Are gals off SeekingArrangement.com essentially Providers?

[landon]

I tried out this site after a gal I had been seeing regularly showed me her profile there. The common theme of women posting profiles there is they are looking for a sugar daddy (an experienced, well off older man) they will see reguarly that will help them out with bills college tuition etc. in a No Strings Relationship. They expressed they did not want a serious relationship and it would have to be someone who respected their privacy. Many were married. Some gals even had the gall to say they expect $5000 - $10000 a month but from their fuzzy or not too explicit photos probably could not get $5 for a lap dance.

Out of curiosity and my hobby within the hobby of seeking low POP, I joined the site, posting a pic and earnings / net worth info. This proved to be very successful (coupla dozen emails in few days) with several giving me email address and a couple of them calling me. I met a 24 yr old college girl for dinner who called me and made her an offer to meet. The meeting was very successful and she wanted sex not once but twice, a real screamer. She was happy to get a contribution that was modest (60%) compared to what I would have had to pay a stripper I am seeing regularly for the same service. While attractive, she was not in the same league as a top notch stripper or provider in the looks dept. Other women from the site have contacted me getting bold enough to ask "what would your contribution be." I have been skittish on providing this due to fear of LE. How can two gals traveling from city to city offering a guy a threesome say they are looking for a SD when they are only in town a couple of days (like this one couple). Another gal (who phoned me) cited her needing money after a divorce to get started and that I would not be disappointed. Her sexy photos in miniskirt were very inviting. I told her going to her part of town was not a commute that would work for me (had alreaded scheduled the girl above) and she deserved a man who could give her a good committment. She then offered to drive over here.

While I have had a lot of experience with Strippers and Providers could it be the economy sending scores of civilian gals into the fray. The one I met for dinner said she had heard about getting a SD from a GF so wanted to find one. The appeal to a man of this is a regular inexpensive young misstress who probably is not that sexually active outside of him.

[whitechocolate]

They are essentially UTR providers. A lot of women see providing as easy money but are clueless as to skills needed and what is really expected to provide.

[Jackie S]

I think the economy is hurting the trade more than most Ladies want to admitt..

It seems that there may be a lot of providers who just don't like to think of themselves that way. They seek another relm that refers to Ladies in the trade by other names.

But, a rose by any other name is still a rose. If they are ashamed, go back to Nursing School.

[landon]

Yes - I sorta got that impression from her. She asked me some questions "How do Strippers (and probably Providers too) do it." She had just given me a wonderful CG session with lots of crying out screaming, getting me off good and I simply smiled and told her "Honey, no need to be concerned about that, you do it real well and fuck like a champ in my book."

But the kicker for me is she did not want to quickly get up to clean up and leave after sex (like another gal I am doing - Stripper) but instead layed there for conversation then another sex session which I voluntarily gave her $20 for on top of the first one. BC it takes me longer to cum for 2nd time it went much longer than first one. I believe I will keep seeing her and with her enthusiasm possibly provide her some otj training if needed.

[Naomi4u]

Providers? Mehn You are on the WRONG site! Join Sugardaddy4me! It is unbelievable the amount of chicks that'll screw you for free just in hopes of you becoming their sugar-daddy. A guyfriend of mine told me all about it. Yes I said it! Try it! Just understand that free p**sy comes with a price! lol

[Jusanotherdude]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Just understand that free p**sy comes with a price!

There is your myth..... there is absolutely NOTHING free about ANY Pussy! The one's you think are free are the ones you pay the most for.......


JaD

[JohnMacnab]

Well fuck me runnin

[rhino9]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

A lot of women see providing as easy money but are clueless as to skills needed and what is really expected to provide.

Did you say a lot...??? Damn near all of them...
The economy is definitely causing business slow down...descretionary spending is pretty much gone.

Wanna know if they are any good...ask them to name the last book they read on pleasing a man.
Ask them just a few questions about male anatomy or psychology of male sexuality.

Probably 90% never read anything, never even considered they might need training.
Usually, they just do what they like to do and maybe watch a lot of porn.

Then think they are worth $200/hr cause guys are dumb enough to think "you get what you pay for..."

Would you guys pay $200/hr for a good looking lawyer that never went to school..??

Uhh...never mind...don't answer that.

The influx of young/naive civilian pussy is certainly impacting the board providers...there do appear to be tons of them out there trolling for sponsorship.

[dwl318]

Well guys pay for pussy one way or another. Pussy isn't like air it cost folding money. Either you pay for it outright or you dollar here dollar there. You take a lady to dinner you spend 75 to 100 on really good meal. Go out to a club spend 100 on drinks and such. End up eating a late night snack opps another 25 so ends up you pay about 250 for a date and might get her in the sack might not. and isn't 250 about the going rate now for a provider and YOU KNOW YOU WILL BE GET PUSSY. mmmmmm. with a provider you know and trust vs a sugardaddy who might say i want more and make a sense or cause a mess. give me the silent but steady provider.

[Nina Rae]

If you're going to nickle and dime it, are you really ready to be someone's SD? Likely not. I maintain SD relationships throughout my time providing, but it has nothing to do with the economy. Sometimes you just want to be with someone who knows you well, and who you know. It also is fostered by doing things together other than sex. Yes, we have a lot of sex, and yes, he provides a different amount entirely (and it may appear that he gets far more in return). But the truth of the matter is, most of them want more than a body. They want to be able to chat, hang out, enjoy things together is a more relaxed fashion, etc.

Providers are women too, and sometimes we enjoy doing those things with men. However its not the same as an OTC date. With an SD, nothing ever feels OTC, its just been taken care of already with the monthly arrangement amount. You may agree to see one another three times a month, twice a week, or whatever. What you do in that time is up to the two. Maybe sex, maybe a movie, maybe dinner, whatever he likes. And that is the difference.

[Guest052912]

My sister is on that site. She has met a few potential SD on there. Only problem is she gets disappointed because most guys she meets on there want BBFS. This is something she is not willing to do. I tell her just to come over to my side but she is not willing to become a real hooker yet.. Lol I tell her she already is one with a different title.

[essence]

@Nina +1
@Audrina -1, she needs to find the right guy, I never BBFS even with a girl I have known for years. If they want BBFS they are not ready to be a SD.

I was a SD of my avatar girl, sex with somebody you are friends with is totally different to sex with an hourly girl.

Hmmm I voted NO, I'm doomed!

[landon]

BBFS will get one of them knocked up - then a guy has a support suit.

IDK about other guys there but I am not out to do bareback FS. My goal was curiosity and then a good deal on POP. The gal I met Sat wants to meet again on Friday - so far average POP $60. The site touts the idea of a SD giving some monthly arrangement amount for some kind of dating / sex relationship. The reality, is those gals will need to meet that high bidder then. Most of them are no competetion for strippers offering $150 - $200 itc sex let alone some of the BP escourts with specials even lower than that.

[Looker4400]

Joined arrangement and suggardaddie a couple days ago. Received 54 messages from sugardaddie and 5 from arrangement already. Havent upgraded the memberships yet...kinda wondering how many of these contacts are truely players?

[landon]

Originally Posted by Looker4400

Joined arrangement and suggardaddie a couple days ago. Received 54 messages from sugardaddie and 5 from arrangement already. Havent upgraded the memberships yet...kinda wondering how many of these contacts are truely players?

Its $50 to upgrade at Seeking Arr. I received 28 messg first few days and 4 or 5 sent E Mails. Met one who I did at motel 2x in one session for $120. Will meet her again Friday. Another one was wanting to meet (but way on other side of town) and then a college girl pair wanted to meet too but were inquiring about the amount of the contribution.

These are Civilian gals who want to get in the game so the smart ones will play the others who are full of themselves have no idea they are competeting with strippers and providers. Don't be buffaloed by some gal saying she expects x $ from a SD. Its sorta like SS - just meet her for dinner (or even better at motel) and make her an offer then screw her silly. Getting money for it she will come back for more. I think a lot of this SD thing is a way for some of these gals to maniupulate guys who cant get pussy (who aren't SC Players or Hobbyists) into getting handouts and loans without having to do sex.