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Originally Posted by ztonk
Instead of spending that week with you, she should spend it at SafePlace where she can get all the support (emotional, legal, etc.) that she needs from people who are trained to do this.
But as others have said, it has to be her decision. Trying to "fix it yourself" is admirable, but as has been stated above, you're potentially putting yourself at risk from this bozo/loser/lowlife/scum.
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NO!!! do not introduce her to this hobby.
Most importantly, she has a child and more than likely she will be involved with some sort of legal issues since the father is in the picture. Last thing she needs is to take the chance of loosing her child because she became an escort. She would have a better chance (in court) working at McDonals & living under a bridge. That is just the way it is....
She is emotionally unstable(to be expected). You know as well as I that the hardest part about being a provider is being able to handle the emotional aspect of this hobby.
A new provider with a desperate need for money...
-will do things she rather not do because she needs the money.
-She will be a high volume provider; "being new talent" will attract a large number of hobbyist & because she needs the $ she will try accommodate as many as appointments possible.
-Making at least 1k per week is difficult to do in a 9-5 unless she has a college degree; making the hobby an
easier option.
-Majority of us will turn to drugs & alcohol to be able to handle a session.
If this was a good career choice, we would not live a double life. It would not be a "secret".
We would tell our daughters at 18 that becoming an escort is an option in which she could make as much if not more than if she had a job that required a bachelors degree.
The brutal truth is that majority of the ladies in this hobby are emotionally damaged. Most prior to becoming a provider & this hobby will eventually add to the injury. It is extremely difficult & dangerous in many ways to be a successful provider. A provider that is able to maintain a healthy private & hobby life are few and far between.
She has many options besides selling her most private and personal being; whether we admit it or not, that is what we do, & again, few women are able to survive ......
Ask yourself.... If you had the option to get an education for free, help getting a job, free clothing for work, free identification (dl, ss; birth certificates) free health care for you & child for free, free daycare, food, a safe place to live for you & your child, counseling services to help overcome the mental damage of being in an abusive relationship and to avoid the pattern of falling into another abusive relationship..... Many, many, free services are out there to help women in her situation.
If you truly want to help her... recommend she 1st applies for food stamps & medicaid. They might direct her to other agencies that will provide her with the help she needs to get back on her feet.
In my 9 to 5 civi job, I work with several State agencies that provide help for those that want it. Feel free to call me & I will be happy to help.
Now, once she gets past these issues & is back on her feet & living a "normal & healthy" life.... then suggest the hobby & then she will be able to make the decision of becoming a provider with a clear mind.
Regardless of what you do, she is fortunate to have you as a friend when she needs it the most.
Good luck!
As far as the comments of the husband/boyfriend causing problems for her clients..... You guys forget, that we providers take the chance or have already experienced the fury of a hobbyists WIFE/SO who has deiscovered her husbands extra curricular activities... It goes both ways. Actually, there is a bigger chance of meeting a hobbyist wife than a providers husband.
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Would you inroduce a friend to the biz?
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