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Wyattholliday · 02-07-2017, 05:22 PM

Not all of us on the client End are so desperate and horny that we are willing to sacrifice our real world lives in reputations by not doing our own research and homework to try and make sure that a provider we are meeting with is legit .

Normally when I see safety talked about I see it from the end of the provider wanting to screen the client to make sure that he is not law-enforcement and is safe. But over the last few weeks as I am new to the hobby and I have tried to do my homework on providers I have encountered more than a few that seem offended that I would try to screen them in someway . This baffles me as I am the kind of client most girls would want which is to say that I am 40 a gentleman plenty of disposable income kind courteous and intelligent . But more than a few have absolutely cut me off and refused to text or talk any further simply because I'm trying to gain a little more screening info to make sure that it is safe to meet with them.

I understand it's a give-and-take on both sides and that a little bit of trust has to be involved for the initial encounter. But copping an attitude immediately and getting really offended just seems counterproductive to me .

I would think providers would want dies who want to make sure that proper screening has taken place and that it safe to meet? Am I off-base here?

slinmo · 02-07-2017, 05:43 PM

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slinmo · 02-07-2017, 05:45 PM

IMO, generally speaking, no, you are not off base at all. Some of these girls think safety is only about them. Well, it isnt. They need to remember that we are the customer, not them. I don't know what information you are reqyesting, but if it's reasonable and they get offended or won't respond, just move on. Plenty of other choices available, their loss.

If a lady has 15 or 20 positive reviews and I can verify her pictures, that's probably enough for me. But 2 to 5 reviews isn't enough. Too many pimps, WKs and providers posting reviews themselves to trust just that.

I've had girls go dark because I asked if they had reviews or references. If they do that, it's a red flag to me and I look elsewhere.

Never,ever sacrifice your safety, and you decide what safety means to you, for any girl. If they won't cooperate,there's probably a reason and you should run away, fast.

The flip side is true as well. Some girls screening is too difficult or too intrusive. I avoid those also.

jerl0817 · 02-07-2017, 07:07 PM

I have always been of the believe that the more we know about each other the more comfortable we will be. The more comfortable we are with each other the better the chances of a good session. The ones that resist, I pull away.

DallasRain · 02-07-2017, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by jerl0817

I have always been of the believe that the more we know about each other the more comfortable we will be. The more comfortable we are with each other the better the chances of a good session. The ones that resist, I pull away.

amen baby.........safety & discretion are so important in making a session comfortable for both parties............I am semi newbie friendly but am a lil more picky at hjome casue I use my private residence as my incall

Guest123018-2 · 02-07-2017, 09:32 PM

I also use my personal residence as an in-call. I am newbie friendly but I still do a bit of screening. I seem to get alot of short notice guys (an hour or less) and that's hard for me to do since I do use my home for work. Between school and family, I do what I can do. I'd be happy to provide a bit of info on myself as long as its mutual. I'm a Capricorn so trust is a really important thing to me.

StaceyMay · 02-12-2017, 08:50 AM

I have no problems with "proving' who I am, with my reviews and the people who I choose to associate myself with her on the boards, I believe that alone speaks volumes as to the fact I am safe and legit. But if there were a couple questions as to who I am were asked, I am pretty much an open book.
One thing that will push me towards NOT seeing someone is if they are interested in trading several details as to what can/will or not happen in session, I do not like to discuss details of a potential meet, I figure if my range of reviews is NOT enough information for a gent to want to see me, then maybe we wouldn't be a good match .
Safety and security are both HIGH priority to me, as I typically ask the guy if make-up and perfume are ok, because I don't want anything to stop us from enjoying our time together!!! Just as what I wear for our first appt is for my comfort level.

Hot Summer · 03-09-2017, 03:37 PM

Guess it depends on how much homework your doing

not all ladies wanna chat for weeks before setting up a session hun......and there's so many legit providers with great reviews maybe you should lean towards that its less home work and more play !

DallasRain · 03-09-2017, 07:08 PM

you have me as a ref now babe...so you know I will give yopu a kickass reference! No need for giving too much personal info to other providers.

HoustonRiley · 03-20-2017, 08:06 AM

That's why you see women with visable standing credentials.

This is eccie. Not Backpage. So you can't behave as though it is.

Do your research before you contact the provider.
If a guy was rude enough to contact me and act like I'm not or might not be who my reviews clearly say I am. Then there's no way I could see him or enjoy the session.

This is eccie. We are verified by email . drivers license. Age.....
This isn't Backpage where it's hit or miss and you don't know what going to be on the other side of the door.

Sounds like a guy who doesn't quite get how shit works. Also sounds uppity. Dude you're paying for pussy. Not going on a date. You're not getting married to her....
. Is it her?
Does she have current reviews?
Do the reviews reflect the type of Session you seek ?
If you're expecting to know her other job. Her kids names. Her full government name and blah blah blah
You're in the wrong Hobby.

Yes you want to be safe but again this is not Backpage. You're not screening me to see me. The site verifies and gentleman before you have left reviews to tell you all about it. I'm screening you. For safty. Mem are here with no verifications no nothing. Any random man could join for free or buy premium access hence screening. Womem can't create years of fake pics and reviews. It's either really her or not. It's pretty simple

Sarah Renee · 04-29-2017, 03:54 PM

I can tell you that any client that has Dallas Rain as a reference and has reviewed her, goes straight through screening with me. I learned early on who I could trust and who I couldn't. She is the bomb and I know if she has opened her door to someone, then they are okay to see.

As far as screening a provider, I don't think you understand the hoops we have to jump through to become verified on here. It's not a matter of signing up and setting up a profile. We have to prove we are legit and have other providers verify we are as well.

If you addressed the provider in the to be of your post, I can see why she got upset and gave you attitude. While you may have the donation, she has something you want that absolutely no one else on this earth can give you. HERSELF AND HER SKILLS.

It's a two way street here. Neither side is independent of needing the other to make this work. Without the other, this ceases to exist. If hobbyist would stop acting superior and providers would stop acting golden, then everyone might actually get along better. (That was a general statement. If you took offense, maybe you should ask yourself why.)

Why don't we all just forget the fusing, get naked, and release some tension?