old 07-07-2017, 07:51 PM   #5
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I flat out like it when the lasy lists her menu on the things she likes in her showcase, and use that with the reviews.
The ladies that do that are risking prosecution because it's considered admission and can lead to an arrest. Notice I didn't say conviction? They have to show that the person that is arrested is actually the one who posted it. Unfortunately, since we are tried in front of a jury of our peers, speculation and personal feelings can weigh how a juror votes. I prefer to make them work for it if they're going to arrest me.
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Old 07-07-2017, 08:19 PM   #6
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Pm sent. I hear you though. Your right.
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Old 07-07-2017, 08:56 PM   #7
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First, what guys list in reviews tends to be somewhat unreliabe and incomplete. So referring guys to your reviews will set widely different expectations depending on who's reviews he reads.

Second, relying on not posting a menu is probably as useful as the crotch grab cop check. It sounds great in theory but it does nothing for you. Especially since you just said your reviews tell what you do. You literally just admitted those reviews are real and what you do.

I respect you having guidelines in place to see you, but they seem a bit misguided to me. Especially the thought that having a menu opens up problems but telling people your reviews say what you do is a better way (which is an admission on your part every bit as much as a menu).
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Old 07-07-2017, 09:06 PM   #8
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I appreciate your opinion. In theory we are both right. The difference with a menu vs read my reviews... I don't personally list (hence agree to) doing specific acts. By referring to my reviews, it can be argued that those are someone else's words and proof is needed to me actually doing them. As you said yourself guys reviews can be inaccurate.

If you want to get technical, just being on this site is enough to prove intent.

I won't post anything further to prove my point, but I believe we are all smart enough to put two and two together and get four. If not, we wouldn't click anyway.
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Old 07-08-2017, 09:45 AM   #9
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Do your homework, guys. Learn which reviewers are honest, and more importanly, which reviewers have similar likes and standards as you do.

Yes, some reviews ARE distorted, but send the writer a PM. I have found replies are almost always quite honest (though they may still have a different opinion of "pretty", "skilled", etc.)

And finally, realize that life--and this corner of the world--have risks. Don't expect the ladiesto take the majority of the risks, and realize that the risk a date isn't 100% what you expected is much better than the risk of being detained.
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Old 07-08-2017, 10:18 AM   #10
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...but I believe we are all smart enough to put two and two together and get four.
Wow, Sarah! Jumping to a huge assumption there, girl!

Back on topic, I won't initiate a conversation with specifics, but if I get a PM with a "what is a Timex Girl Challenge?" query, it's hard to explain without a little detail... Otherwise, fully agree with the previous comments.
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Old 07-08-2017, 11:20 AM   #11
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Sorry Wiz, but no she's not making an assumption.

For a repeat date, or a date with a known trusted gal, of course risks are non-existent for the guys.
However, for the gals, we need to respect their risk issues, which are much more intense, considering how many date requests they get. So yes gals will stop communicating, or cancel.

All these issues are covered again, again, and again, in the national boards forum:
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The attorney guy in that forum, Shyster Jon, is a fantastic source for these issues, although he specializes in Texas cases for some reason.
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Old 07-08-2017, 02:00 PM   #12
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Probably my bad. I just know what I want. lol.
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Probably my bad. I just know what I want. lol.
LOL...Depends on what you are planning to do. If you are trying to scare the hell out of me...It will be a definite win.
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I did this to a few girls who DID have a menu because they didn't specifically mention greek. You don't even have a menu? How the fuck are people supposed to know what you're up for? Not every reviewer wants to do everything I want to do.
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I don't have a menu because I think they are crass. I am a human being, not the olive garden lol. I am fine discussing specifics after a gentleman has been screened. If someone tries to bring up anything sexual beforehand they get ignored.
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