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elegant bella · 03-27-2011, 12:36 PM

I've been receiving some random calls that don't work out, Ive noticed theres some real creeps out there....
Ive been to one address twice , once at 10pm & 3am and same thing guy answers door look like i woke him out of deep sleep, upset and no idea as to who i am or why i am there, ive recieved more calls for the same address, guy sounds cool, experienced and could be in late 30's. I have'nt wasted my time again but I have'nt cussed him out for playing with me. Then another place as well same issue off of hester's crossing, but a dyke answers door second time he requested my company, took a chance and bullcrap again said I was the second girl to come by and be looking for someone, that only she lives there. there's others but what is this? Bored, ignorant, or just plain jerk offs is what's behind all this?? Sometimes I think It could be someone dangerous waiting for the right time to attack or just some weird or super shy freak watching me arrive from somewhere near. Has anyone else experienced this events? but other than 1% of half men, I love the Austin vibe and I've been meeting interesting cool horny fun men, keep it gentlemen, you make me happy to be a girl!!

Chellablaine · 03-27-2011, 01:00 PM

Do you screen at all? I mean, if you did, you would know exactly who you are going to see. Especially if you have a home address. Maybe you should take some time to learn properly and keep yourself safe. Your a very easy target for a psycho and you are placing yourself in dangerous situations.

Chica Chaser · 03-27-2011, 01:07 PM

One of you ladies PLEASE talk to to her about screening....today! This is a disaster looking for a place to happen.

Valerie · 03-27-2011, 01:14 PM

Belinda- send me an email love...

Naomi4u · 03-27-2011, 01:18 PM

PLEASE EMAIL VALERIE!!! This is a trainwreck waiting to happen!!

hobbyist1 · 03-27-2011, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

One of you ladies PLEASE talk to to her about screening....today! This is a disaster looking for a place to happen.

Also please suggest she use incall when first meeting a new client, as opposed to outcall. Too dangerous, unless of course she can't do incall for whatever reasons.

Naomi4u · 03-27-2011, 01:27 PM

Who does an outcall at 3am? Please OP stop! Contact Valerie and head on over to Amazon.com and buy Amanda Brook's book! I also recommeded Erin's Myers escort aristocracy. Heck Erin has amazing screening tips for free! I provided links!

elegant bella · 03-27-2011, 01:33 PM

How else should I screen??I do sneak in a mini interview when booking just to get the vibe and info right. I had checked out area, decent nice apts and other is middle-upper middle class and spoke to them various times before leaving and arriving. What methods should use to better determine B*S*. Thanks for the replies.

Naomi4u · 03-27-2011, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by elegant bella

How else should I screen??I do sneak in a mini interview when booking just to get the vibe and info right. I had checked out area, decent nice apts and other is middle-upper middle class and spoke to them various times before leaving and arriving. What methods should use to better determine B*S*. Thanks for the replies.

A.) See my post above. If you do the research you can find screening tips on the web.
You can find even better tips however.

B.) Don't post your number. You'll get nothing but guys requesting to see you last minute. Guys are usually not going to give personal info over the phone so screen by email. Tell them to contact you via email that after screening you'll give them your personal contact number. You might lose some calls going this route though.. some guys wants Ms Right now so If you are Ms Right now don't go the email route.

C.) Contact Valerie. She's a very smart girl and has helped me a lot in this hobby. She will give you wonderful advice.

D.) There is no such thing like vibes. I'm sure the cragistlist killer was once a great reference. you have to screen. He didn't give ANYONE his personal info did he? NO. Yes your instincts will save your ass from getting arrested and from a bad client but don't just rely on your instincts... ok?

elegant bella · 03-27-2011, 01:39 PM

I'm a night owl sweetie and I enjoy the nightlife! I was born in new york city & live on south beach now so sorry it's a surprise that there are straight cool and safe gentlemen up and enjoying life. I asked for advice not ridicule.

Naomi4u · 03-27-2011, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by elegant bella

I'm a night owl sweetie and I enjoy the nightlife! I was born in new york city & live on south beach now so sorry it's a surprise that there are straight cool and safe gentlemen up and enjoying life. I asked for advice not ridicule.

NO ONE is making fun of you. We are looking out for you. Sorry if you took that the wrong way. See my posts about the books and screening tips.

elegant bella · 03-27-2011, 01:45 PM

I will. Thanks

am-a-pleaser · 03-27-2011, 02:10 PM

We want everyone to stay safe and not be taken advatage of.

I hate that anyone would play games on you or anyone else. New kids (Guys and girls) are taken advatage of in many ways. And somone with a sick sense of humor is either playing you, or playing the guy whose house you arrive at.

We are all sincere in wanting to make sure you aren't played, taken advantage of or otherwise abused, hurt or harmed.

You're a beautiful girl. Have fun and play safe.

AmericanGeisha · 03-27-2011, 02:20 PM

It was prob a joke , someone being a dick . Only see guys who have seen other ladies + you talk to the provider 1ST. It is just not worth your time going there unless you know its 4 real .You can go to escorting 101 on the ladies section there are alot of tips on there or hire a screener there are plenty providers on here who do that on the side ,at least to you learn it ! XOXO

Fast Gunn · 03-27-2011, 03:12 PM

Sorry to hear about your ordeal, Elegant Bella.

Judging just from your description of the events, they have all the earmarks of a typical college prank.

During my college days, I remember that it was considered a badge of honor to come up with some elaborate prank and be able to pull it off on an unsuspecting victim.

Be more alert for this sort of juvenile mischief especially during spring break, but in the meantime, I highly advise you to ask for references and board handles and run a check on them.

Some of these young punks may have smarts academically, but are too young to have developed any judgment and are still too dumb to even realize it!