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Originally Posted by BushDrummer
I've had several very good experiences with blindfolds. Both when the lady wears them and myself as well (taking turns).
Your senses are definitely heightened. Plus it makes for a very erotic setting.
I once had an SO give me a BJ with her hands tied behind her back while wearing a blindfold.....the possibilities are endless.
It's all in the "surrendering control" element.
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Surrendering control. Hmmmm....sounds good. You know, there is a forum on ecci called another realm that might interest you. (Shameless plug for a great forum!)
I have only had one problem with a blindfold and it was with one that was very high end and form fitting. It was on a little too long and it physically hurt when it was removed. I expected my eyes to adjust but this was the skin that had been compressed a little too long.
If you're using a silk scarf or one of those more gentle blindfolds that stay on with elastic, it shouldn't be a problem.
I like them and then I don't. Often, I feel clumsy when they're on and I don't know the room that I'm in. But when I get into a certain mindset and I don't know what my partner is about to do next, it's VERY exciting and completely enticing.
Plus, on the other hand, I think a man blindfolded just LOOKS sexy to me when the time together goes in that direction.
Elisabeth