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Old 10-16-2016, 04:48 PM   #1
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I am NOT a member of Eccie but for a few months? I am a long-term hobbyist just on other sites. Is it normal for a provider to request, "Name, Picture, and Employment info." Prior to accepting a meeting?

Provider is higher range of investment. Contacted using Eccie PM so my few reviews and post are available, provide my call name on other site. I will not disclose provider info. Appreciate other providers input also. I never had this level of verification prior. Regardless, I will respect providers right to vet, not question her requests, and not contact her again.

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Old 10-16-2016, 05:49 PM   #2
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I always question this....and I ALWAYS put the ladies comfort and safety first. If I'm seeing a lady for the first time, and I contact her through P411 for example, if she still asks this on top of my 48 ok's there, I usually pass as I like my privacy as much as she does. No harm no foul.

That being said, I dont do a lot of reviews since it will usually be a review on a well reviewed lady and will be a repeat of what has already been said about her.....unless she asks. I am not hobbying much so IDC about access to the "Mens Only" board....especially since anytime I have posted about a lady in there she usually finds out about it....so I rely on P411.

Go with your gut on how much info you want to provide....

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Old 10-16-2016, 10:12 PM   #3
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Name and employment have always been the standard used by a lot of providers for verification. Sending a picture is something new, but I think it might be their way of checking social media to see if you are who you say you are. I guess girls are now doing their on "Google Image" searches.

As always, a lady is free to chose the way she wants to vet/screen. It is her call, and I will not disrespect her right. Having said that, I will never give a provider my real name or my employment information. My rationale is that if she wants that info, I should be able to get the same info from her. We all know there is a fat chance of that happening. Now, if it is a provider I really want to see, I will ask if she has alternative methods of screening. I always mention that I'm a P411 member. Also, in all my communications with here, I treat her like a lady and as if I were wanting our meeting to be like a first date. I've found that some ladies will drop some of the harsher requirements for vetting/screening if you actually treat them like a woman than an object. I've found that for the most part, a lady will use her gut 90% of the time on whether or not to see a guy and not just the tools she uses.
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Old 10-16-2016, 10:28 PM   #4
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I agree the best way to get tho most the Vet-ing is to be on P411 and it will make it so easy Man I think you should think about joining the site. You have seen 2 p411 girls get one of them to invite you to the site. What are you wanting on ,the 1st 6 mo. is free.

If you get on most all the girls that have ever screened me has taken my P411 and my OK's on there.

It could open up a hole new world for you.
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Old 10-16-2016, 10:35 PM   #5
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I agree the best way to get tho most the Vet-ing is to be on P411 and it will make it so easy Man I think you should think about joining the site. You have seen 2 p411 girls get one of them to invite you to the site. What are you wanting on ,the 1st 6 mo. is free.

If you get on most all the girls that have ever screened me has taken my P411 and my OK's on there.

It could open up a hole new world for you.
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Old 10-17-2016, 05:42 AM   #6
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I contacted A-N about 2 months through the board,she requested everything your saying but not a picture,she said because i only had 8 reviews on the board,i told her i have been a member since day one,and could give her dozens of ladies handles from this board, i just didnt review much,just the way her messages were written rubbed me wrong,i told her i would pass and at the time i reminded her she only had 4 reviews,she acted like she had golden pussy.
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Old 10-17-2016, 08:14 AM   #7
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Thank you ALL for your responses. It seems the central theme is always be a gentlemen. Odds are better. Also, 411 is an option. Finally respect the response and move on.

Lowgear, my experience was smooth and seamless with provider below. Your point also tells me timing and number of confirmed booking make a difference. Good provider, try again.

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I contacted A-N about 2 months through the board,she requested everything your saying but not a picture,she said because i only had 8 reviews on the board,i told her i have been a member since day one,and could give her dozens of ladies handles from this board, i just didnt review much,just the way her messages were written rubbed me wrong,i told her i would pass and at the time i reminded her she only had 4 reviews,she acted like she had golden pussy.
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Old 10-18-2016, 02:08 AM   #8
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I contacted A-N about 2 months through the board,she requested everything your saying but not a picture,she said because i only had 8 reviews on the board,i told her i have been a member since day one,and could give her dozens of ladies handles from this board, i just didnt review much,just the way her messages were written rubbed me wrong,i told her i would pass and at the time i reminded her she only had 4 reviews,she acted like she had golden pussy.
Had the same problem at one time with her too. Wasn't until recently that a provider we were mutually acquainted with paved the way. She's actually very cautious with new clients for good reason. But once I talked to her I found out the attitude was more of an acid litmus test to check for sincerity of intent rather than GPS. She's had more than a few time wasters lately. Rubbed me the wrong way at first too.

Be persistent, it will pay off. Did for me.
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ATTITUDE POSITIVE,we are talking about two different providers,A-N is not anna lane
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Old 10-18-2016, 06:42 AM   #10
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LowGear:

You are correct. I got confused on your handle letters for provider. That was my mistake. My intent was not to bring up specific provider names. When you brought up two call letters, my reference was in deed to somebody else to whom I had a very positive experience.

I have never met or talk to the other provider in question. Hope that sets the record straight.

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Old 10-20-2016, 12:10 AM   #11
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Always do what YOU are comfortable with. If you dont want them having your info move along.
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The strategy I took was immediately responded with humor and let the provider know I would respectfully not contact her again. Kept the door open for her. I will honor my commitment. Thanks again.

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Old 10-20-2016, 07:22 AM   #13
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I contacted a well known provider yesterday and told her I would like to see her when she visited.I also gave her a reference of a very well known provider.SHe sent me a reply(please send me your name,age,race,occupation,and cellphone number)so I can contact the reference.I replied back with my age,race.and told her that all she needed to contact said provider with was my screen name.needless to say I never heard back from her,so I sent her a PM saying thanks for your first reply,but I have booked with another lady.UPDATE at 8 am this morning she sends me a message could you provide me a physical description and a phone number.I replies back nicely saying I sent you a message last night that I booked with another lady.Guess a rat told her I was a midget with a little dick.lol
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This is why I started this thread. I have actually read the posts on this thread a couple of times. As what happened to you, the consensus is Vetting goes both ways. If either side of the transaction feel something is not quite right, they change choose to move forward or not. In talking to some valued providers, sometimes a comment or tone in a communication freaks out the provider and they increase the vetting process.

What this tread did for me personally was prove safety and vetting goes both ways. Each of us don't connect with everyone we meet. When that happens, we use common senses and go with our gut. MOST IMPORTANTLY, it is NOT a put down, rejection, insulting or punishment; it is simply a gut decision. Keep the door open and move on.

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I contacted a well known provider yesterday and told her I would like to see her when she visited.I also gave her a reference of a very well known provider.SHe sent me a reply(please send me your name,age,race,occupation,and cellphone number)so I can contact the reference.I replied back with my age,race.and told her that all she needed to contact said provider with was my screen name.needless to say I never heard back from her,so I sent her a PM saying thanks for your first reply,but I have booked with another lady.UPDATE at 8 am this morning she sends me a message could you provide me a physical description and a phone number.I replies back nicely saying I sent you a message last night that I booked with another lady.Guess a rat told her I was a midget with a little dick.lol

I have never done that. And yes, I know A-N is me. Amazing I have 34 oks on a site and there are many others that do not ask for oks after multiple sessions.. I am good. I have never asked such questions. I want screening for us both. I am a fun person. Please refrain from casting me as a hard ass. I am really nice and enjoy. I am sorry that my screening has upset some. I like to be safe.
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