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SeaDog · 02-15-2010, 12:33 AM

How Important to you is a Providers Ethics and Character?

I feel VERY strongly that the ethics and character of the person with whom I choose to spend my time is extremely important.

I'm talking about basic goodwill, honesty, and pride in their job. Respect for others. Treat people as you would like to be treated. A real work ethic.

How important is an ECCIE provider's Character to you. as a hobbyist?

Not CL or BP or whatever site touring girls frequent. I'm referring to the ladies that participate and advertise on this board and in this community on a regular basis.

Please feel free to express your thoughts.

MrGiz · 02-15-2010, 12:50 AM

Extremely Important!

Good looks , a fine body , and sexual talent are, as well..... but without the qualities you mentioned.... I look elsewhere!

I could give good looking , fine as hell examples.... but I think you get the idea!!

Giz

MuffDVR · 02-15-2010, 01:12 AM

Seadog, its a fair question but the one true problem you will find with most opinions you will get is that the people who talk the most on a board, usually spend the least and hobby the least, so their opinion isnt really accurate in trying to find a true general concensus every time.

Truth is, while nobody here is going to admit it often in open forum, we are mostly middle aged men, its kinda like buying a corvette, sure the quality sucks and the expense is high, but it looks good runs great and makes us feel like a million bucks, in the end, the provider could be a total spaz, but as long as she runs good, looks good and makes us feel great, shes going to be busy. Not knocking anyone elses opinion on this, hell my opinion is just that, others may feel different but i have seen the numbers and numbers rarely lie.

SofaKingFun · 02-15-2010, 01:25 AM

Character is an important factor to me. This holds true for a provider as well as hobbyists comments made in regard to them. I'm a pretty good judge of character and unless a trusted member/friend tells me or leads me to believe differently, I usually take those kind of comments with a Texas-sized grain of sand. Face it, there are turds on both sides of this deal.

But yes, a person's character plays a very important part in my decision making process.

DATYMAN · 02-15-2010, 09:18 AM

Concur w/ Giz! Ditto.

Outdoorsman · 02-15-2010, 09:47 AM

Character is the only way I make a repeat session. And if anyone who has seen this board lately realizes I repeat pretty often. I agree with Giz and Seadog, but for me it goes further. I could be with an honest, etihcal, and good woman but not feel that we are compatible and I will not repeat. That being said, if I do not repreat it says nothing about the character of the lady, it merely means I did not feel too compatible, thats all.

For me, integrity is very important. I do not ask a lady to attempt to make me feel like I am the only man in the world. Hell, I do not have a problem with separating fantasy from reality, I know what you do for a living and frankly I am more than okay with that. I had a provider once tell me, "that while I am with you, I am your girlfriend." Thats all I ask and honestly all I want. So, for me integrity is important, I do not know if this hobby has a set of ethics, but if not then morality is important to me as well.

Just my .02

stavinChain · 02-15-2010, 10:39 AM

I don't give a damn WHAT a Provider does outside of a session. I don't think you'll find many Providers with the 'ethics and character' of a nun.

It's all about the Quality of the Session. If I feel like a King when I walk out of that room, I'm going back for more.

MrGiz · 02-15-2010, 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stavinChain

I don't give a damn WHAT a Provider does outside of a session. I don't think you'll find many Providers with the 'ethics and character' of a nun.

It's all about the Quality of the Session. If I feel like a King when I walk out of that room, I'm going back for more.

I think you might be confusing "virtue" with "ethics"! Would you even want the virtue of a nun?

I'm pretty sure it was "Hobby Ethics" that SD was referring to!!

Just a hunch...

P.S. - I agree with your last sentence!!

Giz

stavinChain · 02-15-2010, 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrGiz

I think you might be confusing "virtue" with "ethics"!

Giz

I know the difference, thank you.

Leaving town for a few daze. Happy Gras everyone!

SeaDog · 02-15-2010, 03:13 PM

bump

Guest020112 · 02-18-2010, 01:16 PM

So, it wouldnt bother you guys if a provider had a nasty pimp that knew all your private information, or the provider had recently embezzled hundreds of thousands of dollars or some such other nonsense? whatever happened to honor among thieves?

Outdoorsman · 02-18-2010, 01:44 PM

It bothers me when a provider has all my info, I am fortunate I only had to do it once and references seem to work now. So, no I do not want a nasty pimp having my info.

I can easily reverse the question kate. Would you turn down a client who embezzled hundres of thousands of dollars? I would turn down the provider for being stupid enough to let me know. If she is that dumb what is she doing with my info? If it became public knowledge that she did something wrong I still wopuld not want to see her as publicity is not something I am looking for.

Hobbihorse2 · 02-18-2010, 03:17 PM

How important is it for you to respect the provider you are with? If that is an important factor, then ethics and character gets more attention. (I will not even get into "whether a hobbyist can respect a provider or not" discussion. If you are willing to discuss this, then we know which side of the debate you are on). On the other hand, if all you want is to get your rocks off or a hard body or a set of MMs, then I don't see why you would care about the providers' character.

HH

Guest020112 · 02-18-2010, 08:55 PM

I was talking about hobby related embezzlement. No, I wouldnt see someone who embezzled from escorts, obviously. I should have specified, embezzled from a hobbyists wife. For a one time tryst I see your point guys, but not for too many times. Who needs that. Plenty of pretty packages.

Jacquie · 02-18-2010, 10:18 PM

I'm going to go with Giz on this one. Obviously ethics related to the Roman Catholic Church are going to be polar opposites of the Provider World. That point is really rather irrelevant.

I expect to be treated with the same respect you would want to be treated with. After all, if you come into a session with the mentality that you are going to take as much as you can (because you're throwing around cash) without treating me well, I will adjust myself accordingly. While I hold the opinion that all gentlemen callers deserve my utmost attention during a sesh, I expect that they will uphold certain ethical standards themselves--hug + tushy pinch on the way in, white envelope within my site, hygiene standards, etc. I maintain that I offer a gfe service, so if you're not into that, book with someone else. Otherwise, you're at a loss for compatibility before you walked in the door. We providers post on these board to give both spectators and participators in the boards a piece of our personalities so that it might aide in their quest for the perfect paid partner. It makes the whole thing more exciting, like a hot rendezvous with an old friend.

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