Strip Club vs Private Entertainment??

[DaisyDahl4u]

I wanted to post this in the strip club forum but it appears females are not allowed to post there so I will post it here.

Before I was legal of legal age I always fantasized about being a Stripper. Once I turned 18 I started to strip at Huistler's In Baltimore, MD. I always had Exhibitionist Fantasies and they were somewhat realized when I worked Nude. When I moved to Austin I found there to be too many restrictions and I got tired of the drama, drugs and alcohol associated with them.

I started doing Private Entertainment and found it to be way better because i could get fully nude, allow touching and sucking as well as cock-play. In addition I love putting on the Toy Shows for men...which of course you are not able to do in clubs.

My Question for Discussion is: Would you rather go to a Strip Club or would you rather see a Private Entertainer in Private? What are the Pros & Cons...if any?

[Whispers]

250 - $300 usually get you 4 hours of mpcfs and bbbj with a good-looking spinner out of a strip club so what's not to love about fucking strippers?

The only real problem I've ever seen over the years has to do with going back into the same Club after you take one out of it and you have to deal with her getting jealous that you want to spend time and money on another one.

[Frissionary]

If I'm seeing someone in private it's for FS, not for a private show. I can get a show at a strip club, and the other things you mention (touching, sucking, cock-play) are also available in strip clubs if you really want it. That being said, I prefer meeting in private since clubs are too much hassle and time.

[3daygetaway]

The two are SO different; the only commonality is girls leave with cash, guys leave with blue balls.

[DaisyDahl4u]

Originally Posted by Whispers

250 - $300 usually get you 4 hours of mpcfs and bbbj with a good-looking spinner out of a strip club so what's not to love about fucking strippers?

The only real problem I've ever seen over the years has to do with going back into the same Club after you take one out of it and you have to deal with her getting jealous that you want to spend time and money on another one.

Yeah that is part of the drama that I got tired of. Some girls get very "territorial"

[DaisyDahl4u]

Originally Posted by DaisyDahl4u

Yeah that is part of the drama that I got tired of. Some girls get very "territorial"

Well guys DO NOT leave with blue balls when they visit me.....well except for one guy but it was intentional because he wanted to go home and do the wife

[CoitusMaximus]

Interesting. Strip Clubs have their appeal, and for me, it's usually about sight seeing and drinking before actually settling down for fun. An ideal world would be a date with a lady or two to a strip club, drinks and play in the club with the girls, then back to a private location for the real fun. Take away the buzz and "entertainment" to just start dancing with the bose stereo, while it could be a sexy way to start a session, to me isn't comparable. The problem is I'm not paying FS rates for a few hours of club time with ladies. I understand 'money is for time' but thats just too much investment for me in exchange for the experience. If a lady or two I'd been visiting with wanted dinner, drinks, and fun on the clock after- game on. I'm sure it'd be a steep bar tab, that that'd be worth it.

[CoitusMaximus]

Oh, and allow me to elaborate on 'drinks and fun' afterwards...



I'm a huge fan of tequila...

[Luvdatpuddy]

It's a tough one - both situations have their appeal in a way, but I don't think I would go the private dance route. Maybe the way I look at is different from others, but here it goes.

In the private dance scene, you're committing to a rate (hourly or whatever) with only a description of what might happen (which, for legal reasons, tends to be vague at best) and possibly some pictures (which may be bait and switch, or so old as to be non-representative). The potential for a disappointing time is pretty high compared to the likely upside.

In the strip club scene, you're getting a real-time take on the ladies, physical as well as mental (sorry...I know it's like finding a needle in a haystack, but I try to figure out which ones aren't too crazy). You can also ask more pointed questions about what you will get for your investment, and gauge their attitude about it. You might cycle through a few people or clubs to find what you're looking for, but the research dollars are fairly minimal in comparison.

Also, in the strip club situation, you can decide when or if to engage...if you want to mellow out, check out some ladies for a while, and have a few drinks, you absolutely can. In the private case, I would assume the clock starts as soon as you walk in - can't really relax or play it by ear. In the first case, you're wasting your time (or enjoying, depending on your viewpoint) - in the second, if you didn't maximize your fun, you're wasting time and money.

If I had some certainty that I was going to enjoy a private show (met the woman, had a pulse on where/how it would go, some kind of vibe, that sort of thing), I might consider it, but sight unseen...nah, I wouldn't do that. While I am hardly the most prolific person on here, the number of times that I've had a lady talk up a great energizing pornesque romp is far more frequent than when they actually delivered that (not to be demeaning to any ladies I've seen, but I don't think I've ever had an experience that matched the marketing), so I tend not to take them at their word anymore - proof is in the actions, not the sales pitch.

[JadeRose]

Originally Posted by CoitusMaximus

Oh, and allow me to elaborate on 'drinks and fun' afterwards...



I'm a huge fan of tequila...

Wooo. Salt that close to the pussy, made my eyes burn!

[knotty man]

Originally Posted by JadeRose

Wooo. Salt that close to the pussy, made my eyes burn!

Where are you eyes ?!!

[CoitusMaximus]

Yeah, I also don't normally take salt with my shots or my pussy. Still looked yummy!

[DaisyDahl4u]

Originally Posted by CoitusMaximus

Interesting. Strip Clubs have their appeal, and for me, it's usually about sight seeing and drinking before actually settling down for fun. An ideal world would be a date with a lady or two to a strip club, drinks and play in the club with the girls, then back to a private location for the real fun. Take away the buzz and "entertainment" to just start dancing with the bose stereo, while it could be a sexy way to start a session, to me isn't comparable. The problem is I'm not paying FS rates for a few hours of club time with ladies. I understand 'money is for time' but thats just too much investment for me in exchange for the experience. If a lady or two I'd been visiting with wanted dinner, drinks, and fun on the clock after- game on. I'm sure it'd be a steep bar tab, that that'd be worth it.

Thanks for the input. My limited experience tells me men who go to Strip Clubs are predominantly voyeurs and prefer the Tease. Most know they are not going to get to take a Stripper home and yet many are willing to drop some serious cash on drinks and lap dances. When I did work the clubs I had regulars who would come in often just to have me entertain them for a few hours and never asked about after hour "extras." Those were the ones that really made me feel special.

[DaisyDahl4u]

Originally Posted by CoitusMaximus

Oh, and allow me to elaborate on 'drinks and fun' afterwards...



I'm a huge fan of tequila...

This is awesome. I am going to have to get my Photograper to recreate my version of this